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Being asexual is a no-win situation. Everything is about sex and everyone and everything is sexualised and objectified, but sex is also presented as something taboo and impure that will stain you forever. You can have sex, but then you're not ace, but if you don't have sex, you're immature, robotic, frigid, inhuman. You owe people sex, but it's a cardinal sin to do so. You need to at least try to have sex, but you won't be asexual if you do. You will be considred pure and virginal if you don't have sex, but if you don't, you need to divulge your entire personal history and whether or not you've been abused, in graphic detail. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

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Being asexual is a no-win situation. Everything is about sex and everyone and everything is sexualised and objectified, but sex is also presented as something taboo and impure that will stain you forever. You can have sex, but then you're not ace, but if you don't have sex, you're immature, robotic, frigid, inhuman. You owe people sex, but it's a cardinal sin to do so. You need to at least try to have sex, but you won't be asexual if you do. You will be considred pure and virginal if you don't have sex, but if you don't, you need to divulge your entire personal history and whether or not you've been abused, in graphic detail. Damned if you do, damned if you don't.

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does anyone want to do thisbwith me

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problematic wake-up-time gap relationship

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gender is a performance and i am CAMP and a CULT CLASSIC and i have 29% ON ROTTEN TOMATOES

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I love themes of repression in horror

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does anyone else remember when peoples talking point against asexuality being a queer identity was to make up a cisgender heterosexual but aromantic man who wanted to get in to all the lgbt society meetings or was that just an embarrassing thing people i knew did

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Chuckling to myself remembering the time I completely broke a scammer's brain by telling them I use Linux.

Scammer: do you have an apple or a windows computer please?

Me: neither, I use Linux.

Scammer: no no no, I asked if you use a apple or a windows

Me: neither

Scammer: what is the sticker? Is it a four boxes or is it an apple with a bite?

Me: ... I don't use EITHER of them. There's a third operating system called Linux. It isn't a PC or a mac. Please tell me you understand

Scammer: do -- do you know what I mean about apple or windows sir?

Me: yes. I'm a software developer. I understand completely. I'm telling you that YOU don't understand. Its called Linux, spelled L-I-N-U-X, type it into google

Scammer:

Scammer: but is it an apple or a windows computer sir

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it is my experience that people with dermal implants and eyeball tattoos and 34 visible piercings are the sweetest people you'll ever meet and will cry if they see a pigeon with a broken wing. it is also my experience that clean-cut people in polo shirts with perfect smiles will vote against your rights and say the most disgusting things imaginable once they think you're out of earshot.

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oh damn i just realized sinners is the first vampire movie i’ve ever seen where the crucifix played ZERO role.

annie knew exactly how to identify and fight vampires and christian symbols had NOTHING to do with it.

christian faith didn’t save sammie. his guitar and his gangster cousin did. his family did.

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"you don't need to go on hormones to be trans" is true but not an appropriate thing to say to someone who is seeking hormones. "asexuals can have sex too" is true but not an appropriate thing to say to an asexual who doesn't want to have sex. etc etc etc. idk why it's so hard for people to get their head around this one. read the room dude.

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as a masochist it is your duty to make sadists feel comfortable expressing their desire to hurt people. if im allowed to say "i should be getting cut open and have my organs fondled bloodystyle" sadists should be able to say "i should be cutting someone open and fondling their organs bloodystyle". SADISTS GET BEHIND ME. i Will protect you

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it sucks that the backrooms and by extent liminal spaces turned out the way they did in popular culture. i love dreamy places not because they're full of Scary Screatures or whatever but because they're fun and interesting and cool and a perfect place for a girl like me to lay her eggs

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12 year old me discovering yaoi

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The clitoris is the powerhouse of the vagina