#the complete strength without compromising femininity and compassion

[jtt-033-1613]

not to be dramatic but watching the x files for the first time in 2024 and being about the same age as scully has changed my entire life trajectory.

[zaritales]

The Power of Elegance: Redefining Bridal Beauty in Silk Sarees

A picture speaks more than a words — and this one captures the very soul of Zaritales: elegance, heritage, and feminine strength. In an era where modernity often overshadows tradition, there's a growing tribe of women redefining what it means to be a bride — bold yet rooted, glamorous yet graceful. This image celebrates those women.

Draped in luxurious silk sarees, adorned with traditional jewels, and styled with classic poise, these women represent every bride who chooses to honor her roots while embracing her unique style. Their confident stance, serene expressions, and timeless looks are a tribute to cultural legacy and modern bridal beauty.

At Zaritales, we believe that every saree is more than just a garment — it’s a living story. A story of culture, craftsmanship, and confidence. Whether it’s the soft glow of peach silk, the regal charm of ivory, the earthy tone of rose gold, or the refreshing grace of mint green, our bridal collections are woven to celebrate individuality and timeless beauty.

The Saree: Where Legacy Meets Luxury

For generations, the saree has been a symbol of tradition, elegance, and femininity. What makes it truly remarkable is its ability to evolve with time while never losing its soul. From the hands of skilled artisans to the wardrobes of brides around the world, a silk saree carries centuries of artistry in every thread.

Zaritales sources its fabrics with precision and care — honoring traditional weaves like Banarasi, Kanchipuram, and Paithani, while blending them with styles and cuts that appeal to today’s bride. Whether you're walking down the aisle or gracing a wedding reception, our sarees are designed to make a statement.

Color That Speaks Without Words

Each color in this visual palette carries its own meaning and emotion — thoughtfully chosen to match not just the bride’s style, but her story.

Peach Silk: Symbolizing warmth, gentleness, and compassion. Perfect for brides who want a soft romantic vibe with a royal touch.

Ivory Cream: A timeless classic. This color signifies purity, grace, and a quiet strength. Ideal for minimalist brides or vintage-themed weddings.

Rose Gold: Modern yet traditional. A balance of elegance and boldness, this shade is for brides who want to shine subtly.

Mint Green: Refreshing and serene. Represents growth, peace, and renewal — a lovely choice for pre-wedding ceremonies or outdoor receptions.

At Zaritales, we guide our brides in choosing shades that not only suit their skin tone but also reflect their personality and occasion.

Jewels That Complete the Look

No saree look is complete without the right jewelry — and in this image, every piece enhances the saree’s regal charm. From temple-inspired chokers to kundan drops and heritage bangles, the accessories reflect a deep connection to Indian bridal styling.

We encourage brides to mix traditional gold with pearls or semi-precious stones for a balanced look. If you’re wearing a silk saree with zari work, opt for matte or antique finishes that complement without overpowering the fabric.

The Modern Bride’s Take on Tradition

Today’s bride is a blend of grace and individuality. She values heritage but also wants to express her own style — and that’s exactly who Zaritales designs for.

Whether you’re having a temple wedding in South India or a contemporary destination ceremony, our sarees adapt to your celebration. We offer custom draping consultations, fabric selection guidance, and even blouse pairing suggestions — because we know that every detail matters.

Our brides are engineers, artists, entrepreneurs, and dreamers. They want comfort without compromise. Style with substance. And a saree that will still feel magical 20 years from now when they pass it on.

Craftsmanship That Tells a Story

Each Zaritales saree is crafted by artisans who have spent decades mastering their skill. These weavers pour their soul into every motif, every border, every inch of silk. The zari is not just thread — it’s tradition spun in gold. The weave is not just fabric — it’s a legacy meant to last.

We work closely with local weavers from regions like Varanasi and Kanchipuram to ensure authenticity and support sustainable artistry. When you buy a saree from Zaritales, you’re not just investing in beauty — you’re supporting a cultural legacy.

How to Style a Zaritales Saree

Here are a few bridal styling tips to bring your Zaritales saree to life:

Hair & Flowers: Go for traditional buns adorned with jasmine or fresh blooms for a timeless look.

