#ranting ig

[neck-thats-made-for-bruising]

Why are girls taught about their periods but not the other phases? Why are girls taught about vaginas but only vaginas? Why are girls taught how to shave their legs and armpits and we're not gonna teach you how to shave anything else but also you have to be hairless everywhere. Why is it taught that boys masturbate and are sexual but if a girl is like that they should feel ashamed? Why are girls taught that periods are totally normal but you can never let anybody see your menstrual supplies, especially boys. Why are girls taught that they mature faster than boys so they have to hide their chests and shoulders and legs? Why are we taught to regulate our emotions on our period because that's no excuse. Why are we taught that boys can complain about their bodies, but if we say anything about our own we're gross. Because at least in my experience these were the only things I was taught and if I want to learn about MY OWN BODY I have to learn by myself because asking about it is gross and weird, and if I ever say that I do that reaserch I'm equally as gross.

[poofiellie]

rereading manga so i can capture all of their expressions and make a blog about it so when i write it's easier for me to know how they're like

ladies and gentlemen, I am Procrastinating

no seriously, whenever i sit down to write them i struggle with dialogues. i REALLY want them to sound like their characters and its really hard not to just... project what the scene/plot wants from them.

YES whole point of writing fanfics is to hv fun, and I am Having fun. but im also procrastinating lol

[goatboard]

love when you tell a "leftist" that excluding someone because of a trait they cannot change is bad and suddenly you're public enemy number one

some of yall really just want to be the opressor rather than end opression

[jaychrilo1144]

Anyone else looking at their conservative parents rn and are just completly empty because you can barely recognize them anymore and you fear a relationship with them of any kind is permanently far from saving?

Or maybe you're realizing that you may not want to save it because you know how much pain itll bring. The same kind of pain u get when you secretly want to try anyway because they are ur parents and u love them and feel like u owe them even though they will never love you unconditionally like you always wish they did?

- sorry, ANYWHORE BACK TO OUR REGULAR SCHEDULED PROGRAM :D

[propertyofkylar]

(Saw a post on here and giving you a uhh paragraph)

It’s kinda funny how adults act immature cuz the want too but like doing it in reverse where kids are ya know … looking at the adult content is kinda strange I mean yeah sure I get that kids are kids and their parents are just being irresponsible and not stopping their kid getting traumatized by gay porn (nothing wrong with being gay) and sex itself just the parents are gonna get a shocked reaction when they get a call from their child’s school saying “yeah so we heard your child talking about uhh tiny gay midget Hentie and we are wondering if you guys have been around your kid or if your child has been exposed to unsafe videos on the internet or anything” but at the same time schools don’t really do anything but call parents and tell them stuff or suspend kids.

But the parents might have to beat their kid with a belt or ground them both punishments really just makes the situation worse because your child has already been exposed to this content there really is no way to protect them anymore they know what porn already know what R34 is and worse they start getting boners to their own family members and just honestly the younger generation is just slowly getting worse each passing month,day or hell maybe a year that’s all though really

- 🏢🏢

so i go to a lot of school board meetings for work (they’re pretty wild tbh) and a big issue in my state over the past year was an update to the sex ed curriculum which got wildly misinterpreted by conservatives as the state trying to teach children porn (it was literally teaching kindergartners the proper names for genitalia, then things like third graders learning about gender roles and how they can be harmful. then actually learning about sex in i think fifth grade? i know this because unlike those fearmongering i actually read the curriculum myself) but the point is, most parents don’t really understand what their kids get up to online. many of the people were complaining about middle schoolers and high schoolers learning about things like contraception and anal sex (i live in a verrrrry conservative area lol) and i kept trying not to laugh because they have no idea their kids are hearing much worse things on the bus every day and can (and most likely do) find horrible things online.

i guess the point of all of this is much like how i think books shouldn’t be banned and that censorship is bad, children need better sex ed. personally i went to catholic school and never even HAD sex ed. i learned what masturbation was from reading a fucking harry potter fanfiction when i was 12. i didn’t have a proper sex ed class til i was in the 8h grade and went to public school and by that point i felt like i had missed out and was so confused by everything because i learned it all from the internet which obviously is not good. by teaching proper sex education, it equips children with better tools if they end up in dangerous situations. and it’s way better to learn it from a teacher than fanfiction.net like some of us lol

idk this all got so serious anyway. nica is getting off her soapbox now.

