#i'm bambam

[kit-teung]

you know what. i hope the teachers fall in love too

[dalkyum]

🩵❤️

[deliriousblue]

golf and godji carrying this show for real 😵‍💫

[haechannabelle]

i am an adult who likes new jeans and what bambam said was NOT okay !!!!

okay y'all....i am 27 and my fiancé is 34, and we are both fans of new jeans. they had just debuted the week we started diving into kpop, their songs were some of the first kpop songs we heard and loved, so they hold a special place in both our hearts. we have their albums, we think they're adorable, we support them and talk a lot about how we're worried for them being so young in an industry that often sexualizes young people and puts them through SO much.

but we !! have standards !! and boundaries !!! we don't have biases, we don't put up their posters (on our 2 whole walls of kpop posters in our kitchen...LOL). if we watch their video content we're like, look at these cute kids hanging out and playing games, adorable ! never ONCE have we had a conversation about their appearances beyond "oh she cut her hair, i like it !" or "i love their outfits in this video !". i also do not post any new jeans content, because it makes me uncomfortable to do so.

i've been hesitant to post about them/their music in the past because i'm open about my age on here, and i didn't want anyone to think i was one of Those People. but i want to say something AS an adult who is a fan: it is possible !!! to consume media made by/featuring young people !!! AS LONG AS you are viewing it through the lens of, "these are children. they do not have the same agency as adults," and you REMAIN critical of your own interaction with that media and DO NOT perceive them or criticize them in the same way you would an adult.

if you can't handle that responsibility, then DO NOT INTERACT. if you look at the new jeans girls and see anything other than a bunch of children (who ARE extremely talented, and deserve healthy happy lives), then you need to back off and examine your own shit. they are NOT adults. you CANNOT project your fantasies on them. that's disgusting. they're KIDS, they should be PROTECTED, not sexualized.

idk, i'm sure there are people who would think that my/my fiancé's interaction with their content is problematic, but i am literally 1000% sure that neither of us perceive them or think of them as anything other than cute kids who we support. we are both constantly examining the way we/other people talk about them, and are very much aware of the struggles they will face/are facing being so young in such a ruthless industry.

tl;dr you can be an adult and a new jeans fan, you just have to make sure you're viewing them as CHILDREN and be conscientious of how you interact with their content. you CANNOT treat them as adults with full agency or project your fantasies onto them. ESPECIALLY !!!! if you are their senior in the industry, meant to be seen as a mentor and a guide !!! THAT'S FUCKING GROSS, DUDE. bambam deserves all the backlash he gets. protect those girls !!!

[tscs]

the bambam situation makes me so sad because :((( 

i used to love him so much and i think i still do. it’s hard to get over a person who made you smile for years. and after the haerin situation i was pretty uncomfortable with him but not once could i bring myself to hate him. 

he’s literally depressed right now after haters were bashing him so much for what he said (and mind you, what he said WAS wrong but i don’t think he meant it in that way. it just came off wrong and they didn’t think it would cause such a huge backlash). and on his recent live he was saying “I'm afraid of what's happening.. You know people cut things then I'm a bad guy... People believe everything on the internet. I try my best to be better but sometimes it makes me tired. Let me live, let me work. Like what did i do to them?... Why i wouldn't care if people believe haters easily.. Don't believe in 10 seconds videos! But i don't want to hurt others. you know, just let me live. let me work. everything i need is love. if y’all not gonna support, just back off. let me do my thing. let me stay with the people i love.”

and i genuinely think that should be the norm. don’t agree with an idol? don’t like someone anymore? IGNORE them. you don’t have to send hate, you don’t have to continuously bother them about their mistakes/deliberate actions. just leave them alone?? that helps both you and that person.

it’s so sad how people never learn and keep hating on others and it’s worse when the person is a celebrity and this affects their mental health adversely. the least one could do is ask for an apology and explain why so and so statement came off wrong. hate doesn’t solve shit. 

[letthesunburnyourskin]

everytime i reblog anything 9-1-1 i think about @detectivebambam now

[helloworldie]

Bambam piece :)

[supernaturawls]

HOW CAN HE LOOK SO SMALL AND CUTE AND THEN...