Makeup: Keep it radiant with bold kohl eyes and soft lips to enhance natural elegance.

Footwear: Block-heeled sandals or embellished juttis pair beautifully with heavy sarees.

Blouse Design: Choose classic cuts with rich embroidery or backless designs for a modern twist.

Every element you choose becomes a reflection of your story. And we’re here to help you make every choice count.

Capturing the Moment

Sarees are made for moments — and capturing them is what makes them immortal. Whether it’s your mother draping you in silence before the wedding, or your first twirl as a bride, these memories live forever in six yards of silk.

The image we began with is just one of many. At Zaritales, we invite our brides to share their saree stories. Every bride is unique. Every drape is divine. And every photo is a celebration.

Final Thoughts: Wear the Story, Live the Legacy

These aren’t just sarees — they’re heirlooms, they’re statements, they’re moments in motion. They are the silence before the wedding music begins. The grace in a glance. The tradition in every step.

Zaritales is more than an online store — it’s a space where stories are woven, where style meets tradition, and where brides find a piece of themselves in every saree.

Embrace your tradition. Define your style. Shine in Zaritales.

[roobylavender]

i think the problem with sakura is that she’s a main character with the relevancy of a side character, she’s more like a plot device (5ks) and much less interesting than naruto, sasuke and kakashi.

i think there are things to be said about how sakura is underutilized in places esp wrt the political undercurrent of the series that naruto and sasuke are so entrenched in but i don't think i would go so far as to say she's lacking in import to the point she functions as a plot device.. her position is unique within the team bc she comes from an utterly normal background and has to contend with an onslaught of trauma and decide how to react to it as her ideals and relationship with being a ninja develop. she's not ridiculously overpowered nor is she the descendent to a family irrevocably tied to the roots of the land, so figuring out what it is that she wants to stand for and believe in is something that takes time, and it's why her position as a healer is ultimately important. she has no real history with the political progression of the village so her aversion to using violence as an all-encompassing solution isn't simply emblematic of a traditional feminine role within the world but also represents a greater ideal in that she refuses to give into the cycle that keeps so many of the characters in naruto trapped in a never-ending political scheme of proxy wars facilitated by warring states for the sake of profit. her normalcy is what renders her revolutionary as a character. she's the one character who more than anything beats back against the current of violence and nihilism with an unwavering belief in people and desire to see them heal rather than give into violence themselves. she doesn't even have a complete picture of what's been happening behind the scenes of konoha's history and yet she knows enough to resist that systemic violence being perpetuated around her

that's what makes her decisions in the kage summit arc so interesting. that's more or less the breaking point for every member of team seven and yet despite all of that pressure and despair closing in around her, despite her attempts to go against the grain of everything she's believed in up until that point - that getting through to sasuke is viable, that letting naruto drive himself crazy over it is even worth something - she still hesitates with the kunai in the end bc it's not her. it's never been her. she's never been able to give up on the people she cares about. in the moment it might look like a pathetic thing and like she's nothing more than the sad reactionary to naruto and sasuke's whims, but i think it's actually a quite powerful depiction of who sakura is at the core and who she refuses to stop being. her unwavering faith in people isn't a weakness, rather it's one of her greatest strengths. bc she survives this entire ordeal - these five years of grueling trauma and separation and war - without compromising her own values. and i suppose some people view that as a weakness bc they're only viewing it from a shipping perspective and feel like sakura is made to wait for some guy with serious problems to love her back. but when you understand her actions and beliefs in context of naruto as a political work about the cycle of violence then i think she's an incredibly compelling character, bc in the end, she's right to not give into the violence and to not turn her back on sasuke. she knows better than anyone that what's wrong with him isn't even entirely up to him despite her knowing so little about his background (and the same can apply to naruto along a different vein). she knows there are reasons for the way people change and her compassion and empathy allow her to stand by them with the belief that they can still make it out okay, which, when you set it against the backdrop of state heads using ninja like pawns of violence they don't give a damn about, i think it's quite significant

[sylleblosscm]

