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[ddaenggtan]

about ddaenggtan

✧ WHADDUP my name’s bette (not really), i’m 24, and i never fucking learned how to read write ✧

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✧ bette. she/her, but i don’t mind they/them.

✧ i’m in est, and i live in the mid-south usa

✧ 24. libra. year of the pig. (pisces moon and gemini rising, if ur curious)

✧ the gayest bisexual you’ll ever meet, except when it comes to bts

✧ engayged and i talk about her a LOT

✧ i write fic and whine about how bts exists and yet i’m not their friend

✧ ot7 biased

✧ adhd + anxiety + depression + chronic pain ftw

✧ i don’t do tag lists bc i can barely remember to link my ao3 in those posts

✧ i’m a kinky bitch and i am not afraid to be horny on main on this sideblog

✧ if you find my main rip you i’ve had it since 2008 and it’s a clusterfuck 

✧ bts is the only kpop group i stan, but i listen to several others casually. i also really fucking love hozier.

✧ i really fucking love space. like,,,,,,it’s a little alarming. i love it so much tho.

✧ i play a ridiculous amount of video games, and run a D&D campaign for fun

✧ i collect clue games. like. the board game. because i’m weird and a nerd.

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✧ i’m very politically opinionated and i tend to keep it off this blog and strictly on my main, but you’re definitely gonna hear me bitch about the president at least a little

✧ you’re also gonna get some Moral Lessons in my fic because it’s basically impossible for me not to preach about how people deserve to live without justifying their existence in the world, and also how people should be treated with respect

✧ i don’t do any kind of non-con, because that’s just straight up sexual assault and i literally do a charity every year to bring attention to how much of a fucking problem that already is in the world today. 

✧ i might occasionally tag something as dub-con, but i can guarantee you that it isn’t actually dub-con, because consent that isn’t given freely and enthusiastically is not consent uwu

✧ i firmly believe that teenagers have the right to read and even write erotic/smutty material because for a lot of people, that’s the only chance they have to explore their sexuality and what it means to them. that said, please do not interact with me if you are not of age (preferably at least twenty tbh) because you all are fantastic and lovely and i cannot wait to see what you do in the world, but i am not comfortable talking to minors on a blog where i write smut

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✧ homophobia, transphobia, biphobia, ace/aro-phobia (ace/aro people are part of the lgbt community and i will not debate that with you, and will in fact unfollow if you start doing any kind of discourse about that fact). i’m literally one of the biggest supporters of my queer siblings and i will fight for them. 

✧ racism, of any kind, be it anti-semitism, xenophobia, anti-blackness, any of it. i make a lot of jokes about white people because i am a white girl, and we’re ridiculously privileged, and also jokes about white people are funny as shit. 

✧ fetishization of anyone, particularly of wlw, mlm, and non-white people. queer people aren’t your kink, and poc are not ‘exotic’       ✧ on that note, do not follow if you support whitewashing, because it’s gross       ✧ also FUCK h*adl*ner and fuck  m*m*btsgh*st and fuck all sasaengs

✧ don’t follow if you actually ship real people together, it’s not cute, it’s fetishization and it’s gross, and i remember the 1d days too well for that shit. i may occasionally write mxm fics, but that’s doubtful, and even if i do, i can guarantee you i do not ship them in any real way together and instead essentially use them as a storytelling medium. 

✧ any kind of body-non-positivity, because it is a FACT that ugly does not exist except in personalities. seriously, i’m literally a fat girl, if you come on here trying to talk shit about fat people, you’re gonna get destroyed. and don’t come here saying anything about thinner people either, because that’s not alright, and i will shut you down just the same. 

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[spenceco]

hello pals ! my name is elle but pls say hello to my son spencer ! tw for drugs/alcohol !

( elliot fletcher, trans male, he/him ) it’s everyone’s fav, SPENCER COHEN! they are 23 and major in PRE-LAW, and the group knows they’re CONFIDENT and FORTHRIGHT, but also RETICENT and ARROGANT. they’ve got a big personality for the mix, so watch out in the close quarters this summer! * / elle, she/her, cst

for spence i chose the label “ the chaotic ” bc that just about sums up everything !

like if u say “ dude don’t do that ur gonna die ” he will reply “ god i hope so ” so like basically everything is a meme to him. 

don’t even try to get him to talk ab his feelings ... literally can’t express his emotions so he just comes off as an asshole that can’t take anything seriously but like ... a loveable one ?

get to know him nd u will immediately see that he’s a softie ! just gotta peel those layers

but good luck bc he’ll try to push u away the second he feels u getting close! 

sleeps around ! but avoids intimacy at all costs ! terrified ! of ! commitment !!!!

does other reckless shit just because ? like... starting to feel something ? gets a tattoo. trauma occurs ? time to get drunk nd forget ab it ! responsibilities ? ima roll this joint instead ! king of unhealthy coping mechanisms :)

only studying pre-law bc his mom wants him too ... and he actually does care ab her ... more to come on familial issues tho

loves grilled cheese. best childhood memories involve grilled cheese. came out to his mom and she made grilled cheese. love that shit

has a dog named buttons that he luvs more than anything in the world ... bitter that he couldn’t bring her on the trip so expect lots of ig posts / tweets ab missing her.

 trans man, fluid sexuality, down for whatevs

check out my blog i got aesthetics, spotify, + insta in the pop up nav ! and a link to his pinterest board

i’ll go ahead and put that here too tho: https://pin.it/m5sl5ruiue65p6

wanted connections !

pls give me an EX ! don’t care ab gender but just someone he either hooked up w and then it stopped bc of the commitment thing being too much ... that OR he actually started to have feelings but UR MUSE cut it off ! therefore intensifying the fear of feelings + commitment !!!

a best friend PLS ! bonus points if ur muse is soft bc opposite besties are the cutest !

roommate !! we lived together before the big road trip so were used to being in close quarters. this could go many ways, maybe we hate each other, maybe we fucked (could also be both), maybe we r super tight. 

check out my wanted plots tag for more ! and come to me w any plots u have bc i love it already !!!!!!