[sweetestofchaos]

You already know where I’ll be all day 

[seokmattchuus]

BamBam McNasty challenge?? He did it for me fr 😔✊🏻

[nba24highlights]

BAM ADEBAYO POST GAME 2 INTERVIEW VS CELTICS WIN TO GO UP 2-0!🔥👀 "Like I said...before Kyle was hating that one time...I'm a great passer." Bam Adebayo on Coach Spoelstra telling him to be himself as an all-around player 🔊 #NBAConferenceFinals presented by @GooglePixel_US #bam #bambam #bama #bamarush #bamatko #bamadebayo #celticsvsheat #heatvsceltics #postgame #postgameinterview #adebayointerview

[dalkyum]

loser gyeom hard carry dance break for @spohkh ♡

[moonreader1010]

Pac- your friendships if you were an idol/in the kpop industry

Note - (1)take what resonates.(2) And I don't know all the idols in the industry so i have also described the dynamics. See if it matches any idol that you know. (3) This reading is just for fun!!!

Pile 1 pile 2

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(these pictures that I used do not belong to me. All rights go to the original owner)

Pile 1:

When my eyes are on you, 숨막힐듯한 전율

Oh, you know you get me loose, make me go 비틀비틀

Wow. The media would be SO INTO your friend group. Omg. They'll always try to photograph you. I kinda feel bad because like they will always be following you. This could definitely be due to the fact that all your friends would be from the top groups. Very veryyyyy famous people for sure. Like those idols/dancers/actors that sort of rule the industry. Eunwoo is someone that i grasped first. Also Jennie. Your friendships will gather a lotttt of jealousy too. It might result in some hidden enemies. You'll have to be extra careful because these people might try to be your friends just to sabotage your other close friendships. But your close friends will always, always support you. Yeonjun could be one. These people will definitely protect you from anything. Literally anything. And yes another card that tells that you'll be friends with the most powerful people in the industry. Ooohhh. Your friendships might be affected by temptations (👀) if you know what I mean.

You might not have had the best luck in friendships in your current life but you will definitely have some of the best friendships in the industry. Karmic themes are there too. I also got g dragon for some reason lol 😭. You might also have older friends. Your friendships will be your escape. You guys will travel a lottttt together. I see you and them going on random walks together. Moon seems to be something veryyyyyy important. You might also make MANY friends actually. You'll be friends with noble people. They will help you grow and they will also help you teach so many things. You might make dance challenges with them lol and they'll teach you the dance. Mingyu and jungkook friendship lol. You guys will help each other in stressful periods. You will support each other's activity too. You might get married with someone from your friend group lol. You'll be friends with both female and male idols.

Idols- Jennie, yeonjun, g dragon, Eunwoo, karina etc.

Groups- seventeen, aespa, red velvet.

Song- BTBT by B.I, Soulja Boy, DeVita (👀👀👀👀)

Pile 2:

We can go wherever you like

Baby, say the words and I'm down

All I need is you on my side

We can go whenever you like, now where are you?

what's your ETA? What's your ETA?

White flowers seem to be really important. Or maybe if you were in the industry then you would have a lot of moments where you receive flowers from your friends. Like you won an award and then there they are to give you the flowers and you all are being very cheeky and giggling. Such a fun relationship. You'll have a lot of such moments. Lol. Imagine you and your idol friends trying to be professional but then you see each other and start laughing lol. You'll definitely collaborate with your idol friends on many creative projects. Getting bag and making moves fr fr. Now now you guys could be childhood friends. Omg so cute. Like Lisa and bambam and many more. You guys probably trained together too. But then you debut in different groups or train in different companies and it leads to some heart break. You guys would be very happy to see each other at award shows. You might also have to hide your friendships due to some toxic fans that make up rumours so yeah. Your friends will make you so confident. Not a single moment of self doubt. You'll be friends with idols that can hype you good lol. Garden and flowers seem to be really significant again! And you guys will definitely be making good money together. Your collab would break records!!!. You guys will be invited to so many events together and then your interaction videos will go Viral lol.