“poor women, we have to heal everyone” like...yes, but actually no? The problem isn’t women in media being forced to be healers, it’s their lack of agency in their own narratives, lack of diverse roles within those narratives, and lack of care given to them by predominantly male writers. Aerith was a standout character for a lot of people because she was so kind and compassionate, without being an actual doormat; because she embraced her femininity without sacrificing her agency. Even though there were certain situations she was forced into, she still maintained her own independence by doing and saying whatever the fuck she felt like at all times like the Icon she is. She had strong feelings about the male protagonist, but was never defined solely by his presence or anyone else’s. She never lost her voice or compromised on her values (unlike literally the protagonist). A woman can be a punchy badass if she wants to, but she doesn’t have to in order to be nuanced and good. In fact, replacing “nuanced and layered” with “punchy badass” is kind of worse than just having a sexy lamp in my opinion. 

 And while there’s something to be said for the “killing of a woman so a man’s story can advance” trope, I’m inclined to be a bit more forgiving in this case. It’s Aerith’s - exclusively hers, not the other female characters’ - kindness and compassion, but also her stubbornness and strength allowing those traits to endure through hardship, that not only Cloud but the whole party comes to rely on. Removing her from the picture shifted the emotional dynamic significantly, and upped the stakes in a way completely devoid from her healing role. It’s a classic writer’s trick, even XV did it with Prom in a smaller way: make you love the sunshine character, then remove them right at the 11th hour to give everything that air of hopelessness. Aerith was and remains the emotional core of the whole game and, I’d argue as such, the most pivotal character apart from perhaps Sephiroth. Her compassion makes her irreplaceable. 

 So yeah, I just. To each their own, but I hate this take. It’s so 2000′s lazy pop feminism. I’m not saying there aren’t Issues with this 25-year-old game, but. This ain’t it.

[babyybitchhh]

Shikamaru or Senku?

Damn, anon. You really just came for my throat like that. I don’t know what I’ve done to hurt you but, from the bottom of my heart, I apologize. I swear it won’t happen again. 🤧

Okay, okay. All jokes aside. This is a real toughie and I’m gonna have to reveal just how much of a dumb bitch I really am to explain my answer. Yes, I fall back on the zodiac to fill in any gaps in characterization and determine just how compatible I actually am with fictional men. Sue me. As per usual, this post got a bit away from me so if you want to skip down to the TL;DR for my final answer, please do. I encourage it, actually. lol 

Ishigami Senkuu

January 4th - Capricorn

Strengths: leadership, responsible, disciplined, self-control, good managers

Weaknesses: lack of compassion, know-it-all, unforgiving, condescending, expecting the worst

“Capricorn is a sign that represents time and responsibility, and its representatives are traditional and often very serious by nature. These individuals possess an inner state of independence that enables significant progress both in their personal and professional lives. They are masters of self control and have the ability to lead the way, make solid and realistic plans, and manage many people who work for them at any time. They will learn from their mistakes and get to the top based solely on their experience or expertise.”

“Known for their rational approach to life and their emotions are often well hidden from plain view. Not only is it imperative for them to stick to the realm of absolute intimacy to open their heart for someone but they are often not fully aware of their feelings before hardships occur. This will put pressure on their love life as they have to make a strict and specific equation out of everything, distancing them from carefree and smiling partners who wish to have fun in a relationship.”

“There is nothing easy in the love life of these individuals but they will not see this as the end of the world. They have enough passion and warmth carried within and if mutual respect is found and strong boundaries respected both ways, they will be prepared to let someone into their world and protect them with their shield.”

“As an earth sign, Capricorn has a powerful and instinctive sensuality which expresses itself in a straightforward and natural way without the need for props, frills or adornment. Is it somewhat bereft of romance? Well maybe, but what Capricorn lacks in the way of sentimentality, it more than makes up for in terms of responsibility and discretion ... once it overcomes its initial reserve and caution, it can usually be relied upon to give full satisfaction, no matter how long it takes. As with most other things in its life, Capricorn prefers to take its time over its lovemaking, and its highly developed self-control gives it the stamina to stay the course.”

