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“i’m not the same as who i was before [x] thing happened to me” does it help to know that you would not have stayed that person regardless

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i get the frustration when a piece of media botches a redemption arc but i do think its funny when people say "why couldnt it be more like zuko from atla" like okay i dont walk into mcdonalds and wonder why they dont serve filet mignon steaks yknow.

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knight who is constantly searching for a good and noble king to serve but cannot fucking find one for the life of him so he has to become the good and noble king himself.

and now all these other knights are coming around like "please let me serve you" and like obviously hes going to let them serve him thats the point of being a good and noble king but its also. very annoying. one of you become the good and noble king for once lets trade

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New gender-neutral bathroom just dropped

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just letting everyone know this post has been cooking for 7 years and it'll finally post in 2028

its so old that when i click edit the corners of the boxes are still sharp

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Trump is dead this and Trump is dead that. The obvious answer for Trump's sudden disappearance is that Trump has gone into his very first heat and the Whitehouse is trying to cover up that he's an Omega

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#his hypersensitivity to debts is what got him into all of that mess in the first place #it's also why he hates when ppl thank him bc he doesn't want THEM to feel like they owe him anything #bc he gets to consumed by his own debts to people he wouldn't want it to happen to anyone else (via @sunflower-dori)

YES!! I remember some people back in the day talking about how Wei Wuxian treated Wen Ning badly, because Wen Ning felt like he owed WWX, but the entire thing with their interactions is how uncomfortable WWX is about being the person who makes Wen Ning feel this way!

In fact, this dynamic is exactly why Wen Ning and Wei Wuxian don't really work that well together, because while Wen Ning is extremely loyal and devoted, he brings this dynamic into their relationship very heavily. And, Wei Wuxian has trauma around it!!

Even when Lan Wangji is being kind to him post resurrection, one of his first thoughts is that Lan Wangji felt like he owed him for what happened in the Xuanwu caves! It's something that weighs heavily upon him

none of you understand the core theme of MDZS, because it tackles a fundamentally unpleasant subject. How debt is coercive, abusive, and corrodes a relationship, even if it might seem like it makes people tied to you. There's a reason that WWX's love confession contains a disclaimer about how his love for LWJ is not because he is indebted to him. There's a reason LWJ does not confess, or push WWX for a relationship. WWX is hypersensitive to the debts he owes, whether to the Jiangs, to the Wens, or even to Jin Ling. LWJ does not want a relationship where WWX feels the need to repay him. Thus, "no sorries, or thank yous between us".

Honestly, the reason a lot of people don't understand this theme is because they are stuck on the idea that WWX owes someone something, anything, they think his sensitivity to debt is something to be encouraged. But, it's not a good thing, and it eats away at him, bit by bit. That's the story of his first life. LWJ is his reward, essentially, and represents freedom from debt, a love that does not contain the subtle and corrosive coercion of debt

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okay I still can't get over the ending of the good place. they all left in reverse order of when they met eleanor. everything came full circle.

at the start Eleanor was all alone and she's all alone at the ending but it's okay this time because she's actually in the good place and was surrounded by her friends and she's grown and she found a place to belong and people to belong with and it's beautiful.

but it's also really kind of sad in a way because we know that Eleanor was always so afraid of being alone and abandoned. and all her friends leave and go through the door and she's alone again, but she's not abandoned, but we can't help but feel sad because in some way she is getting abandoned

this makes no sense but I can't get over it. Eleanor was the start and Eleanor was the end and its happy and sad and I'm not okay

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Sex before marriage is a sin. Unless you do it doggystyle, cause all dogs go to heaven.

Follow me for more biblical loopholes.

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Wei Wuxian being empathetic to the dead is just so much important to me, it's maddening. Because it is such rotten work but he does it with so much love. People romanticise empathy in theory so much, but Wei Wuxian shows us how difficult it is to actually practice the same in real life.

The fierce corpses or the Burial Mounds are the dumping grounds of MDZS world. It is basically the entirety of cultivation world's negativity, hatred, pain and trauma - dumped in one place. The dark shadows- which society keeps running away from, trying their hardest to ignore it's existence. But Wei Wuxian doesn't do that. He spends time with them, listens to them, embraces them, shows them kindness. His empathy isn't in theory, isn't like a cobweb which crumbles with a mere touch, his empathy is merged with active love- which is dirty, bloody, gritty, but which is able to create a home out of the Burial Mounds and leads to the formation of Demonic Cultivation.

He showed us how difficult yet vital it is to show kindness to the people you want to turn your eyes away from, because it is too painful and ugly to look at their suffering, their decay, their abuse, to see humanity in those who are shunned, feared or deemed unclean. His love was so deeply radical.

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"i do not dream of labour" is one of the worst pseudo-marxist taglines that western leftists have co-opted because when you ask them what they do dream of, they say traveling, studying, and creating art. broski, who's flying the plane to take you to prague? who's the security at the library with the texts you're studying? who are the clerks in the museum showcasing your art? like bro, you do dream of labour. you just dream of someone else doing it so you don't have to! you merely want to outsource the labour and make it invisible.

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This website is elite. This website is the blueprint, it's the pinnacle. There is no website like it. I lwill never leave this website