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geniuslab · 7 years
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"i also bias jimin ut i dont’ mention it nmuch ebecause i feel like people will judhe me"That is exactly what I mean. Why feeling the need to holding back? It's not even like I choose my bias, it just happend! For me it's natural to love each member, or else I wouldn't like the group at all, to have a favorite happends sometimes too but to go out of my way and explicit stating the obvious (loving them all).. I find that annoying tbh, but I do it anyways because, like you, I don't wanna be judged
oh my godddd i’m sorry i was really messed up last night but i’m glad my message was somewhat clear
we’re allowed to love the members that we love!! there’s nothing wrong with liking someone from the maknae line more than the hyung line. if anyone makes you feel that way, then they’re a shitty fan.
you can’t complain that hyung line is underappreciated and then shit on maknae line and act like those members suck. that doesn’t make you a better hyung line stan because ~~ohhhh i hate jungkook~~ no, you’re just a shitty fan. how do you think any of hyung line would feel if you were saying they were great but acting like maknae line sucked and didn’t exist?? they would be disgusted. 
sorry i’m ranting, but i feel like some stans go to the extreme and it’s saddening tbh. how hard is to support ot7? i’m not saying you have to actually stan them all, but respect them at least!! and don’t make fans of someone who isn’t your bias feel bad. 
i see this the other way around too, so i’m not trying to shit on hyung line stans (i mean i AM mostly a hyung line stan lmao). i’ve seen it with maknae line stans when it comes to seokjin and hoseok not getting enough lines. some get defensive and mean. it’s not that hard to acknowledge that jungkook gets far too many lines and the distribution should be more fair. i also just see a lot of namjoon hate, but i’m not sure which fans are doing that since it’s on anon when i see it on my dash.
anyway, my point is that this division between hyung line stans and maknae lines stans needs to stop. no fan should have to feel “ashamed” because of who they like most. that’s crazy!! we’re all in this to have fun and support the boys we love. 
so to answer your original question on how you should feel and react to fans making you feel bad for stanning someone from maknae line...ignore them. block them if you have to. they’re not fans that are worth your time interacting with. there are so many wonderful fans on this website that prop up ALL members and support everyone (even if they just bias one person and post mostly about them), and those are the people you should surround yourself with. i’m friends with a lot of yoongi stans that ONLY bias yoongi, no one else, but they still support all of the other members! /that/ is being a good fan.
if you need some new blogs to follow, i have a blogroll that i keep hidden bc i’m too lazy to link it haha. but it’s there, and i love the blogs i follow. no one i follow atm (that i know of) makes other fans feel bad or disrespects any members of bts. my dash is a very nice place thanks to these people!! 
i hope i helped a little. go love your bias
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