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˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ What SKZ members value most in a partner? -> req by lovely anon!

✦ bang chan ੈ✩‧₊˚

-> companionship

• i feel like companionship is extremely important for chan, which is something that his partner would have. Being away from his family for 3 years+ is tough, despite all the smiles and giggles he plastered on his face. There will definitelt be times when he felt disappointed, hopeless, empty, exhausted as most of the things are piling on him. He is the parental figure of the group, where he has to carry multiple responsibilities at once while being alone in korea without next of kins around.

• As his partner, she understood all his circumstances and she makes sure she will provide the most companionship for him as possible. Not necessarily be beside him 24/7, which is highly impossible since he is living in the dorm but she will consistently check up on him, making sure he is eating his meals, getting enough sleep, lending her listening ear whenever needed etc to make him feel engulfed safely in her arms. There isn’t anyone whom he can really confide in as his members are heavily tied with career and his family are miles away, the only person he can resort to is his partner. Being unconditionally by his side gives him lots of securities, at least he won’t feel afraid if he falls, because he knows someone else is there to catch him. Of course, he would also reciprocate a good amount of time with his partner as well which makes it a 2-way healing relationship.

“Im so grateful to have you by my side, unconditionally accompanying me and providing the most comfort when i am at my worst,” he breathed into the phone as he stared at the ceiling, smiling at the image of you floating in his brain.

“Hey, isn’t what lovers are for? Of course im always here for you,” you chuckled softly at the other end, causing the latter cheek’s flushing as he placed his palm over his palpitating heart, also chuckling at how you managed to make his heart race even after years.

“You are very clear of my soft spots for you.”

✦ minho ੈ✩‧₊˚

-> trust

• scorpio men…the first thing that pops in my mind is -> spiky. I mean i can see my dad’s shadow on minho 🤧 because both of them are scorpios and both are really spiky and sarcastic on the exterior and they hates, injustice. So i guess i can assume that minho really hates hinderance/betrayal from people he is close to, especially his partner. I would see him valuing trust and transperancy very much as he dislikes people who doubt him without a valid reason. To me i feel that trust is like one of the most fundamental yet crucial values that a relationship should possess.

• he would value trust alot from his partner because he feels honoured when she believes in him. It’s not that she put all the eggs in one basket but she felt that if she has chosen someone as her partner/lover, she would want to have faith in him, in whatever things he does, in the feelings he has for her and how he will juggle his career and relationship. Some partners would overthink if their companion will seek other relationships when they are not physically together to kill temporary boredom but as his partner, it isn’t even the case. The more she overthinks, the more it will happen. So might as well she just gives him the trust, letting him do his runway. Trust doesn’t need to be expressed frequently but by the tone and attitude, minho will understand that his partner is trusting him ultimately in every aspects he does -> which makes him trust her in the same way she did.

“Why do you trust me so much? Are you not worried if i will go back against the will one day?” Your lover gently carassed your arms as he backhugged you, face nudging into the crook of your neck as he teased.

“Why would i be scared? I trust you because i trust my decision of choosing you, as well as knowing your personality for years,” you speaked in no doubt, making the latter giggled softly as he hugged you tighter.

“Damn, you always know how to make me fall for you all over again.”

✦ changbin ੈ✩‧₊˚

-> commitment

• i can see that changbin values loyalty and commitment alot, like alot. He always emits that sense of brotherhood among the members and i believe that it applies in relationship too. Once he is committed, he will really put his partner at the tip of his heart and if ever the partner betrays him, wow, he will be a volcano that erupts explosively (may even hunt you down and teach you a lesson before letting you go). Like he will think that if the partner don’t wanna commit to the relationship why even get into it at the first place? Solve yourself before finding someone to solve it for you.

• highly appreciative of how committed his partner is. Doesn’t need to be all times on the line or text, but knowing how to make her presence when needed makes him elated. Things like visiting him in his dorm, buying him food at times, accompanying him physically or virtually, supporting him before his stages etc. Most importantly, knowing how to draw a decent line with other opposite genders. He will be extremely touched to see his partner appearing in almost all the events, sitting one side quietly and delicately taking beautiful pictures of him and sharing with him later. There isn’t a need to say much, but just enjoying each other’s presence no matter when and where is what makes him loyal to his partner too. Both knowing that they can’t meet all the time but still doing well on their life makes them cherish each other more and fall into each other’s arms when they need it makes the relationship priceless.

“I didn’t expect you to come!” Changbin almost crashed into your arms as you went to the dressing room to visit him.

“Of course i have to! It’s been so long since you had a physical fansign event and i just want to visit and congradulate you bub,” you reciprocated the hug as he giggled foolishly.

