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© Nona Limmen {via Instagram}

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baseball different from how i remember it

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$2.50 for a chocolate chip cookie are you fucking with me

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Do you live in the USA? Do you need assistance with utilities, finding legal help, or a help with your pet bills in your area? Don't know where to start?

I'd like to introduce you to my Aunt Bertha, and your Aunt Bertha, too!

Aunt Bertha, also known as findhelp.org, is a human sourced website that compiles all community assistance programs. They organize things from who qualifies (ex: elderly, LGBTQA+, etc.)

And guess what? Aunt Bertha can even sort by low cost and no cost resources! She's got so many selection options and almost everything you can think of, and she even tells you when places are open, how to contact them, etc.

If you are struggling or need help and don't know where to turn in your community for help, ask Aunt Bertha and she'll tell you what she knows.

She'll even send you emails from herself, Aunt Bertha, in case you are in a dangerous situation and asking for help.

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one of my high school friends just lost her husband after a battle with cancer.  they put all their savings into moving across the country since her husband had a job opportunity at the beginning of covid.  now she’s a widow with a 5 year old and a 3 week old all alone in a place she isn’t familiar with.  she needs help with funeral costs and moving back and so she can start pulling her life back together…

if yall can share this id appreciate it 

https://www.gofundme.com/f/get-widow-her-young-children-home?utm_source=facebook&fbclid=IwAR1gX6AQRtS1E-cEHpR092s_vtFqxYiKxIJcckpu78tPwG4DfHCNrM-lTXc

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can we weaponize comfort already? 

a lot of places have a culture that valorizes never sleeping and not eating right and not taking breaks and stuff like that. 

fuck that. I want like

look at how comfortable and well rested I am. I am well-nourished, I take bubble baths, and I have a good work-life balance. 

self-care has made me strong. has running yourself into the ground made you strong?

I will destroy you. and then I will have a pleasant lunch.

can we weaponize that?

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goodbye gender

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study of beaches at night

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i dont understand people’s perception of friendship anymore. do you only want to get to know people on a surface level? just for cute instagrammable moments? 

do you not care deeply about them and understand that they are complex human beings who experience a range of emotions?

your friend being vulnerable with you is not trauma dumping. you don’t have to be a grief counselor to be there for your friend while they cry about a loved one dying. or just a rough time they’re having.

i mean, do you only have deep discussions with a therapist and not friends or family? if so, that’s weird tbfh and not utilizing therapy properly.

it’s all so incredibly bizarre to me. everyone’s always talking about yearning and loneliness, but if a friend starts to cry about their dying grandma it’s like, “oop, girly i dont have the Headspace for that. here’s my discount code for betterhelp.com” weirdo shit tbh

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alcohol enjoyers are like i lovee things that taste so so bad

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exactly !!!!!

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Skeleton no! It’s Christmas, not Halloween!

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keanu reeves laughing in the interviewers face at the concept of nfts. another win for the 1/4 chinese gang