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sketchbook drawings theyre a bit old

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contact stances are not a reliable indicator of whether someone is abusive or not, ever, and "pro-c" shouldn't be used as a prescriptive/inflammatory label. let people define themselves instead of attempting to define who they are for them.

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beams my ray into you that makes you fatter and chubby

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the floating head of wisdom

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from this ask game

🌐 or 24: Have you ever transitioned to any transIDs? How did you do it (if you want to share)?

maybe, it's hard to say. i dont have many transids in the first place (just some transharmful ones, mainly transinfamous, transgroomer, trans sexual child abuser, and such) but you could say ive been transitioning to transinfamous a little. i have been crossposted by antis to twitter + reddit, posted about on tumblr negatively multiple times by multiple people, and seem to be a bit more well known in the community than the average radqueer. so yeah in some ways i guess i have been transitioning to transinfamous a bit lol.

honestly not something i did purposefully though lmao. the main thing was just being pro c leaning and outspoken about it. as well as just being a bigger radqueer in the first place from my past blogs and especially my art.

aside from that i dont really see myself as having transitioned to any of my transids. im not in a conabuse relationship with my partner so i dont count any of that as transitioning. though you could count me changing my legal name + sex could also count, have done that actually and am officially a man with a masc name now. since about a year actually. but otherwise i dont have any special transitioning stories to tell lol

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Have you ever thought about making a discord server for your community? It’s hard to find you over and over again and you seem to have a lot of fans :]

my partner suggested it too actually, we're semi working on it but can't say it'll be done anytime soon. especially me personally i dont know shit about discord or making / running one lmaoo. but im happy to hear someone's interested in it!! yeah i can imagine finding me again can be difficult. i try to refollow all my mutuals but especially if they get got too its hard to do that with everyone.

i do have my strawpage that i try to link my tumblr on everytime, so if you can't find me again you could try checking that to see if ive updated it with my new blog!!

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radqueers can we stop fucking arguing over contact discourse? Contact stances are outdated and meant to divide us. I am saying just. Just be nice to each other. Stop doing this whole us vs them bs in our own community. Please

As someone without a contact stance at all, some of you are a little too fucking comfortable being just like anti radqueers the moment you’re faced with someone you disagree with. Can we not fucking do that in the “radically accepting of everyone” community.

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yoinked from op who threw a tantrum about radqueers reblogging it LOL. radqueers feel free 2 reblog this one to ur hearts content XD

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A more fleshed out description of Fullpeacequeer

🌈 FullPeaceQueer 🪻

emoji combo: 🕊️☮️🌈/🕊️☮️♾️/🌈🌷🕊️

FullPeace queer is a blankqueer term that is mostly based in acceptance, “live and let live”, pro-consent, and overall the social acceptance and coexistence of everyone.

First and formost Fullpeacequeer is pro-consent, but the idea of “consent” varys from person to person. In fullpeacequeer This is a general term, a term that embraces relationships where all parties are happy with consenting- physically, romantic, sexually, etc. Fullpeacequeer is anti-rape.

Fullpeace queer also promotes and encourages the idea of sex-ed for all. Sex-ed shouldnt just be a onetime class of how babies are made, it should be a class of consent, doing what you want to do, how to have sex safely if you are going to have sex, how to avoid being groomed or taken advantage of, etc. Proper Sex ed will make it so unwanted teenage pregnancies are less likely to happen and that minors are less likely to be sexually abused, assaulted, or groomed- and if they are, they will know that what happened to them is wrong and they can get the help they need.

This also goes with the idea the age of consent is flawed, and no this does not mean that children can consent. It simply means that every situation is different, that some minors are smart enough and developed enough to consent(especially lately that its been scientifically thought that minors are going through puberty earlier in life) and that some adults and elders(especially mentally disabled/challenged ones) cannot consent and can be taken advantage of just as much as a minor can. This goes with idea that the age of consent is flawed, and that making a pin point age of where a line is drawn is wrong. That rather protective measures should be put in for many different situations and for many people, to make it so minors have more rights and that many more people can be protected from beinf taken advantage of. Once again: PRO CONSENT.

FullPeacequeer is Pro-para, proship, pro-consent, anti-nonconsensual actions, anti-harassment, pro-blocking, pro-ignorance

FullPeacequeer believes in the fact that you should accept all contact stances aslong as there is consent and that is not hurting anyone(without consent).

Fullpeacequeer is pro-ALLTRANSIDS. Transharmfuls, transharmed, trace, transethnic, etc ahould all be accepted and supported.

Fullpeacequeer supports breaking down racial-binaries and gender-binaries, and is against racism, sexism, transphobia, homophobia, etc.

Fullpeacequeer supports contradictory labels, things like lesboys, straightgays, etc.

Fullpeacequeer is anti-discourse and anti-hatred. this branches into being pro-blocking. You dont like something? Block or delete it. Avoid discourse. If someone hates on you; block, delete, and/or report. Use your resources.

FullPeacequeer supports both those whp want recovery and those who dont, recovery is a personal choice and you should NEVER force/push someone to recover or force/push someone to not recovering. If someone wants to recover? Support them! If someome dosent want to recover? Let them not recover!

Branching of recovery, FullPeacequeer is supportive of recovering abusers, predators, etc. Yes, they should be held accountable for whatever they have dosne, but if they want to change, grow, and become a better person- you should let them without shame.

Accept everyone, and love everyone/p. Learn to coexist no matter contact stances or different opinions! Hatred divides the radqueer community.