Nara Shikamaru

September 22 - Virgo

Strengths: pure emotion, loyal, analytical, kind, hardworking, practical

Weaknesses: sensitive to toxic environments, shyness, worry, overly critical of self and others, all work and no play

“Virgo’s are always paying attention to the smallest details and their deep sense of humanity makes them one of the most careful of the zodiac. Their methodical approach to life ensures that nothing is left to chance and although they are often tender, their heart might be closed for the outer world. This is a sign often misunderstood, not because they lack the ability to express but because they won’t accept their feelings as valid, true or even relevant when opposed to reason.”

“Feelings of love and life may be a bit like ocean waves that move with the current. With so much water flowing through their primal nature, their rational mind will easily fade around those that touch their heart. This makes them vulnerable to all sorts of betrayals and wrong compromises along the way. They need to be stable and firm in understanding and deciphering their own feelings before anyone else’s or they might lower their guard too far down.”

“They need a partner who is as fragile as they are but also someone who is aware of the strength of their emotional world.”

“ Many Virgos aren’t particularly comfortable with demonstrative displays of emotion or dramatic, over-the-top outbursts. Normally quite shy by nature, they prefer to express their affection in tangible, down-to-earth ways: love for them is about actions, not just empty words. Big worriers who don’t find it easy to show their feelings, Virgos are prone to internalizing their anxieties about their physical desirability – frequently making themselves ill in the process – and can often be a bit uptight around sex. To balance this, they need lots of reassurance that they’re actually perfectly okay!”

Now ... y’all can correct me if I’m wrong, but that all sounds pretty spot on to me. Like, it’s accurate. I’ve mentioned this a few times when replying to comments on my Dr Stone fics, but I really enjoy how nuanced Senkuu is because there’s a lot going on under the surface of his cool facade. He’s very task-oriented and objective about what needs to be done, but he’s also extremely sympathetic towards others even if he tries to play it off. It seems hard for him to be honest about his feelings because, frankly, they’re not rational enough for his liking, so he tries to find ways to justify them. On the flip side, Shikamaru is a little similar with his cool, objective-oriented outer shell but he’s conversely quite sensitive. Like, hella sensitive. That boy is not anywhere near as tough or impenetrable as he acts and I do think at least part of that is a defense mechanism of some sort to shield his heart, even before Asuma died but especially afterward. They’re both tough to penetrate emotionally and they guard their true feelings so well that it actually does manage to fool people. I mean both the characters around them and also the fans watching at home. So at this point, there doesn’t seem to be a conclusive winner and it should come down to a simple matter of preference, right?

Well, let’s see what the stars have to say about throwing a Leo into the mix.

Capricorn + Leo

“... have one thing in common and it’s their awareness of self. It will be a rare occasion when Leo is attracted to Capricorn but the other way around seems more probable.”

“Both are extremely devoted, especially to each other. Although they may seem to be an unlikely couple on the surface, their love will grow as they discover similarities.”

“Like Barbie and Ken, you’re a good looking pair ... your shared love of achievement and impressive ambition sends power couple fantasies running through your heads. If you’re out to conquer the same goal, your combined skills make you quite an awesome force to behold.”

“The physical intimacy between a Leo and a Capricorn is where this mismatched couple can come together. Leo is hot, physical, feminine, [and] enjoys giving pleasure. In a day to day life, Capricorn is reserved and proper but when it comes to sex, he wants it wild, woolly, rough and tumble. Lucky for him, Leo has a similar sexual appetite. It’s in bed where Leo has the power to make customarily reserved Capricorn throw caution to the wind and become a bit crazy in love.”

“What you’ve got here is one sign with a forensic eye for detail and another who paints with an incredibly broad brushstroke. The possibility of driving each other crazy is real.”

“Capricorn is more likely to be attracted to Leo than the other way around - they’ll watch the lion prance, preform and captivate with their personality and either instantly dislike or feel uncomfortably drawn to them.”

The good: both seek success, Capricorn teaches Leo patience, Leo teaches Capricorn passion

The bad: Leo thinks Capricorn is a cold fish, Capricorn thinks Leo is a show off, it all gets too hard to compromise

Virgo + Leo

“Their rationality might turn into an intellectual battle for sexual dominance, that is, if they ever reach the point in which they both want to have sex with each other.”