“You are the best babe, always appearing when i think of you.”

✦ hyunjin ੈ✩‧₊˚

-> empathy

• well it’s well known that hyunjin is attracted to someone who has lots of empathy and is able to put herself into his shoes while he shares his worries. I think this is an absolute value that everyone should have instead of being self-centred. Furthermore, Hyunjin is someone who is extremely sensitive and fragile on the inner, he needs a partner that is able to understand him and his concerns that are never shared with others before. He may like someone who knows how to be grateful for life and her surroundings, being a living reminder for him that humanity still exist.

• he values this because firstly it’s hard for him to open up his heart, spilling his truthful thoughts to someone with the fear of hurting anyone close to him. There are countless times when he wished he was braver to speak to other members, but the hurted face makes him gulp down all the words. Also afraid to bother his parents, the only person he can be vulnerable with is his partner. And that is why empathy is very important. Being an idol is easily complimented or bashed, in just a couple of clicks or punches of the keyboard warriors. His partner have to be someone who is able to stand in his perspective and understand his situation, lending a solid pillar for him to rely on. If his partner isn’t able to create that safe space for hin then he will only be drowning instead of redempting himself. However, getting him to speak up for the first time is as tough as hard rock stone, but once he feels secured to spill he will not be able to stop, because he already places all the bet on her.

“Talking to you always makes me feel so much better, you are a cure to my heart,” planting a soft kiss on your forehead, he rubbed slow circles on your cheeks as his face is inches away from yours.

“Hey, don’t always bottle up things in yourself, telling someone is better than suffocating on your own,” wiping his strand of tears away, you adored by looking at his redden eyes, still holding that youth of innocence in his eyes.

“I love you,” he breathed before leaning in to meet your lips with his.

✦ jisung ੈ✩‧₊˚

-> accountability

• jisung…hmm being someone who is kinda ‘problematic’ in a sense where he becomes slightly destructive during arguments or conflicts, he will have nothing to say but salute his partner for being extremely accountable. We all know that every member said jisung has issues with each of them and how other members tend to approach him first, i feel that he will take a longer time to cool down as his partner. Nothing wrong for sure, everybody has their own ways of resolving conflicts. But for jisung i feel that he will look up to his partner who is accountable for her own actions as he may not have the courage to do so at times.

• Initiating a chill conversation after a fight or apologising first during a fight doesn’t mean that one lost. It is more about how she cared for his wellbeing, worried that he will be too affected by the conflict that impacted his work. If she is in the wrong, she definitely will own it up and apologise. Even if she don’t, but she will make sure that both of them have come to a consensus before life moves on. Instead of starting a cold war or carelessly saying break ups all the time, his partner will make sure he sees her perspective as well and piecing things up again, which is something that jisung may not have it. His partner will be someone that allows jisung to grow, learning to how to better resolve conflicts with others. A handful of partners will tend to accomodate or avoid conflict but his partner won’t. It is important to let him see the impact of his and her actions and how both of them can work hand in hand to understand and cherish each other after every fights, and that’s what make jisung enlightened as a human, son, friend, colleague and lover.

“You know, i always feel so bad that you have to be the first one to step up to talk to me even though it’s my fault, but you don’t blame me for it,” the latter teared as he hid his face within his palms, shameful to look at you.

“Hun, it doesn’t matter who stepped up first but what’s important is that, we learnt each time we argue, we cherish each time we fight…there are no perfect relationships and all we need is, consensus,” ruffling his head, he embraced you into his arms as he whispered multiple “im sorrys” into your ear.

✦ felix ੈ✩‧₊˚

-> vulnerability

• vulnerability is one of the most essential values as well. If you are not vulnerable to your partner, then to who else? A partner is there to support and love you when you are down and vice versa. Felix being someone who is sentimental would greatly adore his partner being all vulnerable infront of him, so that he feels the responsibility to keep you happy or happier each day you date him. Felix is the kind that really hold his partner tight and close to his heart, almost spending all his free time texting or talking to her to make sure she is doing fine.

• since he is someone who cares very much about people he loves, he would want to he a solid support pillar for his partner. He will take his time to get to know her, learning about her successes and struggles before meeting him, especially if she has any past traumatic relationship so he knows what to do to avoid hurting you. Being vulnerable will pull each other alot closer and interwining the hearts, which is something that felix finds it romantic about. He probably imagined endless times how his partner would lean on his chest and sharing worries or insecurities, and he would reassure her until she believes in him and light again. It also made him feel honoured that his partner trusts him fully and hoping he will make a good presence in her life, be the one that pulls her out of the muddy water that she choked in for long.

