#outofsuits

[spectrum-skull]

Hey Peeps Sorry I haven't been active on here much, I still love my boy but my muse for any of the MSA characters has been very low to nonexistent right now. I've been over on my other accounts more, @fastfists and @siixkiing if you are interested. I'll try to come back here when the muse rises again...but I promise I am okay and such. Just haven't had any muse for my boi, which is a shame cause I love the Rainboo so much and I know others do too.

[wilhelmj08]

Man I haven't kept up with like any OW lore. What up peeps?

[ironxhero]

Me and @starforcecommander

Starforcecommander: *Tries to make illogical half sentences to express confusion*

also starforcecommander: *accidently makes full sentences that actually make sense instead*

[ironxxhero]

I have to do a little venting as I have been thinking about this all day, analyzing and all included:

Why someone approaching me in the fashion “Hey, if you want to interact, message me” bothers me so much:

You actively put yourself in a passive position. That is sending two messages (or maybe more) that can be interpreted by the other person in different ways depending on their experiences in the fandom, their insecurities and something as simple as having a good day or not.

Message 1: “Hey I want to rp with you, but I don’t dare to outright ask you to”. That in itself isn’t a bad message to relay, but here is the thing: By messaging a person alone you are overcoming a HUGE obstacle in communication: You are starting the communication! You approach a stranger! That takes COURAGE! But you see yourself as not courageous enough to ask outright for an rp? Why? Because experience taught you people can be difficult to approach? People say no sometimes?  So what? YOU had the COURAGE to approach others! Trust me there are plenty of rpers out there who usually don’t bring up that courage! Own it! You had the courage, you tried, you rocked it. You approached someone!

Message 2: And this is where your courage to approach someone might get squashed in that passive approach: “Hey, I see you, but you are not important enough for me to ask you to rp, if you really want to, you have to work for it”. I probably don’t have to tell anybody why this message is not a message you want to send. For the more insecure rpers, who will read that message this way, it will turn them away. Insecure rpers who already have trouble approaching people might not put you on the list of people they want to approach, because whether you wanted to or not, you accidentally put yourself a step above the other.

So long story short, here’s a few little something you should keep in mind:

If you want to rp with someone and approach them be active about it! You had the courage to approach someone, you ROCK! 

Keep in mind that other rpers might be insecure. Be active about your approach to them, because it opens up a conversation much more positively!

If the other person doesn’t want to rp with you, chances are they would have declined you no matter if you were active or passive about your approach. And keep in mind: Not everyone has to like you or want to rp with you, we all write our own stories, we all are the heroes of our own stories, some people just aren’t meant to be in them and that is okay.

Your way to interpret your muse is unique! Nobody else has the same version of your muse as you do! You are allowed to be proud of that and you should be!

Active writing is in itself more open and positive than passive writing. Passive writing comes with a sense of distance.

[tonystark-iamironman]

And I am going to do some threads that contain Endgame spoilers they will be tagged as Endgame spoilers, endgame, and spoilers 

[looksgoodinsuits]

Hello

I'm sorry, my blog has been on hiatus for so long. Just wanted you all to know I miss you loads and I hope someday I can write Ianto once again in the future.

[hopefulpride]

Adding this gif because I laugh so hard when I see it!!! Anyways, I am off work and ready to rp and goof off. I’m being positive even if I am nervous but you have all been very kind. Excuse my gif, again I am random. I hold no regrets!! Whoever made this is G0D!! I wish to meet you one day I feel like we have the same sense of humor!!

Like this for a starter and I will message you to discuss or I can just send an ask doesn’t really matter to me I’m just excited to be here.

[ironxxhero]

I am so confused and blessed and blushing hardcore. For someone who is super insecure about their writing and personality, this means a lot!!! Thank you!

Also @thenamesallison, @kreeborn, @soulstcne STAAAAAAAAHP <3

@ircnxstark

[wirecuttcr]

I’ve had this blog for 3 days but if you blame Pepper if she ever gets another partner after Tony, I want u to leave

[icausedwar]

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Just poppin’ in real quick, but yesterday was this blog’s 6 year birthday, and I just wanted to say thank you to everyone who has ever taken time to get to write with me, and interact, and such. Its meant the world to me. 

[saxophonesandcuesticks]

(tis I, the gross potato behind the blo g)

[spectrum-skull]

Just encase anyone has wondered where I have been...I am over on either @fastfists or setting up my newest account @siixkiing. Might also be on @lxkexbxss or @jxpxnese-txrtle since those muses are also stirring.

[ironxhero]

Me: I am home

My AI: Welcome home! Please tell the cat to stop torturing me!

Me: What cat???? We don't have a cat!

I love living with an AI, especially when weird stuff like that happens! (And yes this is Mun things)

[ironxxhero]

Hiatus

{ So I am moving on the 10th/13th. Until then there is a lot to do still, after as well so me being here will be super spotty. }

[five-fucked-up-nights]

[ Bendy and The Ink Machine characters have been added to the blog, and are now available for RP/Asks! Find them here! ]

[ask-springsecurity]

(Guess who isn’t dead! Can’t promise I’ll be posting regularly, but I do still exist. <3)