“Leo shows Virgo good times and fun, and introduces the spontaneity that is often missing from Virgo’s life. Virgo teaches Leo patience and focuses their intellectual energy.”

“Leo plays cheerleader to pessimistic Virgo while levelheaded Virgo steps into the therapists role, mirroring Leo’s angst until a breakthrough is reached. This is a safe emotional harbor for both of you.”

“Virgo and Leo see their time together in bed as a celebration of their love and commitment. Both are hopeless romantics so there will be plenty of physical foreplay, including morning kisses, long evening embraces, candles, flowers, and massages. A creative and open minded Leo is always willing to try something new and Virgo, who is no prude either, will be a willing follower. Together these two can reach sexual heights they’ve never experienced before.”

“A comedy of errors ...Leo and Virgo are forever working through misunderstandings and mending communication fences. Often it’s as if they speak different languages.”

“Leo pounces and Virgo, invariably, plays hard to get, rebuffing the lion and appearing completely underwhelmed by their charms. This of course drives Leo into a frenzy of heightened passion - they pull out their A game and deliver super hot maneuvers. The funny thing is that such scenarios are usually Virgo devised and orchestrated. They’ve probably observed the flamboyant lion in action - noted that everyone submits to their charisma and decided to go in the opposite direction. If played correctly Leo becomes a lovesick pussy cat ...”

“Virgo is a bit of a tease - for much of the “falling in Love” phase they love-starve Leo who shamelessly begs for morsels of affection. It actually makes the attraction between them electric.”

The good: Virgo teaches Leo patience, Leo teaches Virgo to have fun, they are fascinated by each other

The bad: messy Leo drives neat freak Virgo crazy, negative Virgo brings Leo down, poor communication abounds

So ... what did we take from all that? Well, first of all, both of them are apparently going to teach me patience which I admit I sorely need. Conversely, I’d bring passion, fun and spontaneity to their lives. On one hand, Senkuu seems like he’d be much more drawn to me than Shikamaru because even though I do stay drinking my dumb bitch juice, we have similar driving forces in our lives and I’m not a complete idiot. I love science, especially when it comes to learning about space and how the world works, just not the mathematical portion. That part can eat my ass tbh. On the other hand though, if Shikamaru and I could sort of find a common ground to stand on it sounds like it would be a very healthy relationship for the both of us which I need so badly it’s kind of not funny. Like, I’m self-aware enough to realize what I need out of a hypothetical relationship and it (unfortunately) is the kind of emotional connection that facilitates healing and growth rather than stagnation. I don’t think either of them would just sit there and watch me flounder in my angst, as one of those quotes put it, but everything is pointing at Shikamaru being much more well equipped to tackle the problem while simultaneously needing the same in return, which I would be more than happy to give him.

TL;DR: I actually cannot pick between them. I just can’t do it. I love them both for strangely similar but also drastically different reasons and, objectively, I can’t say I like one more than the other. Both give me soft, doki doki feelings that I don’t know what to do with and even after thinking on it for about two hours, I’m incapable of saying with definitive certainty that I like one more. So all I can go off of is what the zodiac has to say about our compatibility which is pointing at both potential relationships being rocky with their ups and downs, but Shikamaru being the more sensitive of the two comes out the winner in the end. That’s not to say I wouldn’t work with Senkuu to truly become the power couple we both secretly crave, but I know my emotions can get away from me at times and it seems to me that Shikamaru would be a smidge more understanding in that department. 

I realize this definitely isn’t the answer you were expecting, anon, and I absolutely considered scrapping this whole post more than once. lol But I didn’t want to shrug off the question just because I couldn’t decide which of them I liked more. Anyway, for the sake of posterity, here’s what the zodiac has to say about me for comparison. 

August 7th - Leo

Strengths: Energetic, creative, passionate, generous, warm-hearted, cheerful, humorous

Weaknesses: Hasty, arrogant, stubborn, self-centered, lazy, inflexible

“Love is the focus point of these individuals, and while their intellectual and instinctive sides are the first ones to show, we will see that they seek someone equal, to share their inner states with. They need a lot of support and a calm partner that soothes their Soul, someone quiet enough and intimate enough to feel safe with. Easy to detach from reality and our planet Earth, their relationships either speak of the unseen and the impossible or present a safe haven where their bodies can rest, and their routine can be brought to balance.”

