#it's incredibly lonely actually to be the only lesbian amongst queer friends
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how much fear and slander of the label lesbian can one take of a dear friend who is questioning
#friend i love you and i am so patient with you#but if you are not a lesbian that's fine#if you are that's also fine#if you're afraid of the label or it makes you uncomfortable don't use it#but maybe it is time to stop approaching it then#and telling me every time that you freak out about the word#do i know if that is because you're dealing with internalised homophobia or not?#i can't know sorry#i'm here for her always but maybe today i don't wait to hear that the label 'lesbian' is scary and makes one freak out#whether she is or isn't one that strong reaction is kind of painful#i am a lesbian and i love being a lesbian#i love other lesbians#i find community with other lesbians#discovering that i am a lesbian saved me#it made me love myself again through loving women#it made me love my body#love myself entirely for who i am#today i don't want to hear that the label is scary#sorry rant#i do care for my friend so so much but maybe today i don't want my identity to be harmed#and also i wish i had lesbian friends in real life#it's incredibly lonely actually to be the only lesbian amongst queer friends#i love all my friends but i do experience lesbian loneliness a lot#i could talk about this for hours#lesbian loneliness
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