#was basically ostracized by them for three years while simultaneously guilted for not wanting to be around
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fighting the urge to leave my parents’ place a day early and go back to the peace and quiet of my own home
#got bitched out by my sister and mom for getting here late last night bc i was at work late??#and dared to have 15 min conversation w my boss instead of leaving the second i was done???#got in a fight w my mom earlier abt my sisters boyfriend bc i don’t like him and she was like ‘what just because he’s a cop??’#well yeah that’s a big fucking part of it#but the conversation cant go any further bc the ACTUAL reason i’m as bitchy as i am about it is bc i remember when i got in a relationship#and wanted to spend all my free time w that person and would cancel or rearrange family plans to see that person etc etc#and i got no fucking support i was constantly being guilted by my whole family#was basically ostracized by them for three years while simultaneously guilted for not wanting to be around#now my sister does the same goddamn thing and my mom does nothing but defend her#and ik it’s bc my partner was a woman like it’s no big surprise or secret that that’s what the issue was#but sorry if i’m just a little bit fucking bitter about it.#and if i were to say ‘oh i’m upset that’s she’s rearranging family stuff and bailing on us for him’ my mom would say ‘well you did the same’#yeah and the reaction was markedly fucking different.#but no matter how i approach it they’ll make me the problem 😌
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