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Hey everyone, I know it's been a very long time,and I apologize. A lot of things have happened in my life these past months, and I've been trying to cope. I'm back now, thank you for your patience.

~ Alice

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While this is an older message, we felt the need to post it.

We've heard that he is now on skype actively searching for young girls. There have been reports of him calling young girls sluts for not talking to him.

There is more, and unfortunately we do not have all the information.

More of his URLs are on our watch list.

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My email to tumblr staff: abuse@tumblr.com

I've been actively using tumblr for a few years now, and I've noticed a growing trend. When I first began on tumblr, anonymous hate was sparse. It nearly never happened to the people I followed and who followed me. Occasionally I'd see something pop up, but it was never.. detrimental to people's outside lives.

Here in the last year I've seen so many threats to peoples' lives. I've seen so many messages of "Why don't you kill yourself" and it's sickening. It is disgusting. I want to know why the people sending these messages are still active bloggers on tumblr.

People have committed suicide due to this. Lives have been lost, and still these people roam free on your website.

I am not blaming you. I AM NOT BLAMING YOU. I am positive you guys are working your hardest to stop these attacks.

But anonymous hate has ruined people. Ruined lives. Ended lives. Cyber bullying is the sickest form of abuse. You might know your attacker, but you might not. Somebody who's never met you, and lives on the other side of the world could be behind that message. A complete stranger could be telling you that you're worth nothing to the world.

I know we can't completely eradicate cyber bullying and cyber attacks, but I think we should at least try.

Tumblr is a safe haven for people. People who have awful outside lives come to your website for freedom. Do you really want them to be hurt worse here?

Myself and others have made blogs with the purpose of reporting and stopping anonymous and even not anonymous hate and harassment. We exist only to help the victims and bring their attackers to justice. Yet when we report these crimes it seems as if nothing happens.

Please please please please please listen to our cries for help. We are trying to help you guys stop the problem. Please help us help you. Please.

Thank you for your time.

- Mod Alice

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In the Naruto Fandom there is someone I fear deeply for my safety. They go on anon and harass me greatly. When I confront the person on anon, they go away. His name is anbusasu and he runs to my rp partners and sends them hate for roleplaying with me.

Thank you for coming to us. We will go and investigate.

If you could please screenshot some of these messages you get and submit them to us for evidence? Thank you.

Beware of this user.

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perditxs replied to your post:I believe that what started out as a genuine care...

If this is in response to me, I got hatemail from the blog and the IP was in fact defelina’s and I’m extremely confused.

Oh, no. This was not intended for you. I would have messaged you privately and asked you for information concerning the user. Our last post was in reply to quite a few messages in our inbox accusing blogs we'd already investigated.

This was in no way intended for you. We're sorry you took it as such.

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Sadly tumblr has deleted Defelina-no but, don’t worry everyone they still have their Skype that goes by the same name. So we’ll still have them in a way but, hopeful soon they’ll bring their blog back soon. Until that you can still submit your evidence to anonymoushate-help or projectstopdefelina.

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( Little tip for screencapping anon messages that are clearly harassment from defelina:   Have both statcount, and make sure you get notifications for asks. Make sure you have the time clearly stated on both the ask notification screencap, and then the log showing she was at the ask box in that time frame(with IP showing too). )  It it’s a screencap of her post, make sure that either the link is showing and/or there’s a time stamp.I suggest snip tool, and either window snip (it takes the whole window) or rectangle snip (which takes a rectangular section.)  A clear example is here   Please be safe, everyone. )

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I believe that what started out as a genuine care for each other has turned into something much worse.

The IP blockers and information given about how to find an IP address were given to protect you. Please do not falsely use defelina's IP address to accuse others of being her.

We've checked a few blogs ourselves and found that the IP addresses were completely different. Besides that, some of the blogs we've been sent to investigate were so wholly different from defelina that it took us mere minutes to cross them off the witch hunt list.

Please ask first if a blog is defelina, and let us and others confirm it for you. Let us study those users and report back to you. We're here to help you. If this witch hunt persists, a lot of people will be hurt.

When you go to a blog that someone has said is defelina, and you send them hate, what do you feel? When you tell that user to kill themselves, how do you feel?

You are no better than her for doing those things.

You are hurting innocent people with your words. Please wait until a blog is confirmed as defelina, and even then  do not send them hate.

- Alice

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Do not abuse this:

Above is the internet crimes complaint center.

I highly recommend reading the FAQ.

Scrolling down will award you with information on how to report several different types of internet crimes.

There is also an area where you can input evidence.

I s t r o n g l y  r e c o m m e n d this site to any who’ve been hacked by defelina and/or others.

- Alice

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Defelina

So, the blog defelina-no, the only sane, respectful bloggers out there apparently, have debunked that I am not defelina. Thank you jesus. The reason I did this was because I wanted to see how people would react. While I did make petty harassing messages like defelina would (i.e. you’re a bitch, go to hell, etc.) no one was ever told anything above that, no one was told to kill themselves, no one was told to bring harm to themselves as I was blatantly accused of.

