#tagging it for myself anyways cuz theyre silly

[stiffyck]

Okay so my silly take on hc/trafficlife desert duo/scarian:

Cw for cheating (dl) and abusive relationships. (Their relationship just isn't healthy)

They start dating in 3rd life but break up afterwards because trauma. They start dating again and then break up again on and off up until double life where they give it another shot.

When grian cheats that's it for scar and he doesn't bother giving grian another chance.

They both struggled with stuff while dating on and off: grian with trauma and the fear of hurting Scar - and Scar dealing with identity issues while also dealing with his own trauma. By identity issues I mean Scar couldn't figure out how he felt about grian and how he felt about dating him- which lead to him thinking about his identity as a whole and realizing he's never really wanted to date or have a partner. He's never really had a crush.

Scar keeps giving it a shot because he thinks it's gonna be different every time and maybe he'll finally fall in love or like grian that way and grian keeps giving it a shot because he feels like he's stuck in the desert because of his own trauma.

In double life they're both very much on edge. Scar knows he doesn't love grian and he wants to break up but he feels like since they're soul bound he can't. They're supposed to be soulmates so it's meant to be. The thought makes him uncomfortable. He doesn't care or feel about grian that way.

Grian tries to forget 3rd life and he tries distracting himself- and he feels like scar doesn't care enough to care about if grian would get a secret soulmate.

Scar does care because even if their relationships is very rocky they're still together and grian went out of his way to get a secret soulmate, someone else besides scar. Bigb. Scar isn't just mad because he got cheated on, he's also mad because grian is using bigb to forget about scar and to use him as a distraction.

They break up and they don't date or even try to after double life. Scar is done and he's mad at grian. He knows he wasn't there as a good partner and soulmate and he knows he didn't love grian the way grian wanted to be loved but cheating shouldn't have been the solution to that.

Even if grian asked scar to date again scar wouldn't have said yes.

Scar isn't heartbroken per se, he never was in love in the first place, but he still feels betrayed and angry.

They both get a break from each other and each deal with their own issues and their own trauma.

On hermitcraft they slowly but surely rebuild their friendship.

Scar may not trust Grian, but he's willing to be friends again if they both promise to communicate better.

A little note: this is like the fanon version where both hermitcraft and the life series are interconnected.

If we take them as just completely separate realities or worlds or whatever tho:

Hermitcraft:

They try dating but decide they work better as friends. They're best friends and joke around and have an overall good and healthy relationship

Life series: similar to the original post- they date on and off but the circumstances don't work. Their relationship just is toxic and after the cheating bit scar has enough.

[moonbinscirera]

YOU'RE CUTE 🤩💕

Ahhgg, car trips can be a drag sometimes 😭 I'm pretty sure I haven't taken one since I've graduated so about 3 years tbh, I'm always driving these days so I get a little more car sick as a passenger. But I used to enjoy them a lot when I was younger! 😩

I think your hobby list is so good 💪🏼 ah but I feel the same way... Ooh fanfic 👁 do you have any particular favorite kind of genres you like to read? Oh and I've been looking at switches lately because they seem like a lot of fun! I've been trying to get into more fun games since breaks will be coming up from school 🤩

Video essays sound like a lot of fun ngl - I wish I had the attention span for that long 😩 that's super cute how excited you got for a 9 hour video omg but also it's skyrim so I can understand 😂 knitting! That's so cool, my mom was lamenting how she wanted to learn 😂 😂 😂 😂

I don't do much either 😭 I always feel so busy or tired to do things but I like to run my silly little tumblr blogs with content (gifs, fics, spamming the dash 😅) but I like to read all kinds of things (fics and books) but I haven't had as much time as I'd like 😔 maybe once I graduate, it'll free up some more hours in my day!

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i don't actually drive so im always a passenger dhdhdhddh so really i just play pretend at being a navigator but like we using a gps so-

oh im a fantasy lover i love magic and monsters and scifi stuff too! bonus points if the protag is a black girl and double points if shes black and gay but thats my criteria for regular books when its fanfic i like sickfics and injury ones like im an angst girl i love me a major character death and i want my fave to suffer... on the lighter side i like fake dating like so much like SO MUCH i still like magic aus too but ill read alotta stuff as long as nobody pregnant and like the fic has to BE SUPER well written for me to even THINK of touching a kid fic with a 10ft pole

like when i get into an ao3 tag i got a full blown system like first i do my favorite character depending on the size of the archive ill either filter it to just angst or the specfic type then read thru back to front once being selective then twice with lower standards and then a third time with desperation. then once ive done that i take off the angst tag and just leave all my exclude this filters on and just do the above with their entire archive. after that i do the same with the relationship i have identified as my favorite

its a proven system i miss very lil fics that way.... anyway

switches are fun! i actually have quite a few games onnit its nice to have a portable console and when u get games like botw onnit u can have good time sinks that are worth the money spent on it and btw.... u can get skyrim on it dgsnszhdn p sure

ehe~ there are video essays that are still really good that are under 40 mins or 30 mins even if several hours is really hard to do. i like ToonrificTariq he does cartoon analysis and theyre normally on that shorter side!

i wasnt necessarily good at knitting like i was really baysic at it tbh i just taught myself the very baysic knit stitch and i think how to do the reverse purl one maybe im still unsure if i actually did it.... funfact i taught myself while i was binge watching game of thrones (when it was still cool) so i missed the entirety of the first season cuz i was focused on my knitting but by the time i got to s2 i could knit reliably with out looking so i actually started watching the show.

:O ur a fic writer??? thats so cool! its amazing that u can write stories i cant wait to be able to see some of your writing 👀 and a studious homie!!! very fancy!! what are u studying if u dont mind me asking?