Idols- Irene, nayeon, jay, sunghoon, s coups, hyunjin

Groups- definitely ateez and twice

Song- ETA by newjeans (because you are secretly meeting each other and you are asking them "what's your ETA? lol)

Pile 3-

Too fast, ㅠㅠ

움직임은 blues clues

Everybody jealous

따라 해보던가, new rules

Okay so hear me out. Your friend in the industry would have gone through a period where they were extremely lonely. Could be a scandal or controversy. It really affected them. They were betrayed by their friends and couldn't trust anyone. Then you just enter their life and boom two silliest people ever lol. You guys would have SO MANY inside jokes and you guys are definitely going on reality shows together and being absolutely chaotic. You will help them heal. Omg I'm feeling a little emotional bby. You will reach many goals together. They will also help you. There could be some anxiety or overthinking tendencies but you will help each other get better. But yeah you guys will be sooo hards to handle. I feel sorry for your leader lol. You guys might be into partying and if you are then you all will be partying a lotttt. They will introduce you to so many people too. Very fun relationship. (Also don't read too much into it but there could be a friends with benefits situation in your friendships)

Idols- honestly, the '97 liners lol, wooyoung, hwasa

Group- nctttttttttttt (all the subunits)

Song - 2 baddies by nct 127 (because you all look so cool together)

[khaopybara]

C: Ongsa! Ongsa, are you safe? T: Are all your organs still intact? O: I'm okay. I'm fine. T: Have you heard that Teacher Bambam fell down the stairs again? C: That why we're worried that the curse will be more severe on you.

EARN PREEYAPHAT as CHAROEN, FORD ARUN as TIN and MILK PANSA as ONGSA NANNAPHAT episode 2 of 23 POINT 5

[dawnofus]

"I'm gonna fly from Thailand to Paris, for Louis Vuitton Fashion Week. So, you know, I feel excited. I know Jackson is already there, so I feel like, you know, our 10 years at least I'm not alone, I’m gonna see Jackson, so yeah, I don’t feel really lonely, I feel good." – Bambam

[everyonewooeverywhere]

dj dj 🫵

I really wanna hear your monsta x hard thoughts or like. any brainrot that you have for any of them cause I love your work

I'm feeling very Changkyun recently. he's sooooo

I think he's a possessive little shit if I'm being honest w/you. I think he's the kind to perk up whenever he hears you talking/always makes room for you when you come over to him. he doesn't even stop what he's doing, just presses a kiss to the side of your head and keeps talking

this was supposed to be hard thoughts LMFAO I'm just needy for him

anon anon 🫵

first off, thank you for reading and enjoying my work! 💗

second, one thing to know about me is i will always absolutely catapult myself at the chance to talk about my obsession with changkyun. and i thank you for gifting me with that opportunity.

my mind immediately goes to when he was on bambam’s show last year (i think??) and bambam asked if his future partner had to have money. and kyun just said “no, i make enough for both of us.” and IN THIS ECONOMY???? you better believe that is the sexiest thing ever. 

like, he’ll always take care of you. in every way. buying you gifts, supporting your hobbies, just everything. he’d buy you the world if he could. of course, he’ll take care of you in other ways too. 👀

i like to think that kyun’s partner HAS to have a voice kink. there is just no way they don’t. have you heard him speak???? dear god. 

he’s hovering over you in bed. fingers playing with the elastic of your underwear as he kisses your neck. just below your ear. he's quiet. focusing on kissing your skin. it's not until you moan out his name when he moves his hand to palm your pussy through your panties that he moves his face to your ear, softly biting the shell before asking in his low voice "you'll moan extra load for me tonight, right baby?" you can help but whimper at just the sound of his voice.

OR oh god. his voice when he first wakes up in the morning. 🙂

you're facing away from him. your bare back pressed against his chest. he has an arm draped over your waist holding you close to him. you wake up to him rubbing your thigh and kissing your neck. when he notices your shuffling and waking up, he grumbles a "good morning" into your ear. it is a simple greeting but you feel it immediately deep in your core. he notices you press your thighs impossibly close together and teases you, "really baby? i didn't even do anything." you whine ever so slightly, though and he's quick to bring his hand between your thighs where you want him the most.

and a note on his possessiveness...absolutely. ESPECIALLY in public. it's never anything graphic or explicit, but his hands are ALWAYS on you. on your lower back, your thighs, your hair. being the quiet type, he'll always let you lead conversations. nodding along as he keeps on with his little touches. and he's not possessive for the reasons you might think. it's not about anyone else but you. he wants YOU to know that you're the only one for him. he trusts you completely around other guys, but he wants you to know that he'd never for a second leave your side. and his touches are reminders of that.

his tattoos are a headcanon of their own so....maybe we'll touch on that another day 🤭