[wifetomanyfictionalmen]

I am very aware I cannot stop minors reading mine or other creators NSFW content. I can’t even comment because I was 14 and reading smut.

I had unrestricted internet access, but that doesn’t mean this generation should be reading smut, or consuming NSFW content. It was made by adults for adults. I learned from my mistakes, and that’s why I always ask any minors who follow me do NOT read or consume any smut/NSFW I write. I cannot stop you. But I beg you to not read/consume any of it.

[buggitino]

happy doomsday tumblr! i hope we are all loving the two party system we have cultivated that has been nothing but delightful and perfect since its conception! personally, i think its only been getting better as the years pass - you all know how much i love my personhood debated and how i adore being dehumanized and statisticized by the very government houses who promised to protect me! or how, even though i’m a born and raised U.S. citizen, the fact that i exist as i am has been made a political talking point for people who would put a bullet in my brain without hesitation were it not illegal! or the fact that, in these coming years, it might become legal as long as you know the loopholes! i love having my life threatened on a systemic level! god bless the USA!!!

[yuri-is-online]

Also just checking in, how are you doing? Is uni going better for you?

ahhh so i start classes next month, but there's been an issue with entering me into the system c: because my name is apparently too common around these parts and they got me mixed up with someone else :/ they keep asking me if I "paid my deposit" so I can yk. access the account i need to use to pay my deposit so I am a bit stressed.

i am looking forward to starting though, even if it'll give me less time to write. i wanted to a VERY small requests event before things started but I decided I want to focus on the Azul soulbond au and the Vil MMO au things I have rough drafts for. idk if it'll get done before school starts but I'm going to try!

[mercyluvsyouuu]

Sometimes it is so hard 2 be polite. Sometimes I hear something someone says and it takes everything in me not to just laugh in their face. Fuck being the bigger person start being like "what r u going on abt !!!😭😭" coz sometimes they need 2 hear it

[messybouquetoflilies]

i hate hate hate how much extra work, explaining, and educating i have to do just for ppl to decide if they're attracted to me. its so exhausting. so much investment for absolutely nothing 99% of the time

[thedevilprobs]

Am I the only motherfucker who thought the mastermind episode was stupid and the song was the stupidest part?

[outofamagazine]

I've been crying since this morning and I'm just so tired. I don't know whether to keep trying or just give up at this point. I just want to be held but nobody wants to talk to me anymore so I just suffer in silence most of the time because who would want to put up with me? I fucking hate myself so much so why wouldn't everyone else? It's getting closer and closer to me just disappearing because maybe then everyone would be happier. Nobody needs me anymore so like ¯⁠\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯

[isuggestforcemasc]

My sister in Christ trans men are constantly infantilized and forcibly feminized and being masculine is punished by our peers because inside queer spaces it’s always ‘men yucky’ or ‘men evil’ like friendly reminder that not all masculinity is praised and not all femininity is punished

Most trans people were forced into a role they didnt want. Forcemasc is directed to transmascs and butches, not trans women. Same way around with forcefem.

[sillybouquetoflillies]

its crazy that way way way back, way before i figured out i had bpd, the one and only good ex ive had, the only one who i felt genuinely liked me for me, had a friend who has bpd, and she kept spirally out of control. she kept telling me about how scary it was for her, and how her abandonment issues were affecting her life, and looking at myself today i feel like im a carbon copy of that girl. i feel like im losing it. pushing people away at the first hint of them wanting to leave, self destructing over and over, hanging on to one specific person i feel is safe only for them to eventually turn on me... or i just sabotage it. i dont know, but its so scary to me. i just want something real. real connection, real emotions something i can touch and feel, something that actually stays without me having to burn myself down for it again and again and again. im so so so so so tired of being scared all the time. always struggling and fighting to survive on my own. why is this so hard?

[wifetomanyfictionalmen]

Can I ask how yall are so hood at art. Like…I’ll be super proud of mine, then I’ll see all these artists with rendered art, really well drawn, really nice backgrounds and full bodies and then I look back at mine and think this is shitty.

I’m thinking of just stopping doing art. I’ll never be as good as any of my mutuals.

[tampon-eater]

Hey uh sorry about your boyfriend. Yeah he’s sort of your boyfriend girlfriend now. Yeah he’s pretty enough to lie to. Sorry about that.