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truly never getting over the greatest loss streaming services caused: the disappearance of DVD special features. behind the scenes, bloopers, deleted scenes, commentaries, I will never forget you, I will never stop missing you.

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From one Gen-Z to another, let’s continue to deprogram ourselves from the idea that 30 is old and you need to have your shit together before 30.

You can go back to school after age 30!

You can fall in love after age 30!

You can find a best friend after age 30!

You can find a passion after age 30!

You can find a job you love after age 30!

You can recover from an addiction after the age 30!

You can pursue a large goal after age 30!

You can travel the world after age 30!

You can move after age 30!

You can change your appearance after age 30!

You can ask for help after age 30!

You can make discoveries about yourself after age 30!

You can come out after age 30!

You can fix your finances after age 30!

You can be attractive after age 30!

You can fix your life after age 30!

You can do anything after age 30!

Idk what so specifically about the number 30 has bewitched so many of us into believing that means your life is over, but it’s just so far from the truth!

You have so much more time after 30 to accomplish all that you want to do.

Your life isn’t over until it quite literally is over. Stop giving yourself a deadline that doesn’t exist!

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For the record, I would never knowingly use or share AI generated art in anything I post, so if you ever catch me doing so, it was an accident, and I'd like you to let me know so I can delete it.

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Endless Gifs Of Arthur Morgan (43/?) Pouring Fourth Oil

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Ok, loves, so we've all got the message that joking about suicide is bad for your mental health. Now we need to get on "joking that the planet/all of humanity has no future" is bad for societal health/encouraging resistance to bad shit."

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— Mary! We missed you so much! — Oh, Kenna, Greer, Lola, I’m so happy to see you. Aylee, we’re all together again.

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Pride and Prejudice S1.E2 | 1995 Adapted by Andrew Davies

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I haven’t seen Little Women 2017 in a long time but I just remembered that they kept the scene with Beth and Frank in the book when they’re at Camp Laurence, and it makes me wish we could have seen a sweet friendship blossom from that pair. I don’t know if they would have made a good romantic pair, but I think a good friendship would have been really nice to see if they had kept in touch. What do you think?

I sincerely apologize how incredibly late this response is! A crap ton of stuff happened to me since I got this, and it only just started to calm down.

I completely agree with you! They only had such a small moment, but we can see how quickly they are able to bond, and we know how difficult it is for Beth to open up to people. I like the idea of them just being great friends, that they are so close people just presume that they must be in a relationship, (because it is the 19th century and men and women could never just be friends), but the truth is, they just have this connection with one another that is difficult to describe.

Are they platonic soulmates? Do they have sibling energy? Is just simply they are the bestest of best friends ever? They don't even know and they don't care about naming it. It's just nice to have someone around who can understand their need for quiet and not question their desire to be happy where they are now.

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PRIDE & PREJUDICE (2005) Dir. Joe Wright

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people in books and tv shows are always getting so upset they throw an untouched meal in the trash. that would never be me. i'd receive the worst news of my life and still be like Let me put this in the fridge.

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PRIDE AND PREJUDICE 2005 | dir. Joe Wright

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Every Anne Shirley Costume (13/?) ❥ Anne of Green Gables: The Sequel (1987)

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The closest experience I've ever had to discovering "the vitamin" was buying a 100% wool outfit and wearing it in the winter.

Not only was I not freezing anymore, I was not sweating and overheating either. The horrible sensory nightmare of winter clothes disappeared.

In particular, I bought a pair of wool pants. They were a thrifted pair of fancy dress pants like you would wear at an important office job, and they were easily the most comfortable pair of winter-appropriate pants i'd ever worn. I wore them Every Single Day.

From that point on I realized a lot of my clothes were making me feel bad, and the common thread was polyester. Especially polyester blends.

It's a trap because the polyester clothes are the ones that always feel sooooo silky soft when they are in the store, whereas cotton, linen and wool can feel comparatively rough and scratchy. But when actually wearing them for hours throughout the day, it's the natural fibers that feel more comfortable.

Maybe the secret to sensory comfort is not about the presence of softness, but the absence of overloading sensations. Or maybe the sensory stress and agony is not triggered by texture of the fabric, but by how it breathes and regulates temperature.

Then there's the problem of clothing life span: polyester blends, no matter how soft they seem at first, become rough and scratchy and covered in hard, itchy pills after wearing them 10 or 20 times, whether or not they have been tumble-dried or even washed at all. (I tested it!) Linen and cotton become softer and more comfy the more you wear them, polyester but ESPECIALLY polyester blends become a constant stressor. Polyester blend t-shirts I used to love for their softness now feel bristly and irritating.

So now I'm trying to change my wardrobe to as many natural fibers as possible, and the more natural fiber clothes i have the more I realize that the plastic fibers stress me out. It's so easy to overheat or freeze in them and they're always degrading and becoming less comfortable and it sucks.

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“I think anxiety it very interesting,” observed Amy, eating sugar, pensively. The girls couldn’t help laughing, and felt better for it, though Meg shook her head at the young lady who could find consolation in a sugar-bowl.

-Little Women, chapter 16 “Letters”

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Reign + Costumes

Mary Stuart's white dress in Season 02, Episode 12.

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“I think anxiety it very interesting,” observed Amy, eating sugar, pensively. The girls couldn’t help laughing, and felt better for it, though Meg shook her head at the young lady who could find consolation in a sugar-bowl.

-Little Women, chapter 16 “Letters”

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One of the reasons why I love Laurie + why I love Laurie and Amy ❤️