“Lix, you know i really hate burdening people with my own issues, but you seem like the one who enjoy hearing them the most,” fiddling his fingers, you looked at that latter who has glowy eyes staring at you for the past 15 mins.

“Babe, we are couples for a reason, i want to be someone you can fall back on and someone that helps you to be successful,” gently caressing your strands of hair as his eyes gazed across your features.

“You can always rely on me,” planting a soft kiss on your forehead, he teased you with another eskimo kiss that made the both of you giggle.

✦ seungmin ੈ✩‧₊˚

-> communication

• seungmin just gives me that vibe of being a good communicator. Like even though he looks like an introvert introvert (like all quiet and such) but i feel he is someone who is very patient when comes to conversing with his loved ones. The need of expressing how you feel about things is so crucial but deadly as people tends to derive it in another manner. If there is no communication in the world then people will never understand and support each other, not even mentioning giving and receiving love. Communicating doesn’t always have to be talking about serious issues, but casual conversations are good enough to have a gauge on how other party is coping.

• he would appreciate that from his partner because he feels that it is rare for people to be straightforward and honest with their opinions these days. People just tend to put on a facade or fake a smile to brush off things that things they don’t agree with or hurted them instead of truthfully expressing that those comments actually make them upset. As his partner it is important for her to let him know that what are the things they can work on rather than bottling up inside and ending by exploding all at once. Communication is about understanding and empathising with one another and if everyone avoids that, then what is the point for getting together? He really appreciates how his partner will get him to sit down, focusing on her as she depicts her thoughts. A relationship is like a ping pong, where both parties need to learn to reciprocate, communicate, understand each other.

“Im not good at mentioning things at times but you complemented me so well,” walking down along the paveway, both of you are licking the ice cream on each hands and throwing loving glares at each other.

“Of course, i know what is running in your mind,” winking playfully at the taller figure and lightly shaking his bigger palms.

“We fit each other like yin yang,” patting the top of your head gently, he retrieved your hand back in his.

✦ jeongin ੈ✩‧₊˚

-> respect

• lastly, i feel that jeongin values respect alot. Being an aquarius men, they usually prefer independence more, be it themselves or their partners. The respect given to each other, knowing that each other needs that private space as well is vital, making it a bonus that his partner possesses. For sure, he dislikes people who are clingy and mushy, prefably someone who is more rational and knowing how to limit her contact with him. Furthermore, he would love someone who respects his opinion and such instead of brushing them off. Validating one even if you don’t agree still shows you care for the person and hope to find a consensus.

• Independence that i mentioned before is not supposed to be inclining towards the negative aspect of it. Well, most people tend to perceive relationships as: couples relying on each other. However, we need to learn that life still goes on and every individual needs to take care of their own before they support others. If both were to constantly dependent on each other, both will burnout. His partner will remember this theory by heart and knowing that she needs to play her own part, including him. Everyone has their own boundaries and the simplest way is to respect each other instead of making yourself more superior. Jeongin will greatly appreciate how his partner will acknowledge his words even if she don’t exactly understand, but giving him the space to do the things he need. She will not always expect jeongin to give in to her, but more like both getting to know each other’s pov and become closer and stronger.

“I was afraid to get into a relationship because im worried if im not able to commit as much, my partner will be upset, but being with you erases all my worries away because you understood my concern and respected me,” your boyfriend who never backhugged you before broke his record.

“Jeongin…i get what you are worried about, because i priortises your happiness and comfortness over anything…like what you have done to me too,” grabbing onto his hands lightly, you assured him as he sniffed at your shampoo scent that lingers along your hair.

“Thank you for respecting everything i did, you are like my soulmate understanding all my needs even without me saying it.”

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˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ SKZ members alcohol tolerance + reactions when they are drunk and you are around

✦ bang chan

Alcohol tolerance: he seem like the kind who can drink alot. despite having a pretty good tolerance, i feel he will be someone who choose not to drink because he feels alcohol isn’t good for health and things need to be settled instead of drinking away. For leisure, i feel he will only touch them when it’s like during occasions, banquets, dinners or other commercial events needed. He will probably offer to drink with other member(s) when they feel down, listening to them as they drink profusely, until he had to stop them and clear the cans.

If he is drunk: when he is drunk i think he will be the kind that goes like “y/n, i think i’m a little tipsy, shall we go home?” he is aware of his own being and he knows when he feels high and rationality is getting further. He would be quick to let you know and suggest both should go home, so he can get more rest while you prepare some sober soup or tea for him. no whines, no complains, nothing, just walking out the shop hand in hand with you as if he isn’t drunk but he is.

-> more members below!

