#there's this widespread belief that your rp partners need to read your mind but i don't do that

[ccaptain]

Pet peeves?

love cleaning up my askbox and then stopping at oldass memes. i had to dig so much for this -- Anonymous

breaking my comfort zone is already hard enough as it is: i have EXTREMELY HIGH anxiety so usually i just... kind of dont. i stay glued to my usual rp partner/s legs like a little kid being introduced to family friends and THEN if i'm able to i break off slowly

absolutely ANY shift of behaviors towards me without having notified me that we have a problem we gotta discuss or other stuff about that makes me go right back to square one :\ i don't do passive-aggressive and it has saved my ass many times where i broke off with people who can't/won't voice that and it led to a big realization that i won't let them bully me into submission. so that was fun

if you hold your ability to communicate hostage and wait for me to come to you crawling, not only im gonna take my distance like fucking speedy gonzales but i'm also significantly reducing my interactions with you, no matter if we're shipping/communicating on a daily basis or just mutuals etc. not to mention that i'll clam up and it'll take me plenty of time to be comfortable again around you and it'll be a pain for both of us. i like to think that seeing how much passive-aggressive communication harms and distances a person has taught people lessons and made them better at communicating, but i'm not hopeful.

tl;dr i don't do passive-aggressive power trips under ANY circumstances, i'm a scaredy cat and forcing me to try and ''submit'' to your whims will put a severe dent in our friendship/relationship/partnership.