transagainstautogynephiles

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ALSO you cannot say you include trans men in your feminism and in the same breath call them “women who identify as men”.

TRANS MEN ARE NOT WOMEN. YOU CANNOT CLAIM YOU CARE ABOUT THEM AND THEIR WELLBEING WITHOUT ACKNOWLEDGING AND RESPECTING THEIR IDENTITY AND WHO THEY ARE.

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The Male Gamer fiasco is proof that we just need to start castrating these apes. “Nooo they’re banning the violently pedophilic incestuous rape gamesssss this is censorship noooo”

You are not a safe individual and should not be allowed to participate in civilized society until your two inch Violence Inflictor, prostate, and nutsack are removed.

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so itchio has shadowbanned any games tagged with 'nsfw', 'adult', or 'erotic' so they don't show up in searches, and several devs have reported that their r18 games have been removed from the site with no warning

you know, maybe the internet shouldn’t be controlled by payment processors and terf lobbyists. and maybe people should be more concerned about this rise of censorship on queer media.

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Anyway before BDSM came into the mainstream, there was beginning to be more public conciousness about freezing up being a common response during trauma and that domestic violence happens in cycles often including periods of kindness. Now, the consensus is “It’s your responsibility to be fully articulate/remember a meaningless phrase during a process specifically designed to break down your boundaries and put you in fight/flight mode.” and “it can’t be abuse because there’s aftercare!”

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Drag me if you want but I feel like a major problem with liberal/Western gender ideology is that it’s so focused on aesthetics. Like “Look at me, I’m defying gender norms by wearing a dress/suit/makeup/whatever.” Like okay but what about defying gender norms via the breakdown of behaviour? What about acknowledging things like male entitlement, aggression, perceived weakness and submissiveness, the expectation of women to perform emotional labour etc. If we don’t actively work to break down oppressive and dangerous gender stereotypes, what is the point? Defying gender norms and identities can’t just be limited to clothing, hair, and makeup

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if misandry is so "bad" then why are manhaters so hilarious and beautiful and smart and correct all of the time? and man lovers so lame and embarrassing and annoying?

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I made a post about male suicide a while back and got a lot of shit.

I just wanted to tell you that a friend of mine works for Samaritan health service for their suicide hotline. She told me a 'funny' story.

The majority of her time is spent screening and blocking phone numbers so that the lines are free for people who need help. Why does she have to do this ? Hundreds of times a day men would call up while masturbating, of course they would only stay on the line if the operator was female, which the majority are.

Men have always taken advantage of women's kindness and they always will. It is not our job.

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trans women on this site will post 24/7 about their rape and incest fetishes etc and then cry about trans women being unfairly perceived as perverts and how everyone hates them and is so transmisogynistic 😢😢😢

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fucking... ms paint comic about eggs

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Man in sapphic group gets paid to guilt trip bi and lesbian women about mouthfeel, lesbians got kicked for not being open to girl dick

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so. i have found an account of autogynephilia from the agp's perspective. ill link the full thing for those curious, but im going to talk about bits of it below

substack | archived

the article starts off as describing an insecure, autistic child. one who couldnt fit in with the other boys well, which isnt odd for people describing their transition amongst both trans people and detransitioners

and then we jump right into stealing his moms clothes and also viewing a girl he knew as a different version of himself. which is.. concerning

ah..

thats the thing though. in other parts of the article he explains that he didnt like the woman hatred in the trans community, and althought this is a less common version of it, this type of extreme worshipping fixation to the point of wanting to become the object of your desires is still really really creepy

and upon hearing that, he avoids it, because it 'fills him with distress'. ofc youd be distressed because its a harsh reality. i felt distressed questioning if i should detransition, if all this gender stuff was fake. but instead of listening or self reflecting or anything like that, he just recommits to it. gets mad, avoids, and keeps going on this path

like i said, he knows what he is, but instead of reflecting on the supposed radfems that told him it was harmful, he finds the place that affirms it for him. dodging and internal sense of guilt and shame for somethign they still want to pursue

Like... idk i write this blog because i think dysphoria and transition can be monstrous. No matter whet your reasons for transitioning the more i read about everything the more i know that its a beast that is never satisfied, because you are trying to become something you are not. and so every time you do anything and see a bit of your natural self, one that is inherently male or female, you feel distress. and it leads you do doing the most extreme surgeries in hopes that that feeling will go away

you cannot avoid your body forever. you cannot tear and shred bits of yourself away until you can no longer find yourself under the rubble. you will always see signs of the body you wish you didnt have. this isnt a cure its avoidance

no matter how many different pieces you rip yourself into, your are no less yourself than when you were whole. each of those pieces is still you, just now detached.

but people get so so attached to their avoidance, their addictions, their fixations they think are their only source of pleasure or hope. they dismiss all criticism as a direct attack on their value as a person. no matter how much we share things about the dangers of SRSs and HRT, only sincerely a very very experienced psych professional can work to heal a mind stuck in this state.

i have sympathy for the hurt child he describes at the beginning, but i dont have any for the man that avoided all concerns of the women he wants to accept him in search for affirmation from another source.

affirmation doesnt fix anything. it just makes them feel less distressed for the moment

please, please can we go back to researching therapies. so many people need it. this is not a stable state of mind to be in. i wish it wasnt fucking 'bigotry' to try to research genuine psychiatric health.

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How did furries become part of pride? This isn’t about loving or hating them, it’s just about the fact that being a furry has nothing to do with being LGB. So why is it that you can’t go to any pride event without seeing furries? Is it just because pride has become a “who can be the weirdest most unique person in the room” event?

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I'm not a linguist but mainstream feminism's total lack of respect for language and the meaning of words need to be studied Call sex "work" but then shocked when Belgian prostitutes are being told they have productivity quotas to meet (aka treated like a worker) and can't refuse sex more than 10 times in 6 months else they may be reported to a government official. Call "woman" anyone who identifies as woman and then shocked when a male serial rapist and murderer demands being in the female prison. Say the job fair is for women and "anyone non binary or femme aligned" and shocked when hundreds of regular males show up. Convinced the wishy washy-ness and boundary-lessness of feminist speech is a manifestation of women's total disempowerment in society.

In every other sphere of life- language has hard rules and definitions. When it comes to women's issues, porous, open-ended language is the trademark. It's like not even our words can say "no". No word we use must ever even imply a "no". It's sick.

And don't get me started on the concept of inclusivity itself has been pretty much been weaponized to mean "never say no".

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It's funny how much modern queer identity relies on being the most strange weird outcast at any time. Every relationship a non-binary person has is inherently gay, lesbians are inherently trans, bi women who will never date a single woman are always the queerest people in the room at any given time. Sex in which a man beats a woman up is the most radical punk thing in the world (those categories aren't real! Silly!). Up is down and the sky is red. If you talk to any of these people about socialization, material reality, historical context and gendered and sexual hierarchies which affects people lives and how we live in a society so we don't get to just create meaning out of thin air, they will argue that you're the exact same as a nazi. Postmodernism makes me want to tear my hair of.