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LOUDERRRR
YOU'RE SO REAL FOR THAT FRFR like??? maybe it does help somebody to hear a story from another person but before you tell them about yourself ASK THEM IF.ITS.OKAY. not everybody has the same comfort. Most people just need somebody that listens, and that's totally fine! But literally you might make somebody feel even worse by doing this.
I can give you an example where it's APPROPRIATE to tell your own story:
When somebody is being abused and not sure whenever or not they should seek for help. Because they dont know if that would make things worse. ← you can, if you have, tell them about your own experience, and whats best to do.don't talk too much about your own problems, just explain what happened and if you have any idea what to do, or to reassure them they will get help
Or when somebody was "rude" to their partner? you can tell them about this huge fight you had with yours, and how in the end it was totally fine!
YOU NEED TO CONTEXT AND TO KNOW WHEN ITS APPROPRIATE TO TELL YOUR OWN STORY PLEASEEE
hey btw if someone comes to you seeking comfort or just needs someone to listen, your first reaction, or any reaction soon after, at all—actually, should not be to (1) downplay their feelings, (2) dismiss their words, or (3) take the conversation away by showcasing your own misery
also it doesn't have to always be blatant dismissal like "it's not a big deal", "ur overreacting" it could be offhand replies like "it could always be worse" and "at least its not" or any throwaway remarks that actually just strip away from what they've shared until it barely sounds worth mentioning.
some people jump too quickly into talking about their own experiences to the point that it feels snatched. & even if they think they mean well by trying to relate, it usually ends up feeling selfish. tone-deaf. & downright exhausting. when someone needs you to hear them out, it is THEIR moment. it is NOT an opening for YOU to tell your story or shift the topic so YOU. and YOUR issues can fit in the spotlight. its simply just not about YOU right now. you fucking idiot
if you can't give someone the basic courtesy of listening without treating it like a springboard for your latest anecdotes, you're not being supportive. you've just hijacked their own vulnerability for your own comfort. and if that's the kind of "help" you think you're offering, do everyone a fucking favour and just keep it to your-fucking-self, yeah? thanks
#kiyo as always so real#sorry that happened to you bro 🫶🏼#you deserve better 🫂#hope you feel better now tho
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Homemade Heating Pad
A Nagumo x female reader short (you’re on your period)

You have extremely painful periods, there’s no denying that revelation. No matter what you did, or how you tried to combat your condition, nothing ever seemed to truly eliminate the pain. You never deemed it possible, but you still hold onto a shred of hope within your endeavors. Yet as of currently, you laid helplessly in your bed.
You were struck with a sudden wave of pain, collapsing on your bed in response. Your cellphone was cast aside dismissively as you pulled your bed’s quilt up to your neck. On your side you lay, gaze towards the television placed on the peach colored wall of your bedroom. Much to your oblivion, your boyfriend had been tracking your cycle. His cunning and playful personality consequently resulted in his examination of your cycles. Bottom line, Nagumo knew whenever it arrived late, early, or right on time. It’s like he’s equipped with some sort of menstrual radar.
Your front door opened, you could hear the noise of keys and assumed the only person it could be was Nagumo. You gave him a key a few weeks earlier, though he usually tends to inform you in advance that he’s coming to visit. Then there was the knock on your bedroom door.
“It’s me.” Nagumo spoke ecstatically as he opened your bedroom door. He never waited for a response, another thing you often tried to tell your boyfriend to avoid doing. Alas, each effort was futile as he seemed to completely disregard your words.
Your eyes widened as your gaze fell to what was in his hand. He carried what seemed to be a brown basket, looking down at it once he saw your intrigued gaze. He hummed with pride and a soft smile.
“I knew it.” He said proudly and approached you laying on your bed, resting the basket next to you. “You’re on your period!”
He reached for the air conditioner’s remote at your bedside, already making your routine preparations that you failed to accomplish previously. Air conditioner, you liked it set to a certain temperature. More on the colder/warmer (your choice) side. Your television, he grabbed the remote near your tv and handed it to you while you examined the contents of the basket. Your hands moved delicately against the gifts Nagumo had purchased for you.
