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transmasc & butch people who make forcemasc kink content & fetishize masculinity you are our bravest soldiers & lou sullivan is smiling down at you from tranny heaven
#m.#always thinking abt that part of his pamphlet on ftm advice#abt how there ppl raised as girls who DO have FTM crossdressing kinks#theyre just not talked about & made to feel isolated#by fetishizing transmasculinization You Are Doing Your Part 👍
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#not to sound like a broken record#i know this has already been talked about a lot in current fandom discourse#but all the tommy love also comes from a place of#misogyny (buck’s m/f relationships failed bc the women weren’t good enough. but his first m/m is perfect and destined and tommy is god)#(even though we know next to nothing about them as a couple. cough 1 kiss and 1 failed date cough cough)#and biphobic concepts (buck’s only relationship/partner that is worth shipping and love and fandom time is the m/m one)#(if he’s with a woman he’s not worth our time? the relationship/partner isn’t worth our time. right?)#some people kinda sounding like the conservative haters right now#oliver stark’s voice shouting from afar: he isn’t gay! he is bisexual! he still likes women!#some people like to celebrate bi buck (as we should) but then erase his previous gfs#in favour of this 1 man he’s shared literally 4 scenes with. okay#<- <- <- i drafted this like 6 hours before that interview came out. ollie came to back me up with the ‘he still likes women’ lmao#him dating a guy now does not erase or dismiss his previous m/f relationships or that he’s still into women#one final comment. any time buck got with a girl it was ‘they need to break up immediately’#‘she’s not right for him’#he’s with his first guy and it’s ’they should be endgame’#‘they’re perfect together’#huh?? one. we barely know tommy/them together#two. what exactly makes them endgame material? bc they’re both men? cough biphobic misogyny fetishization cough#three. it would be objectively hilarious if he realises his sexuality and within 2 weeks is dating a guy for the first time#and then that guy ends up being his endgame forever partner. lmaoooo that would be so dumb sawry#not to mention it would kinda lean into the biphobia and misogyny mentioned above#in that it would suggest that his problem with finding love previously was… women#and this problem is now magically fixed because… man#four. not to be a buddie endgame truther but if all the vocal support means this is what we get instead#instead of Them. i’m out see ya bye bye#i am sooooo reading way too much into this but oh well
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I forgot just how intense the homophobia on this app has gotten whenever gay men or MLM in general just. wanted to have something of their own. like the hatred for the term achillean, the hatred of the blue-green flag, the constant "MEN are STEALING from lesbians!! we can't have ANYTHING can we!!!" and acting like gay men's history is lesser or not as rich as lesbians. and it's literally all so fucking TERFy holy shit how do people just accept this shit and still think they're on the right side of history
#m.#& SOOO much of this is tied up w transandrophobia too#and a lot of the backlash is related to how these gay trans men were both fetishizing fujos & invading men
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Unpopular opinion it drives me insane when people complain about "yaoi vs yuri" ratios on AO3. Like. This is such a non issue. It's fanfiction, not studio productions. There's no one offering money to people to make this and choosing m/m pairings over f/f ones. This is just what the writers are interested in. Maybe if you want to see more f/f fanfiction you should start fucking writing it?? It's free, it doesn't need to pass a qualitative exam, and you can start tonight! Quit getting mad that people are writing about what they love and some of them like something different than you idk it just really rubs me the wrong way, sorry I'm not the right kind of gay??
#i just feel like most of the people who write gay fanfiction are either lesbians writing lesbians#gay men writing gay men#or straight girls who aren't interested in reading about women but also can't stand stereotypical m/f dynamics#and they end up writing gay men because then they can thirst after two men at once#i know a lot of people think it's fetishization but i feel like more often it is just... wow that's two men for the price of one!#idk#i would say to try and convince straight men to do that with lesbians but we both know that would be detrimental to the pool of f/f fics
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Is it just me or are anti-fujoshis basically just homophobes with extra steps
#and misogynistic as well in almost all cases#like idk ive seen such ppl in fandom before#where theyre like so weirdly convinced that shipping slash is 'fetishizing'#that they refuse to ship anything M/M and only ship het ships and sometimes#they like ship het ships in a way that's basically just stealing the dynamic of a popular M/M ship#litcherally just homophobia with extra steps#discourse#not tf#like bro idc if you say that you're an ally or anti fetishization or whatever#the fact that you're policing M/M content and persecuting anyone who makes it is inherently suspect#if you have the same policy position as actual homophobes just with a woke coat of paint on it. maybe rethink your life a lil
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I GUESS S/HI/P HATE UNDER READ MORE? IF PEOPLE ARE NOT FOND OF THOSE STUFF HERE
everyday i am on the verge to say mean shit abt sh/ad/owpe/ach so bad on my twitt circle but can't as i have (normal) mutuals who like the ship that'll see that and go "y'all are okay btw. it's just fans who can get incredibly annoying as hell abt the pairing along w/ mischaracterizing both of the charas involved back and forth + also Literally be insensitive abt chinese culture a lot"
