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To perceive is to suffer.

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You can't afford to lose what you already have .So try harder.

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Dreamt so much that now I am spoilt by success in my future and now I can't afford to let that go.

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 SELF LOVE :from the perspective of a mending learner.

 Self love is a journey.  You  can't  achieve  it in a day. When nothing can be achieved in a day, so how perfection? Because I call self love as perfection . Having time for yourself is normal, the need for time for yourself is not a luxury but a necessity, because it helps you  achieve perfection, so now you know why people say nobody is perfect.😂  

Hey , are you pretending? Because I wanted to let you know that you don’t have to, if the life that seems to be intriguingly curious and filled with amazing hopes are all pretention, then just leave them, you don’t have to console yourself by saying “I am happy” when you aren’t, accept who you are.

You pretend you are fine, sometimes you take the time to contemplate and analyze your strength but suddenly something grabs your neck, its there, you know it, you know you are not fine, you know that you need help, yet that grab, the grab of fear won’t let you to regard your thoughts, it leaves you no room for cognition, all you feel is fear and there again starts the cycle of pretention. it’s the truth, right?

You don’t want to accept that you are in pain, actually its not always the society, its sometimes ”you” - your witless conscience that bounds you from accepting your bruises. We have heard people say about 'wear your scars', but please do realize you should first heal to have scars and then only you can wear them.

You  don't have to pretend normality nor happiness, heal like the cartilage, start exploring yourself because at the end of the day all you have is nothing and none but you.

Learn that you have your own timeline and make sure  that you can handle yourself at any point, because you belong to yourself, you are not controlled, you can achieve and all you need is your focus and you; when someone else achieves what you wanted, earlier than you ,make sure you are not moved, the timeline is real, it never makes you less of a person.

You don’t need a reason to love you, even if you make no progress, even if you are stuck, you have to love yourself immensely without constraints. You are no less if you fail, you are the same even if you succeed. Love yourself for anything you do, remember you are not a liability. Remember: you are worth  your love.