He got you chocolate. He didn’t purchase just any kind either, it was the one you fancied most. Accompanied by the sweet treat was a plush bunny. One small enough to sit in your lap yet large enough to hold onto. It was this beautiful pastel mixture of blue and pink colors. The colors faded into each other, heightening the intricate details of his gift. The last item that rested was a book, the next volume of a novel/manga you were reading and ready to purchase.
“You didn’t need to do this.” You said as you examined everything on your side, staring at your boyfriend while you pulled the bunny underneath the covers to hold onto.
You would admit, the bunny was so cute…
“Nonsense~” He said while fanning his hand in a dismissive manner to you. “I can’t have my beautiful girl suffering without some sort of comfort.” He stated. “And the best gift of all…”
Nagumo faced you fully, extending his arms towards you as you stared at him.
“Me~”
You stared at him unmoving, barely speaking in your state. As he grew nervous of your lack of reaction, you curled into yourself a little. The sudden, barely noticeable gesture was conspicuous to him. You were really in pain.
“…why are you doing that?” You questioned with a screwed up face that presented confusion.
Nagumo was currently shedding his coat and unbuttoning his shirt, oblivious to your developing flushed face.
“Figured you’d want a heating pad…so why not a homemade one?” He asked just as his upper garments fell to the floor.
You’d never get used to the sight of those tattoos that littered his body. Nagumo always hid the majority under his clothing, so it was always a shock to see just how many he possessed. He didn’t even appear like the type of man who would have them. His face looked so innocent. He seemed to you like this stone, muscular temple, with interesting and captivating decorations. You stared for a moment, trying to gather your next thoughts.
“…I have a heating pad.” You finally said while clearing your throat as Nagumo climbed into your bed and under your covers. He ignored your comment.
In an instant he had maneuvered you. You now lay facing him, his bare arms wrapped tightly around you as you rested against his bare chest. He was, in fact, insanely warm. He smiles softly at you, your fingers already tracing the pair of praying hands across his left pectoral as he pulls the blanket to cover you both. It distracted from the cramps, almost like his presence was enough to ease your pain.
After you two ate multiple pieces of chocolate and stared at your television screen, you couldn’t help but question Nagumo on something while drowsiness swiftly began taking over.
“How’d you know?” You questioned as your eyes shut, wishing to figure out how he knew your period arrived today.
Nagumo didn’t say anything, gently lulling you into a deep sleep right before returning to the movie being played.
“Don’t you worry about it.” He whispered softly.
Note: If you wear glasses, Nagumo would remove them gently and place them on your bedside table the moment you shut your eyes :)
We all need a little comfort in our lives when the menstrual hits like a damn truck… (I literally just got into Sakamoto Days and love this man)
P.S: I am working on two requested fics for Kinich (did not forget you guys)
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[hc] sakadays / where your first date would be
ft. shin, heisuke, natsuki, nagumo



shin, an indoor date
i think he'd enjoy a place without a lot of people. too many noisy thoughts surrounding him gives him a headache sometimes — but it's nothing he's not used to, he learned not to complain too much.
it's not that he minds outdoor dates, but you're all he wants to focus on. wasn't the point of a date? beats him. you're likely his first. he takes things seriously very early, very quickly.
a place where there's only the two of you makes him feel really comfortable. for example, his room. that's technically where your first date was.
you two would binge-watch movies with a tub of ice cream from the store, maybe show each other dumb memes and videos, cuddle in a bed definitely not fit for two, and having dumb to heartfelt conversations.
during times like these, there's no place he'd rather be. as simple as it was, he cherished quiet and intimate moments like this in his otherwise chaotic life. he wishes he could stay by your side, no matter what.
heisuke, an amusement park
he'd find a way to get those tickets somehow. he wanted the first date to be something you'd both find memorable. he wouldn't want to scare you off by his other date ideas.
he's a total cheapskate, but cannot resist spoiling you with the humble amount of money he has. souvenirs and snacks? if you ask nicely enough, you got it. it definitely hurts his constantly empty wallet, but he has no regrets if it makes you happy.
he shows off a lot in amusement park stalls, especially the games. you'll win all the prizes you want with him around — but only in those target-shooting games. it's hard to say for the rest of the stalls. but he'll help you carry the prizes home with piisuke, don't worry.
