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queercodedmoss · 2 years

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i keep seeing those "your cishet golden retriever gamer boyfriend does not respect your identity as an afab trans person, they only see you as afab" tiktoks and all the comments are like "not me tho, y'all stay safe!" YES YOU. go look at how your boyfriend talks about you to his friends. it's all "girlfriend" and "she". he does not use your pronouns when you aren't there. he sees your identity as a quirk, something that can be overlooked for your other qualities.

#yeah yeah there's good ones out there but this isn't about them #this post is aimed at a very specific category of person #the 'gender gremlin' type of person who talks about their 'straight until he met me' gamer bf #if your bf doesn't call you by masc or neutral terms to his friends #drop him #'but his friends aren't accepting🥺' so why is he friends with them??#obviously transphobia isn't a big deal to him or they agree on some subjects #you can tell a lot about a person by who they keep as friends #you'll learn what they let slide and what they don't

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