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Saying "I'm a switch" but I mean switching between being an angel and being pretty fucking annoying

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i want a mysterious source of income

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don't ignore your alters. don't push your parts away. don't pretend like they don't exist. ''if i ignore them, they will go away,'' <--- something you shouldn't do. even if you don't like your system, it is not something you can ignore. they will not vanish because you're ignoring them. please, cooperate. work with them. you share a body. not liking them doesn't matter. you share a life with them and everyone has the responsibility to move forward and live the life. it's okay to dislike your system. it's not okay however to ignore them, push them away, pretend they don't exist, not do anything to help them and just let everything be in chaos. that will not help. it will make everything worse. love for your system means cooperating; working as a team, family or roomates; maybe even coworkers; and not ignoring and confusing everyone in your system because you hate them. moral of the story, ignoring your system won't make them go away. once your parts are there; they'll always be there. do the bare mininum and at the very least, work together.

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you're the only one...

BERSERK (1997)

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Credit to rhymes.y

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can't believe that russell t davies has conjured up the most terrifying nightmare scenario ever known on doctor who:

compulsory heteronormativity

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INTERVIEW WITH THE VAMPIRE 2.08: And That's The End of It. There's Nothing Else IWTVTwT Version.

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thank uou for showing me your little white boy i do not like him can you put him away please

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DID sucks because in the morning you think "maybe I'm actually normal and I should stop overanalyzing my experiences and just enjoy life" and in the evening you get possessed by the ghost of yourself from 2018

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help i forgot i fucking made this lol

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my griffith moodboard do u like it

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''Is it ableist if I don't want to speak to any of my friend's alters?'' Let's start off simple: Yes, It is. But, allow me to explain why It's ableist. I feel like this type of saying coming from singlets Is a big problem that comes from misunderstanding and lack of research. Many singlets often don't know anything about how DID/OSDD works, and end up saying things like this as a result. DID/OSDD forms In childhood. If your system friend, Is, for example, 13 and FOUND OUT (important keyword here) they were a system, then they didn't just create their system right off the bat. They found out. And let's remember here that your friend wasn't a singlet before discovery, they simply found out about the disorder and their alters! They are an alter, too. There Is no 'original' personality, you have already spoken to their alters before, too. You just didn't know it, and neither did they! Saying ''I don't want to speak to your alters'' Is ableist, and very disrespectful at that. They're an alter too. They all are, and they're not any different from the host, or any alter that you have spoken to before. If you're a singlet with system friends, please do your research instanstly Instead of assuming things like this. They WILL appreciate you trying to understand them. Don't be afraid to reach out to resources or research websites. Please remember. Be respectful. And if they allow it, don't be afraid to ask questions. My system personally always appreciates questions about DID/OSDD, and we're always happy to answer. For systems, I know singlets may struggle to understand. But please give them time and resources to learn, have patience and allow them to understand you, even if it's just a little. thank you for coming to my tedtalk