“Open for new things and often ready to openly show their sexuality, they need a fine touch of love they are worthy of in this lifetime. Romance can be obstructed by their need to prove a point or become the image of something they admire, but as they get closer to their inner truth and become aware of their talents and potentials, they invite the right partner to be within a strangely peaceful union. Although they sometimes stand opposed to marriage and structures and forms that put any relationship in a drawer, they will gladly commit to the right person by their side, in all those surprising and unusual ways.”

“This Fire sign is passionate and sincere and its representatives show their feelings with ease and clarity. When in love, they are fun, loyal, respectful and very generous towards their loved one. They will take the role of a leader in any relationship, and strongly rely on their need for independence and initiative. This can be tiring for their partner at times, especially if they start imposing their will and organizing things that aren't theirs to organize in the first place. Each Leo needs a partner who is self-aware, reasonable and on the same intellectual level as them. Their partner also has to feel free to express and fight for themselves, or too much light from their Leo's Sun might burn their own personality down.”

“Sex life of each Leo is an adventure, fun and very energetic. This is someone who has a clear understanding of boundaries between sex and love, but might fail to see how important intimacy and emotional connection is to the quality of their sex life. Every Leo needs a partner to fight through their awareness and reach their sensitive, subconscious core, in order to find true satisfaction in a meaningful relationship.”

(Spoiler alert: this is all true, except the part about taking on the role of leader in relationships. I genuinely love being dominated in bed, but only if I deem my partner worthy or adequate enough to get the job done. Other than that though, I can’t say any part of this is horribly incorrect. Oops. : / )

[avira-wolvezevie]

~ Relationship Battery Spell Jar ~ 

To be conducted during a Full Moon, Valentine’s Day, or other day where love and relationships are valued.

Shower with your significant other to cleanse body, mind, and spirit. 

TIP: Have shower sex to raise loving and passionate energy! 

Create a 12 hour clock with stones that correspond to the intentions you wish to charge your relationship with! We chose the following: 

amethyst (on matrix): protection, purification, healing, and happiness

agate geode: love, harmony, healing, fidelity, balance, and grounding

aquamarine (on matrix): communication, honesty, compassion, 

black tourmaline:  absorb negativity during spell jar ritual

celestine (raw):  spirituality, love, harmony, celestial/universal energy

kyanite (blue, raw):  cleanse the spell and align it to our intentions

garnet (raw):  love, healing, and turning negativity into positivity

granite (white feldspar): bring balance, diplomacy, and communication

hematite (speculated and polished): love and relationships, removes negativity, raises energy

obsidian (black, raw):  place on west side of clock to protect ritual space

quartz (large, white): super-energized by the sun and moon, bring energy to intentions: love, achieving life goals, healing, transformations

selenite (raw): cleanse the ritual and ritual space

The rest went inside the circle in a smaller circle.

jasper (red, polished):  love / lust balance, health, compassion

opal (white, inlaid in gold), spirituality, balance, releasing inhibitions

pearl (inlaid in gold): honesty, integrity, love, relationships, femininity

rose quartz (polished: love, relationships, clear anger, guilt, and jealousy, bring balance to emotional trauma, boost gentleness, kindness, forgiveness, compassion, tolerance

silver (represented by jewelry box): love, healing, calming vibes

sodalite (polished): inner peace, honesty, clear communication and freeing ourselves from old habits and attitudes

tiger’s eye (polished): honest and effective communication

Surrounding the stones and jewelry, we placed a few angel tarot cards to make our intent for the spell even more clear: 

The Lovers: intimate relationships, carefully weigh decisions, health (6)

The Moon: important psychic developments, release fears (18)

The Sun: happiness, brilliant new ideas, success, confidence (19)

Renewal: review and evaluate, time to move in a new direction (20)

Release: end of a phase/situation, spiritual transformation, move on (13)

The High Priestess: intuition, patience, consideration of wants (2) 

Strength: inner strength, forgiveness, compassion (11) 

Justice: fair and just decisions, stand up for ourselves (8) 

Balance: moderation, cooperation, compromise, await perfect timing (14)

Rose incense was placed to the south and lit during the creation of the jar.

