#like i can't even talk to then aboit their behavior bc they will throw a hissy fit

[green-fuzzy-moss]

Today my parents were talking about how "woman typically go through 2 or 3 types of puberty/growing shit" and all I could think was oh joyous me I get even more bc probably by the time I get to start T I'll already be done with those 2 or 3 :(

Frowny face is very important

Why do my parents suck fucking ass I hate them

They don't actually respect my gender

Theyre ignorant to so many things and when I try to talk they do not fucking listen

They will get be a binder and binding tape and let me cut my hair short and let me be out but they are against the idea of me medically transitioning??

I've said "yeah I am getting top surgery as soon as I can" and they go "no don't do that :( >:( "

I've mentioned that I want to start T and they are too worried of the effects of it (ya know, the ones that are expected and that I want out of it) to actually think about letting me start that shit

They outed me to all of our friends and family

They don't use my correct pronouns, and I know when I originally came out I came out he/they but like c'mon man. Switch it up some. Please?? Like did you just forget orrrrr...... Like I know you said "we'll start with they/them to get everyone used to the 😢😢 then we'll switch" but you have not ONCE used he/him on me

They make SO MANY passive comments about so much BS and it's just astounding that you can "accept me" but say such things

One thing I will never forget is my father looking me in the eyes and saying sternly to my face "you will never be a man until you can pull your pants down and show me a dick and two testicles" (and yet you're against me medically transitioning. How does that work exactly?)

Worst part of that last one is he doesn't even remember saying it because he was black out drunk and was confused when I was ignoring him for days. I had to tell him what he fucking said. Actually I couldn't even say it I wrote it down showed it to my sister and my sister passed that note to my father (wanted her to do that because I just could not-) (even talking about it here and now almost brings me to tears. I cried for like 4 hours that night)

Another worst part of that was my mom didn't even say anything. She was in the room with us when he said that. She did nothing. Absolutely zero.

How is it that the worst things that's been said to be regarding my gender (worst transphobia) came from MY PARENTS????and it's hard too cuz they're all "I love the LGBT I love you doesn't matter if you're gay straight trans or purple!!" And yet they just DO these THINGS

Shout out to all queer people who have "accepting" parents and have to deal with their fucking BS