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♡ asks ♡

 Do you have freckles? 

 Do you drink tea or coffee? How do you take it? 

What was the last song you listened to? 

Do you sleep on your back, stomach or side? 

Do you sleep with a stuffed animal? 

Do you prefer drawing or writing? 

What’s your ideal number of blankets to sleep with? 

What’s your favorite band/artist? 

When is your birthday? 

How tall are you? 

What color are your eyes? 

Who are five (or more) people you want to hug right now? 

Fears? 

What’s your favorite color? 

What’s your favorite season? 

Want any tattoos? What of? 

Want any piercings? Where? 

Who is the last person you texted? 

Do you have a best friend? How long have you been friends? 

What/who do you miss? 

How was your day today? 

How much sleep did you get last night? 

Do you believe in aliens? 

When was the last time you cried? Why? 

What’s your favorite decade? 

What are some seemingly childish things you like? 

What’s your favorite book? Or just one you’ve read a few times? 

How are you, really? 

Does it take you a long time to make decisions? 

What are you looking forward to in the near future? 

What are you looking forward to in the distant future? 

If you could go anywhere right now, where would you go? 

Do you sleep with your door open or closed? 

What’s your favorite flower? 

Do you currently have a squish? 

Do you like your middle name? 

Do you prefer dogs or cats? 

Do you have any phobias? 

Do you stay up late?

Do you like the beach? Do you prefer it sunny or cloudy? 

What’s your favorite cartoon? 

Tag 5 of your favorite blogs

Do you have siblings? How many? 

Who was the last person you said “I love you” to? 

Is there anyone you would die for? 

What do you need when you’re sad? 

Have you memorized your phone number? 

Who’s someone you can trust with your life? 

What does your last text say? 

Wild Card. Any question, ask away. 

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Life Hack - Office Worker Self Care Kit

Here's a little life hack I've developed as a person who's worked in some kind of office environment for most of their adult life. If you have a personal workstation with the capacity for a small storage bin and the security to leave personal items on a longterm basis (i.e. in a locked drawer), make yourself a self-care kit. It's a lifesaver on the days when you've run late or just aren't feeling your best.

All it takes is a shoebox-sized storage bin with a secure lid. You can use inexpensive items and travel-sized containers to save space, and personalize the contents to your own needs. Don't worry about keeping a huge supply of anything - just a few emergency backups. And don't leave anything in the kit that would get you in trouble with the bosses or that you'd regret losing, just in case.

Here's what I keep in mine:

Travel-sized toothbrush and toothpaste

Travel-sized deodorant

Mini bottle of dry shampoo

Folding hairbrush with mirror and spare scrunchie

Tweezers, nail clippers, and emery board

Travel-sized facial cleanser and small silicon scrub pad

Small tins of moisturizer and hand cream

Small bottle of hand sanitizer

Small bottle of medicine for aches and pains

Packets of medicine for stomach trouble

Period supplies (pads, tampons, and one of those warming packs for cramp relief)

A few bandaids and alcohol wipes

Bottle of clear nail polish (trust me)

Laundry pen for removing stains

Travel-sized bottle of fabric refresher spray

Spare bottle of energy drink

Spare earbuds

Spare charge cable

A couple of disposable face masks

Emergency breath-freshening gum

Emergency granola bar (replace often)

Emergency bundle of liquid concealer, mascara, brow pencil, and tinted chapstick (this covers MANY sins)

And yes, this all fits into the bin with room to spare. Some of it the smaller items are stowed together in cheap pencil cases, just to make it easier to find things quickly.

This is something you can also keep in your car or have ready to toss into your luggage if you travel often. It's also great for keeping in your locker (if you're able to do so) just for those OH NO moments during the school day. And you can customize the contents to your personal needs.

(Pro-tip: Makeup and skin care are for EVERYONE.)

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i wanna die

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hey groomer bot

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the brutalist public bathroom is definitely a top one tourist attraction across all of the US

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healthcare should not have a weight limit.

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Say it with me! Wheelchairs aren’t sad! Mobility aids aren’t sad! Mobility aids are instruments of freedom!

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i don't think tinnitus counts because the phenomenon itself is in your head. and thus not real

(joke post)

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every time I mention how many days sober I am I appreciate people congratulating me and telling me to keep up the good work. it is nice. but I also wish that milestones in addiction recovery weren’t still so pinned to length of sobriety/abstinence

yeah yeah I’m 50 days sober who cares. how about the fact that, when I do drink, it tends to be nipped in the bud after two days nowadays instead of weeks or months? how about the fact that drinking has been condensed to a six pack because I’m at the end of my tether, instead of browning out every night? how about my friend who has decided to stop drinking alone, and is actually sticking to that? recovery doesn’t always look like sobriety and I wish it was more normal to talk about that. yknow. when addiction is normal to talk about at all

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There’s a poll that asks people if they think if pcos is intersex or not and heaps of people who say “dsd” said no :( so it’s a little sad. Can we have that cute little crocodile smoking a fat blunt in your header have pcos solidarity

Don't listen to DSD bootlickers anon they're objectively wrong forever and don't represent the wider intersex community. Anyways hell yea cousin here's a pcos flag Big Challenges (that's his name!)

Also free meme to make my stances more clear on this blog

(This applies to virtually any other variations that could be considered intersex! I don't like maliciously excluding people who feel they benefit from the community and calling themselves intersex because of whatever condition(s) their body might have that result in congenitally variant sexual characteristics)

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how can you be transphobic/homophobic and have PCOS. honey you're the I in LGBTQIA. happy pride. 🏳️‍🌈

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this is ur reminder that all sh is sh, cat scratches, burning, picking. If you're doing something with the intention to harm yourself its sh. if you don't think that yo do not belong here

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help save the 988 suicide hotline for LGBTQIA youth plsss ><

as someone who's been saved by this hotline I hope that it stays up!!!

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This pride month is an excellent time to drop the term "cishet" as a word for "conformant" or "nonqueer".

Intersex people belong in pride. "Pericishet" is only a bandaid solution because stacking prefixes will always leave some group out.

If you want to talk about allorepropericisheteronormativity you probably are trying to talk about cultural hegemony.

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The landminesupportgroup “call out” was just ass???

Like someone literally just got mad at them for having a personal life and making some jokes

Holy fucking Thor why can’t ppl just mind their business. Like she isn’t problematic like others (*cough cough* landmineconfessional)

Landminesupportgroup is literally like the angel of the community. She’s an amazing person, someone was just pissy and took their anger out on her.