Alcohol tolerance: minho knows how to drink, for sure. He even drank it on the idol contest show, and i am certain that he has good alcohol tolence and feels proud of it. He won’t show off, but just looking at him drinking mouth by mouth while still staying sober shows he is able to take more in while the rest are getting tipsy. He seem like the kind that will just sit quietly, sipping his drink while listening to the others until they realise he already finished most of it.

If he is drunk: will definitely take a long time for him to go drunk but okay if he really is, i feel he will just quietly hug your hand, place his heads on your shoulders while nudging closer to seek more warmth from you. He will groaned softly due to his pounding head, furrowing his eyebrows but still keeping quiet because he doesn’t want to ruin to atmosphere. “Minho, shall we go?” you will be the one who asked him softly first as he nodded, hands still holding yours tightly even though he is losing concious.

If he is drunk: will definitely take a long time for him to go drunk but okay if he really is, i feel he will just quietly hug your hand, place his heads on your shoulders while nudging closer to seek more warmth from you. He will groaned softly due to his pounding head, furrowing his eyebrows but still keeping quiet because he doesn’t want to ruin to atmosphere. “Minho, shall we go?” you will be the one who asked him softly first as he nodded, hands still holding yours tightly even though he is losing concious.

✦ changbin

Alcohol tolerance: i feel changbin’s alcohol tolerance is average, even though he look like someone who can really drink alot, or even chug. Like come on i know he has that gangster vibe and kind of face but he is such a cutie dwaekki. So i feel like he will be selective in his drinking, knowing which he can handle and which he doesn’t. He will be open to try, but he will go back to his usual brands and share about how great they are and he is their loyal fan.

If he is drunk: wow, i feel like he will be the opposite of minho — whining like a baby, doing funny shit like singing and pretending he is holding onto a mic, acting as if he is still sober “nope, im not drunk, im not-” and you go like “seo changbin! come back now!” he will pout so badly and dragged his feet beside you “waeeee did you just fierce me? you fierce me hmph”, next collapsing on your legs. instead of continuing his drama he will do self talk but in a softer voice “mhm this feels comfortable” “is this my y/n?” “feels like home” etc and your anger will be long gone, chuckling at how baby he looks like.

✦ hyunjin

Alcohol tolerance: to be honest, he don’t look like the kind who will drink. Like for sure he will, but he will be the one who just take a few sip, frown at the taste, making the ‘tsap tsap tsap’ sound as he make his comment on the drink. “Man, this isn’t my type” and he will placed his cup back on the table, turn to other alcohol he used to drink (which may possibly contain a lower alcohol percentage). Like he will savour and appreciate those that matches his tastebuds, but more skeptical on trying and goes whining when he tasted those he doesn’t like. I guess his alcohol tolerance level is around or slightly below average.

If he is drunk: mans, i cannot imagine him being drunk because i know everyone’s heart will melt when he also become a baby like changbin. One thing different is he wouldn’t be as loud as changbin when it comes to whining, because he will only be whining to you, seeking your hugs, coos that make him feel better from headache. Eyes closed, lips pouting, he will keep sticking himself and hug you like a koala, lips curling when he finally receive the warmth from you. “this feels so much better when you are around” “yes i know but hyun you are hugging too tight-“ “no! i want to hug you tight tight, so you won’t run, run away…” then off he go into his wonderland, still holding you firmly as you sighed, looking at the mega baby clinging.

✦ jisung

Alcohol tolerance: don’t look at him laughing, joking around often and flashing his wide smile everyday like a boy next door. i feel his alcohol tolerance would be quite good, but he hides the fact that he is good at it. Like he will be all cool “yea i can take this” when people ask like “jisung are you sure?” because he just doesn’t look like a drinker until he proves it that he can actually take it. I also think he will be the kind to initiate drinks frt, be like “hey guys, wanna drink today? my treat”. it is not because he is good in drinking or he likes to drink, but i feel he is someone who appreciates brotherhood time and drink helps them to foster deeper connections while relaxing.

If he is drunk: oh man, when this guy is drunk, you know that whatever he blabbers are his deepest emotions that he has kept from others knowing. We all know that he is the moodmaker, or sometimes the joker in the team, but everyone does have their own negative side. When he is drunk, he will spill many things, emotions that he truly felt which he doesn’t want to affect other members. When you tuck him in his sheets, he will hold onto your hands tightly and say “y/n, you know my heart actually hurts alot, hurts alot when i see them being upset. sometimes i feel even worse when i can’t do anything to help or cheer them up, it makes me awful, but i don’t want to show it because i want them to be happy.” Poor boy, you will sit by the bedside and console the half concious, soothing him until he falls asleep.

