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2020/12/18

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hug ,Haneda

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Alternative draft cover for Vol 30 and a Bakugou sketch that wasn’t included

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If everything is transphobic maybe it’s because trans ideology is a contradiction to fundamental aspects of reality

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this is so ret@rd3d

Man dysphoria really sucks, social dysphoria makes it even worse cause I over perform masculinity to even try to 'pass' as genderqueer/look androgynous, and a lot of the time I think I do look androgynous but then, I still get ma'am'd and I just wish I could get testosterone and top surgery to branch back out into 'feminine' things again with a little more confidence, because there are some 'women's' clothes that are really cute that I'd never wear now cause well dysphoria. Oof I rambled

I feel you, nonnie. I often try to look masc, but like.... my hair is curly af, I’ve got long eyelashes, and my boobs are massive. So, I always get gendered as female, and it fucking sucks.

I know it’s hard to kick dysphoria’s ass, but look, you gotta remember that no matter how others gender you, you’re still nonbinary and still valid. You probably do look pretty androgynous, but people feel the need to gender everything and probably think it’s safer to gender you as female. That’s a them problem, though, not a you problem. What you need to do, though, is surround yourself with positivity and people who don’t misgender you. Following positivity blogs for enbies and making some nonbinary friends (IRL and/or online) can really help. And if you think it might help you, put up affirmations in places where you’ll see them a lot, like a bathroom mirror or a dresser mirror, on your computer, on your bedroom door, etc. Write down stuff you wanna hear that would feel validating to you. Being misgendered is probably always gonna hurt, but doing stuff like this might make it easier to handle/make it have less of an effect on you. You really just gotta build up some confidence in yourself and your identity and learn to love yourself just as you are more. I promise, it helps. For example, in the past year, I’ve gotten VERY loudly and proudly queer, and it’s honestly helped so much. Like, yes, being misgendered does hurt, but I’m able to move past it a lot more easily now because I have more confidence in my identity and myself.

And if none of this stuff works for you/helps you, please message me, and we can talk about some other methods to help you combat dysphoria. Also, if you ever need someone to talk to about anything, you can message me for that as well. My DMs and my askbox are always open if you need someone.

I know you didn’t ask for advice on this, but I really do hope something I’ve suggested helps. I’m sending you all my love and support, bean!! 💞💖💕

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2020

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💬💬💬💬📷 HARDWORK！！

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