The user krystallosx was kind enough to lend their askbox to me for a few messages to see how others would react. I thank them greatly for aiding me in this experiment as it was more than revealing. Krystallosx continues to receive actual hate from defelina, and it pains me to express that that is part of the reason why defelina is receiving hate. Krystallosx asked me to express that even when he is receiving hate that you do not, ever message defelina in return, not even if you are being polite. It is attention feeding and causes them and others to receive more hate. (If you do not believe me on this you can message them and they will confirm)

Users would come to me daily telling me to stop messaging them telling them to kill themselves, which I did not and have never done (they may have been acting on the messages defelina herself had sent them, however the messages contained things like “go cut yourself”, “die”, etc. and that is not and is NEVER okay no matter who you are.)

I had users constantly in my inbox berating and telling me to kill myself and that I deserved to die. I had users harassing me to give proof that I am not defelina and when asked how, they refused to come back with an answer.

While I do not support what defelina has done or is doing, I am absolutely appalled by the reactions I recieved. Defelina, no matter how harsh the things she is doing, is still a human being. You are no better than her when you tell her to harm herself just as she is saying to others.

Before I did this, I partook in the “defelina witch hunt” accusing a user who was clearly NOT and IS NOT defelina, gunmetalfangs. I did this to see what reaction I would receive and again, it was people telling me to kill myself because I was wrong. 

I would like to make an apology to that user, they are not and never will be defelina and they are kind and a wonderful person. I even messaged them afterward about what I was doing and they have forgiven me and are equally as appalled with the messages I received, you can even message them here to verify, I am not kidding.

What I have proved in this experiment is simple. Defelina is indeed an issue, but many of the people responding to this issue are doing it in harmful, disgusting ways that I sincerely hope are put to an end. This is not okay. Telling someone to kill themselves because they are wrong or have done similar things is never okay. And I honestly hope those of you (who will not be named) who did similar things rethink your actions as they are just as harmful.

The defelina witch hunt needs to stop. Before you accuse a user, check their IP if they’re messaging you, you can do this with statcounter and it is the only true way to verify a users identity.

Further more, I am working very hard to put the issue at hand to an end, however, others who are sending spiteful, hurtful messages need to realize harassing users because of their wrongs is not the right way to go about that. It is harmful, it is disgusting, and should her case be brought to court, defelina could counter sue over the messages she received and therefore NOTHING WOULD BE DONE ABOUT HER ISSUE. You do nothing to help. You make it WORSE. Stop.

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The watch list has been updated yet again.

- Alice

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Hi! I know you know about defelina and I was wondering if you could get it out there that she has a new rping account called themidnightarrow thanks!!!

I will investigate them, keeping my beliefs to myself for the time being.

But if you could provide me with proof that this person is defelina, that would be much appreciated.

- Alice

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Is clockworkgoddess Defelina? She followed me and her blog does resemble a lot of Defelina's traits.

No, I do not believe so. Defelina has a very set way in her writing, and the two are far too different.

Just because someone is a bad writer, or smuts all over the place, doesn't mean they are defelina.

There are defelina's other blogs that are clearly her, you just have to know her writing.

I could even tell the difference between defelina and mystickat.

Thank you for your message and your concern.

- Alice

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This blog limsokawaii is sending hate to only-a-fools-hope and tell him to kill him, could you please add her to your list I think she might go after anyone who is homosexual, trans, or pansexual. I have screen shoots of their hate if you need that. Just please warn others and if you could send some helpful support to only-a-fools-hope's mun I would be very grateful.

Thank you! I'll be sure to add her as I'm editing.

The screenshots would be most helpful, too.

I know my reply is late.

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I think the idea, and what you are doing is absolutely wonderful and fantastic. Keep it up :)

Thank you so so much!

- Alice

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THE SEQUEL YOU’VE ALL BEEN WAITING FOR

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- Alice

I apologize if this garners any offense or any misgivings, but when was Tumblr ever accepting? Most I've seen from it was hypocrisy up the ass.

I started roleplaying about two years ago, and it was magic. Everyone was really nice(which was weird, because the fandom I was in were cut-throat with any and everyone- even each other). So I had to dig a little to see why everyone was so civil and I guess in my little neck of the woods, the RP community had a no-hate pact.

Of course I’m speaking from a sheltered(if sheltered can be applied to tumblr in any sense??) bubble in the RP world. We were called the Anon World, it’s what everything was tagged as, blah blah blah.

Not the point.

Well, I took a break for about a year. When I came back, I made this blog. Here is where I first heard of anonymous hate actually happening. Anonymous hate actually being scathing and hurtful. Anonymous hate costing people their lives.

Tumblr, to me and a few others, used to be a (as much as it can be) hate-free place. It used to be about acceptance. It used to be about offering everyone with any sort of outside trouble a place to rest. To find love and friendship within these borders.

Tumblr used to be great and now..