✦ felix

Alcohol tolerance: i feel that his alcohol tolerance level would be somewhat similar to bang chan. From what i know westerns are usually better at drinking, so more or less he will be good at it. The first thing that come to my mind would be “oh, this is good” when he tries a new type of alcohol. He would be cool with drinking, but i feel it wouldn’t be his top priority as he prefer something thats non-alcoholic, maybe sweet drinks? that would appeal to him more.

If he is drunk: i feel he will be the kind that will either place his head on the table or just collapse it right there, slightly smacking his head because its throbbing and his vision is blurry. He will go on complaining “urgh, my head hurts” “things are spinning” “i wanna go home” that kind but he will still sit down there until you pulled him off the seat and out the shop. He will probably vomit right after he step out and say “wah this feels much better”. seem like the kind who will sit by the side for awhile until he feels more sober, then he will take your hands in his and say “let’s go home now” even if he is still abit wobbly in his steps. not forgetting to protect you by pulling you close to him even if he is still feeling hazy.

✦ seungmin

Alcohol tolerance: frankly speaking, i feel seungmin wouldn’t be the kind to even touch alcohol. he gives off a very clean, organised kind of vibe that don’t drink. Probably he would, but i feel he will be the kind that reject until he has no choice but to take a sip, internally groaning at how bad it tastes and he doesn’t like it. Even if he will drink, he will probably drink those fruit beer or cocktail kind that has 2.5% or 3% of alcohol only.

If he is drunk: its almost impossible for me to imagine him being drunk because the thought of him just not touching them make me 🙂. I guess he will be the most awake out of the 8 of them and he will be the one sitting with you by the side, silently taking care of the rest of them and making sure they are not creating any troubles or blabbering stupid shit. Seem like the most rationale figure that will chide them for drinking too much. “im thankful i didn’t drink because i don’t wanna end up like them” while pointing at the other 7 and squeezing your hand a little, flashing his warm smile at you.

✦ jeongin

Alcohol tolerance: i feel that his alcohol tolerance is still pretty unknown tbh. like being the maknae i feel the other 7 older ones will actually refrain him from drinking, despite he will still sneak probably soju into his dorm because he just wanna try it. First thing come to my mind is him sitting in those tent stores where people gather in it to have some side dishes and soju while chatting, yea just imagine him there with other 7 or with you. He won’t drink much, but doesn’t mean he is bad at it. Still in the midst of discovering his own limits i feel.

If he is drunk: aegyo much istg this guy. He will be making all sorts of aegyo, trying to make you laugh. Imagine yourself black face enough due to his nuisance in public, but still ended up laughing because he was really funny. “y/nnnnnnnnn, lookkkk at me plweasssse” then all the pouting, sound effects, asking for attention then you go like “okay okay jeongin enough, do all this at home” and you will drag him off the place, throwing apology looks at the other customers who are laughing. the moment you reached home, you will ask him to sit on the sofa opposite of you as you crossed your arms. “what did you do just now?” “i-i-i, i make a fool out of myself in public…” “and?” “im sowwy babeeeeee, promise, it won’t happen again, pweaseeee” then he goes collapsing in your arms.

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˚₊· ͟͟͞͞➳❥ Are SKZ members impulsive/careful decision makers, follow their heart/overthink alot? + bonus food for thought

note: in this headcanon post, i will be analysing them based on their MBTI, horoscopes and observations of them in their various appearances. It may or may not resonate, please take it with a pinch of salt. Entertainment purpose ONLY.

✦ bang chan

• my verdict: follow his heart and make careful decisions

• firstly, let’s start off with his MBTI. Being an intuitor, he is someone who seeks meanings in various things he do, relationships or anything. He likes theories and concepts, things that are able to provide him a convincing explanation on why he should take on or forgo. Also as a judger, he likes things to be organised, systematic, and things that he can control -> proven by 2 kids room when he was paired with han — he mentioned that he likes to complete things when he is doing it instead Jisung who will get to it last minute. As we combine these 2 dimensions together, it helps to explain his personality of being someone who is firm, decisive and deliberate when making decisions. He will look at the big picture and seek to find closure to things that have been discussed, staying grounded -> proven by a few scenes in skz talker where members filmed him working on music wherever they were.

• Being someone who has the potential to be a leader, he will reflect alot on himself and the things around him, meaning he will listen to his heart and mind alot when it comes to making choices, so that he will not take any impulsive actions that may risk the outcome. And the fact that he is the leader, the responsibility is huge on him. So no matter what he can’t be someone who is impulsive and put the group at stake. But the downside is that he can be quite impatient when decisions are not made within the time limit because of his sense of urgency. Hence, there may be times when he will be tempted to just make up his mind without thoroughly thinking through but later hold himself back to reconsider again (because he has the ability to keep himself rational). He also ensures his decisions are fair to the others so as to avoid confrontations and he values justice -> a libra thing.