if you feel too full, just give him your spare food that you can't finish. actually, he'd probably take a bite of your food if you're not looking.
if there's a photobooth and you suggested to go, he'd put his copy of the polaroid photo inside his wallet. so even when it's empty, at least he'd have something to smile about when he opens it, right? he sees you, after all.
natsuki, in a mall
to natsuki, a mall is a practical date spot. you can eat, you can buy just about anything, and you can have fun. he's definitely taking you there.
if you go shopping, yes, he will carry your bags. don't try refusing, he'll insist. he'd take it from you anyway. light or heavy, he's holding it for you.
you two would likely spend more than half your time in an arcade in the mall. he'll defy all the tricks of those arcade machines. there's no prize you can't have. those claw machines? piece of cake. he even knows the exact trajectory of those basketball hoops. he knows the ropes around all of it. expect taking a lot of prizes home.
he's sort of a picky eater though. if he doesn't like the restaurant you choose, he's telling you. but if you really insist, he'd get takeout from another restaurant in the mall and just eat with you inside the restaurant you want. if they don't allow outside food, he's clever enough to think of a way around it.
believe it or not, he likes gift giving. especially things he make himself. after your date, he'd probably notice you complaining about something. like maybe you get too thirsty when walking too much but a water bottle is a hassle to carry, or you keep forgetting the specifics of something you want to get. right after he gets home, he's inventing you something to help you get through it. you'll get it personally delivered to your doorstep by mafuyu (to the boy's annoyance).
nagumo, dinner at a restaurant of your choice
you can't really go wrong with a dinner date, right? classic and simple, not too overboard for a first. just how he wants it. as courtesy, he'd let you choose where you want to eat. a gourmet restaurant? a local café? hell, a fast food chain? go ahead. his treat, by the way. he won't let you pay.
he'll get to know your tastes as well. he'd have a lot to tease you with, by watching you eat or even messing with your order a little. don't get it wrong, he's a gentleman... just an incredibly annoying gentleman. he'd hold the door for you, but would also be the type to trick you into thinking a cup of sprite was just water.
actually, in that first date, is just where he just wants to pick you apart. to him, dates are what scratches the surface. he wants to know even more about you. you'll find him listening to everything you say, responding with a humorous comment or a teasing one. he'll also pay attention to every little fidget of yours, and he'd pick up on what other kind of things annoy you... i mean, what kind of things make you laugh. you won't find him talking about himself much. it'll be all about you.
his flirting would actually be very subtle. he's quite a vague person. an airhead wouldn't even think it's flirting. he'd send some little comments your way, hoping you'd get the hint.
if you gave him a nice time, he'll take you to his penthouse. from there, you'll start to get to know more about him in return. maybe in more ways than one, if you get what i mean.
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Please i beg, i LOVED YOUR HIGHSCHOOL FLUFF AU WITH NAGUMO PLEASE DON'T GO BALD
(asking if you could make more nagumo fluff 🙏🙏)
(a/n: sorry for the very late response HERE YOU GO!! :))))
── .✦ NAGUMO YOICHI: food for your heart? .ᐟ



ˏˋ°•*⁀➷ IN WHICH, you look sad, want some cookies?
⊹ fluff, highschool au ᝰ nagumo x gn!reader
━━ "YOU LOOK SAD, want some cookies?"
you glanced up at the person speaking to you. it was nagumo yoichi, a classmate.
he held out a container of cookies, a cookie already in his hand, halfway to his mouth.
you looked at him, puzzled. "i’m not sad, though?"
nagumo took a seat next to you on the park bench. "just have one… or two… or maybe even three," he encouraged, nudging the container closer, urging you to take a few.
with a sigh, you reached out and took a cookie, choosing a small one since your appetite wasn't great. "thank you," you murmured.
he smiled and left the container next to you. "keep it," he said, before leaving you alone in the park once more.
you stared at the box of cookies for a moment before closing the lid and tucking it into your bag. it wouldn't hurt to have a sweet treat to share with your friends later.
