#but yeah hiding behind the 'I only ship chemistry' claim while actions speak another language is HM | Explore Tumblr Posts and Blogs

langdhon · 9 months

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good morning! This is a shoutout to all my partners who write male muses and neither ignore female muses altogether nor fellow male muses who like to explore a variety of dynamics that don’t necessarily lead to romance! The phenomenon I call covert fetishization is a real problem, where writers claim to only ship chemistry or aren't interested in mm romance only but their actions say otherwise. The reason why female muses feel brushed off by silent treatment so often, and the reason male muse writers like me keep running into walls of ignorance if we don't express immediate interest in romance. There's nothing wrong with only wanting mm romance, but pls be upfront. I'm so much more willing to ship when I see a fellow male muse writer engages without the instant prospect of romance, and when I see they put the same energy into writing with female muses. When their rules aren't misleading. You guys rock and I love you ❤️

#OOC tbd.#in my 10 years here it's been a recurring issue #if male romance is all you want out of following another male muse blog at least say it #then we all know where we're at!#I've run into more male muse writers in my decade here who #downright ignored my reaching out just because my muses never instantly fell in love #or dropped me when the interaction dove into directions opposite what they secretly hoped for #rarely ever had this issue with female muses #I love m × m ships too but I got so picky due to all this #my current partners make me feel comfy enough to consider it should the muses vibe ofc #but yeah hiding behind the 'I only ship chemistry' claim while actions speak another language is HM #this is one of very few things in the rpc peeving me out dnfnxkf BUT I only follow the real ones #you're all good

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