• Why will he not overthink? -> i feel that he isn’t someone who will overthink because being an extrovert they tend to not over perceive things from what it surfaces (more open and welcoming towards the things they encounter). He seem like the kind that is very cool about anything thrown against him and he has the capability to handle them one by one (systematic). The reason why he is an admirable leader because he is meticulous, inclusive, empathetic (the F in MBTI), responsible, organised yet firm and decisive. He is able to weigh the choices carefully and decide without a second thought. He don’t seem like the kind that will make the decision already and mind start to wonder many ‘what-if’s. | Hey but that doesn’t mean he doesn’t overthink at all. He probably does, but towards things or people he cares or loves alot. We may not see it expressively but he will hide it inside his heart while portraying the big bro image to give other members securities. Other than that, he should be quite cool with other decisions he made. Our good leader we have here :)

-> more members below the cut!

• my verdict: make impulsive decisions and may overthink later silently

• my verdict: make impulsive decisions and may overthink later silently

• my verdict: make impulsive decisions and may overthink later silently

• So the main reason why i feel he will make impulsive decisions is because of his horoscope. Scorpio men are usually quite impulsive (like my father) and i can somehow see a little resemblance on them. Minho seem like kind who don’t give a fuck about things and he will just embrace whatever shit he has to. Making decisions to him is like ‘nah why a second thought when i already know the answer’? But that doesn’t mean he make impulsive decisions all the time. Having a judger in his MBTI helps him to pull him back from irrationality and occasionally he will give second thought a chance (for major decisions that will either make him profit or loss). However, it may be hard for him to resist impulsiveness because it is in his blood so there will definitely be times when he regretted making them.

• Minho always has that cool image that everyone is aware of and i think i repeated in quite a few of my posts (for people who keep reading they will know). In my observation, he seem like the very unaffected kind on the surface even though he may be affected by the choices he made. If he were to make a reckless decision and receive a negative outcome, he will take some time to reflect silently but later brushing them off because he thinks that there isn’t point dwelling in it anymore. Combing sensor and judger in his MBTI, i would call him as a ‘pragmatist’. Pragmatists are usually very practical or even little empathy and gives little attention to meanings as they prefer facts and datas (the kind that ‘don’t talk bullshit with me show me concrete evidence). And with the addition of being a Scorpio, he will be impatient to make decisions and regardless of how shit will go, he just want to decide instantly and talk later -> he reminds me of my friend tbh, they seem like cold hearted creatures but actually they are burning on the inside, just the wrong way to convey them.

• Will there be times when he will make careful decisions or follow his heart? -> There maybe times but i doubt it will be common. These rare situations will usually occur when they weighs heavily in his heart or things he pays special attention to. He may change, but only under the patient talks/advices by his loved ones to make him grounded. Since he is more impulsive in nature, he may tend to ignore what others say and decide on his own, until he realises that his actions hurted others. Ah also, Scorpio men are passionate, but they are not able to control well and ended up hurting others even if they don’t mean to. Thus, if there are people around him or his s/o in future are able to advice him, he may try tone down and find balance. He isn’t as cold hearted yet because he still has N in his MBTI, meaning he will still regret the things he did that caused harm but he will never show because he values his dignity -> so he will be more careful in future related to incidents that taught him lessons.

✦ changbin

-> my verdict: impulsive decision maker and follow his heart

• i think it is pretty evident that changbin is the kind that “i do what i want”. Eventually he is someone who follows his heart alot. In a nicer phrase, yes he has his own style, he is confident of myself, he feels like a royalty. In a not so nice way, we can say he is stubborn. Leo men are usually very outgoing, confident and they emit a unique energy. But when out of control, they can be very self centred, stubborn or even arrogant. I won’t be sugarcoating my words and i will just place the facts on the table. He definitely will follow his heart because he feels that his ideas or whatever decisions he made were the best for him and nobody else can know better than him. So the downside is that he may appear as attacking mode, loud, violent because he often want things to work his way -> which reminds me of hyunjin mentioning he always show blackface or argue in dance practices because people don’t want listen to him.

