#this happened with kit connor
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sukibenders · 5 months ago
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*taps mic* Celebrities do not owe you insight into their sexuality, nor do they have to define or abide by your standards of how they act regarding their sexuality. You do not know them personally enough to inspect their private lifestyle in such a way, and even if you did that behavior still isn't warranted. Just because celebrities are more known to the public, doesn't negate the fact that they are people with feelings and aspects of their lives that they might prefer to keep quiet about. Sexuality, in general, is an intimate thing, that everyone experiences and expresses differently, and having random strangers deny or question their queerness does more harm than good. Stop acting like you're entitled to it.
#“but-but they played this queer character in this role-” okay and? it's literally their job. as long as the character they played wasn't#riddled with harmful stereotypes or other problematic things than that fact alone still doesn't give you the right to hound the actor on#whether or not they're queer same thing goes for musicians#“but queerbaiting-” was primarily used towards media not real life people bc that often needs proof which often involves#searching and inspecting these people's private lives behind the scenes (which is problematic) and opens up more can of worms bc#you have to ask yourself why you view these people as queerbaiting without knowing them personally? what aspects of queerness do you feel is#not being met and why does it necessarily have to be?#conversations like this can also rise double standards and other negative aspects within the queer community itself with for example#bisexuality where an actor could be seen with/or dating someone of the opposite gender and be questioned if they're really bi#even though the whole (one) definition of bisexuality involves being attracted to two or more genders#this happened with kit connor#ive also seen this happen with asexuality and people trying to worm their way into famous people's sex lives---very weird#even more so if a celeb came out as one sexuality but changed to one that better fit them now all of sudden their queerbaiting 🤨?#there's also a dangerous precedent when race is involved bc often times poc queer individuals are with the brunt of this criticism bc they#often don't abide by view of queerness that is primarily driven my many (not all) yte queers#you can see this with megan thee stallion & victoria monet both singers who are bi but are often denied by members of the queer community#bc of their relations with men (even though that doesn't/shouldn't negate their sexuality at all) and are sometimes demanded that they act a#certain way only for on the flip side to be accused of aiding into the fetishization of wlw relationships it's very flip flop#the singer khalid was literally outed recently!#this can be very harmful especially for celebs who are probably still navigating who they are for themselves#this ties into how celebs aren't treated as human and bc they are famous certain people believe they are entitled to every aspect of them#stop harassing people#lgbtq#lgbtq community#queerness#queerbaiting#celebrity culture
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the-geeky-fangirl · 2 years ago
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heartstopper isn't cringe it's just sincere and you guys are weak as fuck
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bairdthereader · 10 months ago
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Nick Nelson's Reluctant Yeah
It's well established that Charlie uses a blanket "it's fine" during many interactions in order to downplay troubling moments, mollify and comfort others, or conceal inner turmoil.
Nick, on the other hand, does the reluctant "yeah."
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To confirm something he doesn't like, even if he's the one saying it.
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To get a negative interaction to stop.
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To try to convince himself (or Charlie) of something he doesn't believe.
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To appease the crowd, even when he doesn't want to.
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To make someone else happy, even if it's detrimental to him.
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To agree, despite no real inner resolution.
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To reassure, even when he's not okay.
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To disguise his real stressors (and avoid stressing others).
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To mask his regret.
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Nick is a people pleaser, and this is how he does it when, deep down, he doesn't feel comfortable or in total agreement with the situation. Thankfully, we see a little less of this in S2 than S1. Let's hope for even less in S3. You can do it Nick!
Bonus: Nick's Genuine Yeah (most often present in Charlie's vicinity)
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These are better 💕
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beck404 · 2 years ago
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okay but I wil RIOT if we don't get Charlie telling Nick that he loves him for the first time while he's in the shower. I simply need to see it.
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kleinblue52 · 9 months ago
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"Because you're Charlie. And you love me. And I love you."
Oh I feel like that is the line from the third season. Why are we like this is probably more of a running joke than a leitmotiv, but Nick actually giving an answer to that question in that precise moment is like the turning point when their schoolboy crush becomes something much more adult.
Why are we like this... because we are. Because you are you and I am me, with all the messy and silly and complicated things that we both are, and we are in love.
Two people, two simple humans who randomly cross each other's orbits in the ridiculously small portion of time and space we occupy and decide that yes, this is it, this is one of the reasons why I'm here.
In the Nick & Charlie novella, Charlie often mentions that he knows his relationship with Nick is not normal, because they care about each other much more than any regular teenager should care about their first love. I think that fits the overarching storyline of them staying together well into adulthood and beyond and it also fits Charlie's mental state in that particular moment, but I like that Nick's simple answer is the path forward for them. Sometimes there's no need to seek a be-all and end-all answer. Sometimes it is as simple as we are here, and we love.
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nnicknnelsonn · 6 months ago
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kit on his and joe’s careers
once again YouTuber @devyn bringing all the good things (X)
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kitssunglasses · 2 years ago
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Charlie Spring account commented on Kit's post
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jupiterslifelessmoons · 1 year ago
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Dark hair, blue eyes, dimples, dorky…
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milafm2002 · 3 months ago
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Heartstopper Appreciation Post No. 19
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itsalifestylebr1an · 9 months ago
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“On October 3rd, he asked me what day it was.”  “It's October 3rd!!!!” 🏳️‍🌈
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louiisaa · 8 months ago
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two heartstopper hot takes:
- people WOULD call nick a pedo and say that he fancies youngers for dating someone a year younger than him (i've witnessed it happen on many occasions)
-there's no way leeds uni has an inclusive rugby team
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andrwgarfields · 4 months ago
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kinda funny ppl were worried, questioning wondering abt joe and kit cause there weren’t pics of them at the oscars and here they are at paris immediately attached at the hip and talking once the show ends
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hrrystylesbookclub · 6 months ago
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my take on the romeo + juliet situation is that this is a huge example of the problems that arise with stunt casting* on broadway. in live theater you cannot guarantee your main cast 100% of the time and if you are not prepared to carry out your production without them, that is a huge problem and failure on behalf of the directors and producers. it shows lack of professionalism and too heavy of reliance on your main cast, which is not fair when they have to take time off for illness or personal reasons and not fair to the underprepared understudy who now have to face of wrath of fans.
*relying on an actor’s name to sell tickets/fill seats
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thegirlwithataser · 2 years ago
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what i wrote to my friends while watching heartstopper s2 because i feel like some people need a reminder:
“this WHOLE season is nick’s coming out storyline and in every episode from multiple characters MUTLIPLE TIMES he is reminded that he is under no obligation to come out to anyone and that it is HIS decision to make WHEN he wants to and HE gets to decide WHO to tell and there are no expectations of when or how he comes out and there’s not any pressure coming from anyone for him to do it before he’s ready. So, for kit connor to be portraying this character and acting this storyline after what was done to him by the FANS OF THE FUCKING SHOW is genuinely heartbreaking and i really hope that getting to film this was healing in some way instead of just a reminder of the graciousness that he was not afforded because he deserved so so much better than what he got. I have gotten emotional several times at scenes where nick is reassured that there’s no pressure for him to come out explicitly because that is the opposite of the way the actor was treated.”
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beck404 · 2 years ago
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Season 3 of Heartstopper is rumored to start production in october!
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credits to: heartstopper/netflixuk via instagram!
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dreamonminecraft · 18 days ago
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Romeo + Juliet not getting the Tony is fucking criminal and I'm so mad
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