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I'm not getting my hopes up, I'm not getting my hopes up, I'm not getting my hopes up

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Me: This gorgeous guy flat-out called me 'attractive' and I'm too flustered to know what to say or do about that in this situation

Friend: okay but you are attractive and he's right

...explain that. Get back here. EXPLAIN THAT STATEMENT.

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The pretty man with one single photo of himself (that's clearly too polished and fancy to be anything but from a high-end photoshoot, if it's even real) and open discussion of kinky shit on his profile can't be anything but a catfisher, right?

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okay but like a soft dom who tells you to ask politely for what you want and tells you to use your words not because you have to earn it or they’ll deny you, but because they want so badly to give you what you want and want you to know you deserve to want. soft doms who want to give you anything and everything they just need you to tell them because they can’t read your mind. they never want to deny you, or humiliate you for what you want, they just want you to learn to voice your wants and needs without shame, even the ones that feel vulnerable. soft doms who tell you to use your words because they’re going to praise the hell out of you for setting boundaries and voicing your desires because you deserve to have them just as much as anyone else. they want you to get comfortable with asking because they want to give you every last thing your heart desires.

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I should not have to feel like I need to lose weight and femme harder to be worth interest and attention from someone I like but here we are I guess

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Men who are both physically and mentally pliant. Guy who is so soft and fun to manhandle and he lets you do it bc his brain melts when he's in your arms. He might squirm a little when you grip his hips or squeeze his thighs, but ultimately he'll let you pin him down and move him around to your heart's content bc his mind turns to mush the moment you lay your hands on him.

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Addams Family Values (1993)

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If the pretty long-haired man who cooks professionally, seems like a bit of a goof, and doesn't smoke at all doesn't reach back on this stupid app I think I'm gonna scream he's perfect I have to win him over with my sandwich opinions PLEASE

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New Pinned post again!

I feel like a new name... Call me Byte, I guess, until I come up with a better one lol

28 (born Oct. 1996)

They/she -- genderfluid/genderqueer

Bi/ace/possibly arospec? Idk

Finally biting (ha) the bullet and taking this blog in a more NSFW direction. I'm still exploring this aspect of myself, and I wanted to make a place for it. Fair warning, this still remains my spot to scream into the void about my love life, so you're getting that too.

This is a sideblog, not my main. You won't get that url from me unless I know you damned well.

I'm really not sure what else to put on here yet... Ageless blogs will be blocked, obviously. Other than that... Don't be a jackass, don't send me anything you wouldn't show someone you're just starting to flirt with at the bar, and we should get along alright? I'll come back and add to this if I need to.

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Every time I run into a girl I used to know in high school she's always married or engaged or in a serious relationship and like... I'm happy for them! Even the one with, like, five kids even though that sounds like hell for me personally! I'm happy for them and I'm glad they're happy with their lives, I just -- !!

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"I need this dating app to work out"

*app instantly presents me with a six-foot nerdy bi architect who seems like a giant goober only smokes weed sometimes and may or may not have had the titular role in a production of POTO*

"...okay but can we, like, ease into 'holy fuck he's perfect'???"

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Dating app: here's a gorgeous taller-than-you cute alt nerd in your area who likes the things you like and cosplays and would probably go to the theater with you and seems really fun...

Me: holy shit hello --

Dating app: ...also they smoke weed regularly

Me:

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we need more men in STEM (Stockings, Tight pants, Eyeliner, Mesh tops)

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Every time I try to put down in words how I feel about you, it reads like I'm toeing the line between 'friendship' and 'romance.' You're my best friend. I don't want that to change. You mean the world to me. Your presence in my life is a source of light and joy and comfort. I've missed the sound of your voice. You live half a continent away. I don't think we're romantically compatible. You have and are a large portion of my heart. I love you. I love you. I love you.

I just wish I knew what I meant by that.

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Black and White with a hint of red.

Even though men have worn corsets since the 18th century, it’s always a bit more of a challenge to make this fit with my body shape as it’s very job is to change the silhouette. That said, the narrower waist definitely makes my shoulders seem a bit broader. Do you like men in corsets? Should this come back into fashion? I’ve seen some great corseted waistcoats - maybe I should investigate one of them?

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I need to cuddle with someone so bad I think it's making me sick