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"The man isn't the prize - the lifestyle is."

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“Sunsets are proof that endings can be beautiful.”

— Buddha

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Find your balance.

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Who is SHE?

→ journal out who you want to be in 2025:

1. What does she look like? (Physical appearance, style)

2. How does she dress on a typical day?

3. What does she like ?

4. What doesn't she like?

5. What is her behavior like in different situations?

6. (Social interactions, demeanor)

7. How does she prefer to be treated by others? (Expectations from relationships)

8. How does she treat people around her? (Interpersonal relationships, kindness)

9. What does her daily routine entail? (Activities, schedule)

10. At what time does she usually go to bed? (Sleeping habits)

11. When does she wake up in the morning? (Morning routine)

12. What are her hobbies and interests? (Leisure activities)

13. What is her profession or occupation? (Career, job responsibilities)

14. What are her long-term goals and aspirations? (Career ambitions, personal achievements)

15. How does she handle stress or challenges? (Coping mechanisms, problem-solving approach)

16. What type of books does she enjoy? (Cultural preferences)

17. How does she maintain her physical and mental well-being? (Health and self-care routines)

18. Does she have any specific dietary preferences or restrictions? (Food choices)

19. Who are her closest friends, and what are her relationships like with them?(Friendship dynamics)

20. How does she navigate conflicts or disagreements? (Communication style, conflict resolution)

21. What values and principles guide her decision-making? (Personal ethics)

22. How does she spend her leisure time on weekends? (Weekend activities, relaxation methods)

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The more you show up, the faster it comes

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If you hang out with a…

Disciplined person, you’ll start respecting structure

Insecure person, you’ll start second-guessing yourself

Adventurous person, you’ll crave new experiences

Victim minded person, you’ll start blaming instead of growing

Abundant person, you’ll stop thinking in limits

Jealous person, you’ll start resenting your blessings

High value woman, you’ll raise your standards without apologo

Chaotic person, you’ll feel like peace is boring

Healed person, you’ll see how emotionally mature life can be

Procrastinator, you’ll normalize delay over progress

Ambitious person, you’ll start dreaming bigger

Judgmental person, you’ll fear being fully yourself

Playful person, you’ll learn to soften and enjoy the moment

Energy is contagious

Habits are contagious

Mindsets are contagious

Doesn’t matter how x you think you are because if you were, you wouldn’t make decisions or choose people that don’t align

You become who you’re around even when you don’t notice it

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50 LIFE RULES THAT ARE GOLDEN.

1. Always stand up while shaking hands with someone.

2. Never make the first offer in a negotiation. 3. Keep their secret if they have faith in you. 4. Return an automobile they lend you with the tank full.

5. Act passionately or don't act at all.

6. Shake hands firmly and stare the other person in the eye.

7. Take a solo trip and experience it.

8. There are clear reasons why you should never refuse a peppermint tablet.

9. If aging is your goal, heed advice.

10. Join the new individual at the office or school for dinner.

11. If you are furious and you are texting someone, complete, read, delete, and rewrite the message.

12. You avoid discussing business, politics, or religion at the table.

13. Set goals and work toward them in writing.

14. Present your case while showing people respect and tolerance.

15. Make a visit and phone your family.

16. Never look back and always learn from your experiences

17. Your personality ought to be one of loyalty and honor.

18. Never give money to someone you know won't be able to repay you.

19. Have faith in something.

20. Make your bed as soon as you wake up. 21. Take a shower and sing.

22. Maintain a garden or a plant.

23. Look up at the sky whenever you get the chance.

24. Recognize and utilize your strengths.

25. Embrace your work or quit it.

26. When you need assistance, ask for it.

27. Instruct someone in a value—ideally a modest one.

28. Express gratitude to the person who is reaching out to you.

29. Show your neighbors kindness.

30. If you brighten someone else's day, it will brighten yours as well.

31. Put yourself to the test.

32 Give yourself a treat at least yearly

33. Look after your well-being.

34. Always give a cheerful greeting.

35. Speak slowly, but think quickly.

36. Avoid speaking while full of mouth.

37. Always maintain a neat appearance, trim your nails, and shine your shoes.

38. Avoid voicing an opinion on topics you are unfamiliar with.

39. Don't treat others badly.

40. Approach each day as though it were your last.

41. Don't ever pass up the chance to keep silent.

42. Give someone credit for their work.

43. Have humility, even if it's not always present.

44. Always remember your origins.

45. Take trips whenever you can.

46. Resign from the step.

47 Take a rainy dance.

48. Keep going after your success.

49. Treat others fairly and defend those in need.

50. Acquire the skill of relishing solitude.

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the right man will expand your social circles. the wrong man will become your social circle.