• as for impulsive decision making, it is predictable because his MBTI says it all. Being a perceiver, they like spontaneity. They like to do things last minute or whenever they feel like it, so they are not the kind that think twice or thrice before confirming something. If he doesnt work on it he can not touch it for ages but when he decide to do something he will do it now and go ahead with it without looking back. Furthermore, he is also a sensor -> likes facts and datas. So it’s not surprising if people say he seem like a ‘very intimidating’ ‘very cold hearted’ ‘looks ruthless’ kind of person because with S and P, they reallllllly love to do things ON THE SPOT, loves seeking thrills and they are masters at making their statements that sound like decisions. No second thoughts, no regrets, he will just decide whatever he thinks and goes with it. If anything happens he will then find another solution to solve instead of sitting at one corner sulking at his bad decision.

• how to resolve things with changbin? -> i just wanna be honest, resolving things with people who has changbin’s type of personality is realllly hard. One, it takes lots of time. Two, it takes lots of patience. 3, it takes lots of psychological games to convince them to listen to you. Being a leo + S + P wah its hard to hide his alpha personality everywhere he goes (like literally just him sitting there already sends chills down my body). I feel it must have been hard for the members (especially members who differ more like chan or felix) to communicate with him because their mindsets are vastly different. Someone who is practical meeting someone who has lots of empathy will have many conflicts between profitability and humanity. So to tackle him, it takes alot of effort to get him onboard with you and one needs to constantly remind him on the actual tasks needs to be complete and how each of your actions will affect the next step. He needs to be aware of severity of issue then he will start reflecting and agree with you.

✦ hyunjin

• my verdict: hybrid -> he tend to make impulsive decisions, but he will be careful as well. Sometimes he will follow his heart, but ends up overthinking.

• So our dear 4th gen performance king right here, to be honest i feel he is a complicated person. Firstly why i think he will make impulsive decisions because of his perceiver in MBTI -> meaning he loves to make spontaneous choices such as his vlog going to Oido Island alone when he feels like it. This decision isn’t something major but it shows his tendancy to make reckless decisions. There maybe times he will just blurt or make choices on his own but he will be careful at times because he is very sensitive and intuitive -> which explains his intuitor in MBTI. Being a pisces they are really weak in the heart — easy to trust and easy to get hurt. Hence, there will be alot of dilemmas in him and when it gets out of hand, he will breakdown.

• And with that, it also links to how he will follow his heart because he makes on the spot decisions and overthink alot later if he did the right thing. To me i feel hyunjin is like a ‘one in a million’ man. Like im really impressed by his talent, his skills, anything that he possesses and the courage to do the things he want, as well as pouring his heart out for it. Pisces men are extremely romantic and they firmly believes in unconditional and eternal love, so they are willing to put in their 120% in you and do whatever he feels to express his love. When one shows slight symptoms of negativity, he will be quick to detect and sometimes may even overthink if he was the one that caused the upsetness. So sensitive yet passionate -> and i can never forget how he broke down and showing his vulnerability in unlock concert because he was bottling too much emotions that he never expressed because he didn’t want to affect others but he also wanted to vent them. Poor boy.

• Is he happy? -> Frankly speaking, Hyunjin may not really feel or understand what happiness really is yet, that’s why his only sources of happiness are his family, members, work, hobbies and stays of course. He is pretty simple minded and he doesn’t really like chaos, he just wants the best for the world. However, we also know how cruel society is and no matter how much he detest the world has changed, he still believes that there is genuinity among people. There will be many many conflicts in his mind and he doesn’t know how to express them, that’s why art is a good platform for him to express his emotions. He is quiet and sensual, that’s why every piece or his art is very refreshing and unique. In his opinion he is satisfied with whatever he has now, but there is still lacking of something that completes his life. Only when he is able to balance his internal conflicts he will then truly understand what happiness is.

✦ jisung

• my verdict: impulsive decision maker and follow his heart

• similar to changbin, both of them have sensor and perceiver in MBTI. They stand the highest risk of making impulsive decisions because they love thrills. They want it means they want it. But if we are to compare the intensity, jisung will be slightly calmer as compared to changbin -> he is an introvert while changbin is an extrovert. Even though Jisung may seem loud on the outer, it only occurs when he is with people he is close to. So i guess the reason why Jisung and Changbin often have disagreements with the other members because they are more impulsive and quick tempered. He feels that whatever his heart tells him is whatever he will be doing and he will really do it. He don’t seem like the kind that will overthink alot because he is already firm on his decision and he will just thrive if there is any obstacle coming later.