We then lit a white candle, a pink candle, and a red candle.

TIP: Make sure you can pour the molten wax onto your jar or that you can dip the jar in the wax to seal it after! 

We sat quietly together and meditated for a few moments, sharing a kiss and a hug when we were ready to start filling the jar.

We took turns filling the jar with the following herbs and spices, reciting what their intents were for the spell as we added them:

Full Moon Water: just a splash to start, when you’re done filling the jar with the other ingredients, you top it off with more! 

TIP: I used full moon snow water from the 1/1/2018 supermoon.  

Honey: just a drop to sweeten other’s dispositions towards you and your significant other, it can also draw sweet things to you, both physical and emotional

Sea Salt:  general purification & protection from salty people

Cascarilla: may our path may never be sharp, always smooth & protected

Basil: promote steady minds, attracts positive vibes and behaviors

Bay Laurel Leaves: protect against negativity, attract luck, good fortune

Caraway: protection, promote happy, healthy love

Cayenne: promote emotional balance, passion, and banish negativity

Chilli Powder: SPELL STRENGTH BOOSTER

Cinnamon: happiness, health, love, passion, loving friendships

Cloves: protection, banish negativity

Coriander: protect us, our home, promote serenity

Cumin: health, protection, banishing and/or repelling negativity

Dill: effective communication

Echinacea: inner strength during trying times, to increase spell efficacy

Garlic Powder: ward off negativity & disease, increase spell power

Ginger: attract healthy adventures, healthy energy

Juniper: protection, longevity, strength

Marjoram: cleansing vibes, loving friendships, dispel negativity

Mullein: protection, health

Nutmeg: clarity in our daily lives

Oregano: joy in our daily lives

Parsley: strength, vitality, passion

Sage: longevity, protection, wisdom

Sugar: sweeten people’s dispositions towards us

Tarragon: symbolize our compassion for each other

Thyme: dispel melancholy with positive vibes

Paprika: energy and power

Periwinkle (Vinca minor): strengthen our friendship & make it steadfast

Rosemary: dispel jealousy, ward against nightmares, negativity, and disease, promote success

Baby’s Breath: a few dried flower heads from our senior prom corsages for communication, honesty, purity

Rose Petals: a few dried petals from our senior corsages for love and lustful passion

White Birch: protection, purification, ward off the evil eye

White Pine: provide strength in adversity, and to help overcome hardships through optimism and inner strength and flexibility

It wouldn’t be complete without a little liquid to help the energies flow within:

Argan Oil: promote natural beauty, inside and out

Eucalyptus EO: enhance wishes of protection, healing, joy

Geranium EO: enhance wishes of courage, friendship, repel curses

Jasmine Absolute*: celebrate femininity, spirituality, relaxation

Lavender EO: promote mental health and relaxation

Lemongrass EO: foster road openings, communication, love

Peppermint EO: strengthen mental clarity and abilities

Sage EO: enhance wisdom, protective and shielding powers

Sweet Orange EO: enhance healing energies, promote happiness in your home and amongst friends and family

Tea Tree EO: enhance wishes of strength, health, purification

Before sealing the jar, we kissed each other and then each kissed the jar after reciting the following spell:

Our love is the moon.

Sometimes hidden, but always there,

Regardless of the phase.

May our love be steadfast,

Strengthened by clear communication,

Protected by one another.

May we remain the best of friends,

And passionate lovers.

Let this bottle purify our love.

Let this bottle energize our love.

Let this bottle radiate our love.

Then we sealed it with the kiss of red, pink, and white wax to symbolize passionate, carnal love, friendly, compassionate love, and the purity and spirituality that is the base of our loving relationship.

*Absolute is like essential oils (EOs) except that it was created using solvents. These solvents are near impossible to completely remove from the liquid and therefore cannot be called pure essential oil - from a scent standpoint they are nearly indiscernible from one another. It is also cheaper and for some plants the only option because of their tough forms i.e. jasmine.