Accept that the Mogai/Liom community, The otherkin/therian community, the Transid/Radqueer community can coexist!

Anti-Censorship and Anti-Gatekeeping. Fictional content is fictional and is not a problem. And you cannot gatekeep terms, genders, posts, etc. The anti-gatekeeping is very heavy on xenogender and yume/fictional other communities, you CANNOT gatekeep a post or gender!! Once you post something or share something on the internet there is no promise that someone you dont like will not interact with your content

Basically the same as my last post but with more indebth descriptions of the ideals!

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BIG radqueer ask game :3

🌸 or 1: How did you find out about the Radqueer community? What made you join?

🍦 or 2: Were you ever an anti? If so, what made you change your mind?

🕯 or 3: What is your specific blankqueer label, if you have one? (and want to share it, ofc)

💭 or 4: Do you identify with/as any transIDs? Which ones?

🍑 or 5: If you identify with transIDs, what is your favorite of your transIDs?

🛼 or 6: Do you have any paras?

🌨 or 7: Are you a system? If so, how did you find out you are one?

🦋 or 8: What is your most "controversial" transID? Why do you identify that way + what do you think people should know about that identity?

💝 or 9: What transID do you want to transition to the most, if any?

🧃 or 10: What would you look like if you fully transitioned to all of your IDs?

🤍 or 11: If you had to choose, which transID would you not want to have (as in, which would you not want to identify with)?

🎈 or 12: What is your favorite flag made by someone in the rq community?

🍰 or 13: If you're trace, tell us why, or how you found out! (You can also infodump about your trace ID!)

🕊 or 14: If you're transage, tell us why, or how you found out! (You can also infodump about your transage ID!)

🍭 or 15: If you're transharm in some way, what do you think the reason for identifying as your transharm ID is?

👼🏼 or 16: If you are in fandom and/or are a shipper of any sort, what is your favorite ship? Drop some art you like of that ship!

💘 or 17: If you're plural, how do other members of your system feel about radqueers?

🩰 or 18: Who are your favorite rq tumblr users? @ them!

🎠 or 19: Do you ever get antis in your askbox? How do you respond to them?

🥛 or 20: What's your favorite thing about being part of this community?

📖 or 21: What's your least favorite thing about being part of this community?

🍪 or 22: Do you think you'll ever leave or "grow out of" this community?

🌷 or 23: Do you use any xeno-transIDs? (Like xenoabled, xenogender, xenoage, etc.) If so, list them!

🌐 or 24: Have you ever transitioned to any transIDs? How did you do it (if you want to share)?

🍓 or 25: What transIDs are a squick (personal discomfort) for you? Would you mind sharing why?

✨ or 26: Do you follow any religion (mainstream or neo/xenoreligion)?

🐇 or 27: Do you use subliminals? Do you make them? Do you see effects from your sublimal usage?

💖 or 28: If you identify with transIDs, what is your main reason?

💍or 29: If you have atypical dysphoria, is it more social, mind, or body dysphoria?

☁️ or 30: If you are a trans-mobility-aid-user, tell us about what mobility aid you want! Would you decorate it?

🔅 or 31: If you are a cis-mobility-aid-user, what do you think of folks who are trans- the mobility aid you use?

👗or 32: Do you have any contradicting identities?

💌 or 33: If you are cis- neurodivergent, mentally ill, etc, how does seeing folks who are trans- your disorder/syndrome make you feel?

🐭or 34: If you are cis-disabled, how does seeing people who are trans- your disablities make you feel?

💓 or 35: What would your ideal relationship look like?

🧴 or 36: Are you an artist (writer, digital/traditional artist, painter, musician, etc.)? Share some of your work, if you are (and if you are comfortable doing so)!

🌼 or 37: If you are severi- anything (wanting a disorder/disability to be worse or not as bad as it is), why do you identify that way?

🌷 or 38: Are you in any radqueer discord servers? Do you like them?

🧁or 39: Does your username have meaning? What does it mean? If it has no meaning, how did you choose it?

⛸ or 40: Infodump about your favorite ID- para, transID, gender, therian/otherkin... anything!

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transawesomesauce and transcoolbeans if they could bite!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

theyre siblings and are in love nyahahaha >;3

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please stop treating the word neurodivergent like it means the overlap between autism and adhd

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going to trip over my own ass with this one HI HELLO !! idk if it's weird to say but i've shown one of my non-rq (questioning prolly i'm not sure) your mlp rq universe bc it's been one of her interests for a very long time and it made her realize she was transage all along and i wanna say this proudly; please don't stop making those, they're super super sweet and i love how they've all bonded and i lowk wanna see rarities, twilights n applejack's ids or opinions would be, or see their para lists n such i'm not sure regardless of my babbling, i gen hope you have a nice day and please don't stop being awesome <3

thats actually awesome what!!! im super happy it helped her figure out she was transage, that's great to hear!! i def do plan on making more, just havent had enough time to recently unfortunately. but i do still remember it, dont worry!! might make something like info sheets for the main six next actually, just realised i havent even done that yet. well see.

but regardless im glad it helped your friend and that you both like them so much!!! will absolutely make more i love making rq mlp headcanons and art too, they're always super fun to draw ^^

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I will always 100% of the time prefer being weird over being mean. Even if people hate me for being weird at least im not mean

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man i really hope my roommates haven’t figured out that if they hear my fan running, it probably means im jacking off 💀

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Happy Plurality Pride Day!