"you gave them your cookies but not us? i was begging for them earlier!” rion complained to nagumo, playfully hitting him on the head.
he rubbed the spot and laughed awkwardly. "hey, they looked sad."
sakamoto chimed in, “suddenly, i’m sad too,"
© MIFVYFILMS please do not copy, repost as your own, or translate MASTERLIST
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Please i beg, i LOVED YOUR HIGHSCHOOL FLUFF AU WITH NAGUMO PLEASE DON'T GO BALD
(asking if you could make more nagumo fluff 🙏🙏)
(a/n: sorry for the very late response HERE YOU GO!! :))))
── .✦ NAGUMO YOICHI: food for your heart? .ᐟ



ˏˋ°•*⁀➷ IN WHICH, you look sad, want some cookies?
⊹ fluff, highschool au ᝰ nagumo x gn!reader
━━ "YOU LOOK SAD, want some cookies?"
you glanced up at the person speaking to you. it was nagumo yoichi, a classmate.
he held out a container of cookies, a cookie already in his hand, halfway to his mouth.
you looked at him, puzzled. "i’m not sad, though?"
nagumo took a seat next to you on the park bench. "just have one… or two… or maybe even three," he encouraged, nudging the container closer, urging you to take a few.
with a sigh, you reached out and took a cookie, choosing a small one since your appetite wasn't great. "thank you," you murmured.
he smiled and left the container next to you. "keep it," he said, before leaving you alone in the park once more.
you stared at the box of cookies for a moment before closing the lid and tucking it into your bag. it wouldn't hurt to have a sweet treat to share with your friends later.
"you gave them your cookies but not us? i was begging for them earlier!” rion complained to nagumo, playfully hitting him on the head.
he rubbed the spot and laughed awkwardly. "hey, they looked sad."
sakamoto chimed in, “suddenly, i’m sad too,"
© MIFVYFILMS please do not copy, repost as your own, or translate MASTERLIST
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I AM TIRED (not tired but bored) OF THE WHOLE “His shirt hung of your petit frame-“ THING IN FANFICTIONS.
I AM NOT PETIT
GOJO SATORU’S SHIRT WILL NOT HANG OFF MY BODY. HIS TINY ASS WAIATLINE WONT BUTTON UP ON MY HIPS
MIKEY’S SHIRTS WILL NOT BE LONG- IM 5’7!
I WANNA SEE HIM BORROWING MY CLOTHES
GIVE ME MORE TALL READERS AND MIDSIZED GIRLS
EVERY BODY IS GORGEOUS BUT I WANNA SEE SOME VARIETY
GIVE ME AS MANY SAGGY BOOBIES AND CHUBBY WAISTS AS THERE ARE PERKY BOOBIES AND WAISTS THAT THE CHARACTER CAN HOLD IN ONE HAND
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“Because no matter how tough the world becomes, you must never run out of sweetness.”
— Bernardo Kath
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“Someday, someone is going to look at you with a light in their eyes you’ve never seen, they’ll look at you like you’re everything they’ve been looking for their entire lives. Wait for it.”
— Unknown
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“Life is like a camera. Focus on what’s important. Capture the good times. And if things don’t work out, just take another shot.”
— Ziad K. Abdelnour
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reminder that "allies welcome" was once secret code for "those not out yet can still participate without putting themselves at risk", and for those who aren't out yet to comfortably exist in these spaces you have to let allies exist in those spaces too.
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LMAO????
nice things will happen but first you have to lose all hope and die 45 times
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SHOUT OUT TO EVERYONE WHO STILL TRIES TO GET BACK INTO THE SWING OF THINGS AFTER DEPRESSION HIT THEM HARD. THERE ISN’T ENOUGH RECOGNITION FOR THOSE PEOPLE WHO KNOW THAT THEY’RE GOING TO LOSE INTEREST AND MOTIVATION AGAIN BUT PUSH THEMSELVES TO DO STUFF ANYWAYS. YOU ARE FIGHTING A DAILY BATTLE WITH YOUR OWN THOUGHTS AND YOU’RE STILL COMING OUT ON TOP, YOU’RE ALL BRAVE AS FUCK
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me seeing a ship I hate because it has my favorite character in it

like, you belong to the x reader, you OUR fictional character 😢
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Y/N: *Crying as everything around them is on fire*
Mikey: *Embraces Y/N* Baby, I knew you and I will die together someday.
Mikey: *Points at the farthest corner* Sanzu, you die over there.
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