#chey speaks#i Personally can't stand the ship and its fans a lot especially as someone who doesn't see two like that < platonic truther#and a fan be literally forcing you to like the pairing or call your names for not liking it and mischaracterizing the two so bad#along w/ being insensitive abt chinese culture via fetishizing the hell out of it and rlly. RLLY weird sexualization of the two#when l/m/k is A KIDS SHOW. a show for younger audiences to watch. please y'all be normal abt these charas and their culture !!!!!!#keep in mind they're also VERY important mythology figures too through chinese history so please. Please.#keep your weirdass comment to yourself 😭
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Hey. Some anime nazi fetish freak just followed me so in case it wasn't clear enough: Kill yourself
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“threesomes aren’t gay” 🤨 two guys and one girl have sex & one guy and two girls have sex and no one’s gay? how do you no homo that I don’t get it at all maybe I’m just gay but like?! that’s insane to me
#got blocked by someone for saying this but idc let me speak 🔥🔥🔥#maybe two girls one guy not being gay is due to f/f being what’s the word fetishized so it’s not really gay#and m/m with a woman is?? uh idk. sharing a woman like an object so it’s not gay?? help 😭😭😭#I need to conduct research 🤔🤔🤔#t
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while yeah the popularity of m/m ships is (partially) rooted in misogyny (bland love interests leading to everyone shipping the main characters with the best friends), its also because the majority of fandom is made up of cishet teen girls who really do not care for f/f romance, a concerning amount of them even being disgusted by sapphics. heartstopper's popularity in contrast to most f/f projects failing or being canceled isnt because m/m is more accepted, its that the straight men who fetishize lesbians do it more often in porn, whereas straight women are more likely to consume actual romantic media. you see this in fanspaces where the female characters ARE wellwritten and have chemistry with each other and how m/m still overshadows f/f on the ao3 tags of such fandoms. in this essay i will-
#tired of tik tok sapphics blaming mlm for us getting more rep when really its just a case of fetishization and misogyny#the only reason achillean media gets blown up more is bc straight women are more likely to consume romantic media than straight men#its like the whole 'trans women have it worse than trans men' debate. the struggle isnt comparable bc theyre rooted in different issues#of course theres overlap within these issues but at the end of the day the discrimination we face isnt identical#i wholeheartedly support wlw getting shows. im genuinely looking forward to first kill actually it looks really cool#this is just an observation i made specifically in destiny bc the ao3 destiny tag top relationships are mostly m/m or f/m#last i checked at least#but they do have fascinating characters. hell like three of my favorite w/w ships (two of which are canon) come from there#but yeah i only involve that one bc its been my number 1 special interest for a while#there are more media where it would make sense for f/f ships to be popular#like if we removed straight women from the equation ao3 would lose 80% of its fics but the balance between m/m & f/f would be a lot better#this also isnt an attack on straight women idc about straight women yall do whatever this is specifcally#about the straight women who fetishize the shit out of mlm & then turn around and be grossed out by wlw existing. ur not cute#anyway idk if this is coherent im miserable and exhausted and dizzy iwas just thinking about this#shoutout to ronance btw i hope you grow ur a wonderful ship and i love you#shoutout to arcane too im in a server with a bunch of sapphics bc they all flocked to that show like FLIES#its wonderful i love them#im not sure about the cancellation rate though. netflix is just a little fucked up i guess
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When Ly.on meets Nova at a poignant point in his life, he doesn’t become infatuated with Ju.via. However I think it would be cool if Ly.on and Ju.via were friends :D
#something something I’m tired of forced lovetriangles. like whats wrong with m/f friendships?!#I mean they literally share gray as a person they care about! have them bond over that!!#I don’t even particularly like gray that much but he’s so vital to a bunch of character’s lives because he’s helped them take the path#to become better people!!#shallow rambles#guildposting#i just don't like a lot of the canon fairy tail ships tbh aside from like... je.r.za and che.ndy but that's it#to me these characters are paired with my self ship friends does that make sense???#chapter 545 didn't happen. it was a lie. a total fabrication /half jokes#i should mention that juvia is a little envious of ly.on and nova's relationship but only because she longs for a relationship like theirs#i have a lot of thoughts about ju.via but i will defend her because unfortunately she was written by a cishet man#who has poorly disguised fetishes in his own work.... ugh#i wont defend her actions. but like. understand she wasn't being treated as an actual character by the writers.#[r]: lyon vastia | cold crown#[p]: juvia lockser | heavy rain
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hey has anybody accused mlm dating trans men of pedophilia because "trans men have babyface therefore you can only have predatory attraction to them" yet. if not apollo please ignore
#m.#id say cis women too but that would require ppl to actual think cis women are capable of fetishizing men lol
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