#conventionally attractive?? sorry you've literally always had money?? sorry you've never fallen through a crack in your life??
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I need people to understand. I NEED people to understand. that if you talk like you're the only trauma/abuse survivor in the room I GUARANTEE that every other trauma/abuse survivor in the room no longer views you as a safe person
#the WAY some of y'all talk smh#it's not about anyone in particular rn except for maybe my MIL and my gf's friend Sara#like yeah baby I get it your dad was Big Mean And Scary but like. the way you talk about it makes it so that no one else can address the#topic without you speaking over them and making it about yourself. and not to compare traumas or anything but maybe the person whose psyche#literally split apart several times because of the amount of early childhood and ongoing trauma#MIGHT have SOMETHING to SAY about the SUBJECT of TRAUMA#like damn maybe the way y'all silence extreme abuse survivors is incredibly fucking apparent#like yeah what you went through sucks. but you also cannot acknowledge your extreme privelege#like Sara especially like sorry your rent is $300?? sorry you only have to dogsit and babysit for money? sorry you're skinny and white and#conventionally attractive?? sorry you've literally always had money?? sorry you've never fallen through a crack in your life??#but shut the FUCK up lmao maybe. maybe your experience is not the be all end all of abuse sweaty :)
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