• There maybe times where he will overthink but he won’t really show it. Like he will be quite defensive against people who don’t agree with him, especially shady people -> virgo men. So it will be tough for people who try to convince him/changbin because they are so stubborn and firm on what they pick. Wouldn’t be surprise if he suddenly calls one member at 3am saying he wanna go get tteokbokki because he is craving for it and people like changbin or hyunjin will just go along. If his manager doesn’t allow he will come up with tons of reasons to convince him ✋🏻. (I really don’t know what else to add cuz i explained some in changbin’s part so yall can go take a quick look)

• is it hard to make friends with him? -> Yes. Virgo men feel that it is hard to trust people. Their defence walls are very high and they are very observant. They know who are the people that worth them spending time with and who are the snakes. Even though Jisung may be impulsive and nature, but when it comes to things that will jeopardise his wellbeing, he will be extremely careful. Well, i guess the ultimate point is that he wants to see sincerity in you when you make friends in him but not for other motives, other than that he will slowly get to know you and trust you when he gets good vibe and you guys will be very close (he will give good advices). Don mention about s/o, i feel he will like someone who is really being themselves.

✦ felix

• my verdict: makes careful decisions and overthink

• Felix is such a sweeeet guy like i have no reasons to oppose the fact that he will make impulsive decisions because look, his love for his members is overloading. Also being a judger in MBTI, it adds on the difficulty that he will be reckless. To add on, being an intuitor also pushes him to dive deeper to find reasonings behind situations and relationships. So no matter what he is inevitable to be meticulous because, that’s his nature! Being a virgo he is also very precise and observant, so spiritually he will be very sensitive towards his surroundings and himself -> self concious. I can never forget how he told Hyunjin that ‘he found the meaning of life when he meets him’. So, you see the word there ‘meaning’ and it shows alot about his decision making.

• Even though he has the same N and J in MBTI as chan, he will tend to overthink more. Virgo men have a weakness is that they are very self-critical. Self critical people (like me) overthink the most because we always feel that things are never enough no matter how great the decision me make. Too sensitive and setting too high expectations. Just like when he recently had his back problem, he sent multiple bbl messages (that i cant rmb anymore but sth related to that and to the fanmeeting), i can imply that he actually worries and think over alot when something not so good happens. And he is also vulnerable on the inside. Despite being vastly different from Hyunjin (other members said) i guess deep down they are the 2 most vulnerable babies among the 8.

• How will he stop the toxic cycle of overthinking? -> It’s definitely a tough task to embark on. Overthinking is toxic, like really toxic aa it devours your soul and rationality chronically. I am also someone who overthinks alot and ended up experiencing a sharp decline in my health. Felix must have been suffering alot internally as overthinking thoughts keeps swimming in his mind and it’s almost impossible to resist it. Most commonly i would associate with the thinking trap of catastrophising -> expected the worst outcome and its easy for this kind of people to get agitated at themselves. To stop it requires alot of determination and support from his loved ones. There must he sufficient reassurance given to him so that he will feel better. On his own part i feel he will find other stuff to do to distract or keep himself occupied -> like baking! Its a long process but he will eventually overcome it.

✦ seungmin & jeongin

• my verdict: make careful decisions and follow their heart

• for our 2 younger and youngest members i will combine them because they have the same MBTI. So firstly, they will make careful decisions because yes they are also judgers (omg we have lots of judgers in the group). So it is almost impossible for them to be spontaneous because they LOVE to plan, i repeat, EXTREME love to plan -> like what seungmin mentioned in one of the clips (i cant rmb which one i watched) but he mentioned that he loves planning his day, next day, a few days later instead of deciding on the day itself. I guess they will be good at strategising for games like PUBG 👀 — i heard the game sound during the skz talker.

• They will also follow their heart because they are sensors. Just like minho, they are considered as pragmatists (refer to minho part where i explained what they are). So the 2 will like things to be done quickly and they are confident of their choices. “I won’t regret because i have deeply thought through for the past 1 week” kind of person. Like they feel that they have already carefully considered and they have a conclusion, so they won’t think back about it once its made.

• will they overthink? -> for seungmin, possible, for jeongin, almost impossible. Let’s talk about seungmin first. Being a virgo like jisung and felix, they will still keep a portion of themselves to think through the decision again if they made it without 100% confirmed. They chose because it sounds like a better one, but doesn’t mean they support it. He will definitely relook at those he felt half-hearted at but he won’t immerse in it. He may take sometime to rethink, but later brushing it off because ‘there’s nothing we can do now’. So yes, it is still possible for him to think twice again. || For jeongin, i doubt he will overthink because being an aquarius man, they are very clever. Those decisions they have made were all assured by themselves that they would produce the best outcome for them. And also, aquarius men are usually rebellious, challenging, ignorant in nature so i don’t really think jeongin will overthink because he won’t spend the time thinking about what’s done, but more of things that he has yet to decide. No one can control his mind and he is solo on his own so hes the kind that’s “ive decided it, im sure that’s what i want, i feel it will turn out this way, if it doesn’t, then fuck it im sure i have 100 alternative ways to solve this shit.”

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