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luvring · 4 months

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one day people will stop looking at misogynistic men and saying they're secretly gay, and finally realize implicitly associating non-queer men's hatred with queerness as well as disregarding the patriarchy's pervasiveness helps (checks notes) literally nobody

#💬nia.rambles #stop it stop it stop it stop it #im sure i could word this better but if i see that stupid tweet or its quotes one more time i might implode #like it's absurd to me some of you say men are socialized to hate women then say if they do they must be gay #he isn't in the closet he just doesn't see women as equals #in a heteropatriarchal system heterosexuality isn't a clear line of loving/respecting women or Not. there isn't a dichotomy for misogyny #realize he can be romantically & sexually attracted to women but objectify & shame them & reserve forms of love for men #without doing that you Cannot tackle the patriarchy in Any meaningful way #+ what does calling him gay do for you. do you benefit from him being Queer and hating women. would that make you feel better.#do you want to imply all misogyny is rooted in internalized homophobia / queer men are raging misogynists. do you like those ideas #it's all ultimately diluting/ignoring patriarchal power and material/interpersonal consequences #not to mention the dissonance i see regarding intersectionality + the 'separation' of misogyny from queerness #and. UGHHHHHHH. it's so frustrating like just. gawd. whatever.

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