#ty kat for your help!!! 🫡🫡🫡

[makiitoh]

[mweothe11e]

Hello elle!!! 👋🏾 Kumusta??

Finally i join after finishing my chores😪 Kat, Cancer 🦀 ⬆️

I fear the queens devoured so I'm still replaying this banger 🤠 I haven't been sleeping early consistently :( I've been experimenting to see what will click so i will figure things out with time frs!!!🫡

Ahehehe Kamusta Kat~

Thank you so much for participating in my new ask game.

You're one of the few people here that know I'm Filipina~

Igloo is such a fun song to listen to!! Hey unapologetically listen to them dearie, that song's amazing. Oh no, is your circadian rhythm out of sync? Stress maybe?? Maybe, you drank caffeine later at night, hence, struggle to sleep? Insomnia?

I do hope you feel a little bit better nowadays~

You weren't devastated by the earthquakes, right? How's your family? Your cousins? Are they okay?

Here are the following cards pulled for your reading:

10 of Wands, World, Knight of Cups

The first card suggests that you've been burdened and overwhelmed for far too long, not just in work but in life in general. It seems that almost everything in your life stresses you out. You could also be burning out because you might have a tendency to take all the responsibilities on your shoulders. I'm sensing hypervigilance and a lack of trust in other people's capabilities to show up for you accordingly. Also, might have been experiencing some unavoidable expenses, like you literally cannot catch a break.

This card feels more like a call-out than advice. But there is a lesson in this call-out: awareness. Of one's own limits and current situation. And it is in this knowing that you can see the advice buried among the stress indicators and source.

What do you do when you know you put too much on your plate? You reprioritize what you currently have and then you unload the ones that can be done at a later time.

What do you do when you're too overwhelmed to think straight, let alone work? You learn to incorporate daily habits to rest and destress at the end of the day. And stop shaming yourself for admitting that you've reached your limit. You're not useless or weak for needing to rest. You've simply had enough. You needed time to take better care of yourself.

If you think that putting in half-assed effort every day is being productive while you lay miserably anxious at the end of the day, I hate to be a bearer of bad news but you are tying your self-worth into something external as progress output. I'm not telling you to not show up for yourself, what I'm emphasizing is why settle for half-ass yet consistent output while you hate yourself, when you can learn to accept that letting yourself rest and recuperate properly is a productive form of self-care.

What do you do when you take all the responsibilities on your shoulders? You learn how to distribute the tasks, and delegate said tasks to the personnel with the necessary skillset that can properly achieve those assigned goals. Letting other people do what they do best doesn't mean that you can't do those tasks. It's more of a time management and efficiency issue. It's basically working smarter, not just harder.

What do you do when there are unavoidable expenses? Ask for help from someone who can help you financially now so you can promise to pay it back later, plus interest (If you two agree on this condition). If you want to try to get a loan, then hope it gets approved. If it's strictly your money management skills, learn about financial literacy and learning to make money work for you.

Okay, so for the second card, the word "completion" stood out to me the most. Like, if you have any pending tasks, any works in progress, any unfinished projects that are close to completion, please focus on prioritizing to finish those first.

I heard, "for the sake of your dopamine," lol, so it would seem that you giving yourself a chance to finish pending projects would give you healthy doses of dopamine hits that will encourage you to keep showing up for yourself. It's like a really good source of motivation to show up and stay consistent for your future success.

Also, another word that came to my mind for the second card is "harmony". With this one, there's a certain nudge for you to learn how to create a daily routine that's both productive and harmonious to your overall well-being.

It feels more like, if you decide to completely revamp your daily routine, you'll need to approach it in a more sustainable manner. Like, you literally have to include resting and recuperation as necessary parts of your daily routine. Not just the productive tasks, but also ensuring self-care/reset before the day ends is a nonnegotiable part of your routine.

The last card is asking you to get creative with how you can realign back to your goals this 2nd quarter. Feel free to do your own research on different strategies that may work better for your specific circumstances. You don't have to box yourself into stereotypical advices when you have this inner knowing that there are other ways to go about your goals that isn't widely discussed online.

There's this calling for you to view this time of realignment as a moment to experiment and play through your process. Like you don't have to be so strict and harsh with the guidelines you imposed on yourself. Think of it as if you are a beginner in a new topic. You know you are just starting, so you are giving yourself the grace to master the techniques and methods through your previous mistakes.

It's like the last card is asking you to be kinder to yourself when trying to start again. Just because you are a certain age, it doesn't mean that you are condemned to make a mistake. It doesn't mean that if you start something at your age, you're learned too late. You are simply asked to be strategic about it. Plan out the necessary actionable steps to achieve your goals.

This last card is asking you to not be so harsh with yourself. You can also start again, to learn again, to put yourself out there again, to begin anything new, at any age and phase in your life. You are asked to remember that there are no strict periods for new beginnings.

This concludes the end of your reading.

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