-Hypergamylations 10:6

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Your personality is deeply influenced by your self image—the story you tell yourself about who you are. Every time you say something like, “I’m shy,” “I’m not disciplined,” or “I can’t do X,” you’re reinforcing a limiting belief your brain created to keep your actions in line with that story. These beliefs aren’t facts—they’re just habits of thought.

The truth is, you can become anything you want, but it starts with shifting your self image. When you change the way you see yourself, your actions naturally follow. Align your self image with the person you want to be & your personality will evolve to match it.

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How to create a captivating aura✨✨

Confidence comes from understanding your value and carrying yourself with poise

Dress elegantly & enhance your natural beauty with subtle makeup and timeless outfits

Practice mindfulness or meditation to stay grounded and radiate peace

Speak less and listen more

Choose your words wisely, maintain eye contact & speak with intention

A warm smile & genuine attitude make you naturally magnetic

Explore art galleries, fine dining & sophisticated travel destinations

Healthy skin, good posture, and wellness reflect vitality

Don’t reveal everything at once—let people wonder

Read, learn, and pursue hobbies to expand your knowledge & character

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Romanticize your life not other people.

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HOW TO GET OUT OF A READING SLUMP

Inspired by how I'm currently trying to read again. 

START SHORTER. Try to read something manageable for you, and it doesn’t have to even be a full novel. It could be an essay on something that interests you or any short stories you find. Get into the habit of reading at your own pace, till you feel ready to take on something bigger. 

SET REALISTIC GOALS. Instead of wanting a goal like completing a book within a week, I would say 20 minutes of reading per day or at least 2 hours per week. You don’t have to track the time when you’re reading, but make mental notes of when you start reading and how long you read. 

EXPLORE. You may even be tired of reading certain genres, and not notice it. While in a slump, I would explore different books and see what interests me the most. For example, if you love reading romance books, try some action ones instead(or vice versa.)

REREAD FAVES. The familiarity of some books can help us get back into the swing of reading. Every time I reread a book, I always pick up on new details that I didn’t notice before. Reread one of your favourite books and try to spot details that you didn’t spot before. 

MAKE A LIST. Create a list of all the books that you want to read or reread. I feel like the process of seeing all the books you could, really encourages you to pick up that book. 

TRY A DIFFERENT FORMAT. For a lot of us, reading paperback or hard copy is the way to go. However, when I’m in a slump, I feel like opting for a different format helps me to get back into reading. For example, a digital book, or an e-book. (or vice versa)

READ IN A DIFFERENT ENVIRONMENT. I love LOVE, reading in an actual library. It is not for everyone, but a change of scenery can help. Some ideas can be at a park, a cafe, beaches and or a nature trail. 

PAIR READING WITH ANOTHER ACTIVITY. Some examples are exercising, cooking, travelling/commuting or doing mindfulness activities. This is more for getting back into the habit, once you’ve got it again, I would say to focus only on reading. 

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One of the reasons I am really really successful in the areas I care about is I really don't care about the status quo and am tone deaf as they come. I want it, I get it. It's that simple. When I was learning mandarin and joined this stupid class thing full of naysayers that whined about how tough it is I literally just decided lol not for me and went to teach myself . When I was told I would not make it past my second year of high school I literally just went and became captain I have no idea what you are on about right now. I don't recognize *can not* as a state of being I am capable of whatever I put my mind and dedication and effort into I really don't know who you're talking to rn I just know it's not me because if I said I will I will it's really that easy. If I said I'll make 200k this month I will. *But ThE EcOnOmY* what does that have to do with anything James? I want to make 200 I will it's really that simple. Do I look like I consult with the economy on what I can or can not do? Be serious right now we are pushing 25 don't kid around. The status quo means nothing to me. I don't consult with random people or things about my desires, it's as simple as I want it so I get it. I'll work for it I don't mind. Can Not, though, is not a phrase I'm familiar or friendly with. I can. Because I can. Simpleee. I'm creation do you not get the concept? I'm female. Seriously. Be serious.