My favorite thing on the planet is when transphobes on the internet assume I'm amab. They think they're doing something hurtful by calling me a man and meanwhile I'm like "Who, me? Thank you!! 😱😭👉👈"
I asked if I could wear a neutral color like black. They said no.
I asked about wearing pink or red and white checkerboard. They said no.
I asked about mixing and matching stuff (white gown with red cap or vice versa). They said no.
I have to choose red or white. They said change might come, eventually. Decoupling graduation gown color from gender. But for now, I should just keep my head down.
I don’t want to choose. Not even if I choose based on “which color is prettier”. I want to graduate as myself. Not be shoved into the binary when people look at me. I want to scream.
Who has short curly hair and wears ugly jumpers and corderoy pants and sometimes those sleeveless sweater vest top this i cant remember the name of.
But who also wears long skirts and slightly heeled boots because they like them and who can't handle any compliment that's stereotypically feminine or masculine, not for the fact that it is stereotypically feminine or masculine but because they feel like they're being percieved in a certain way and they hate being percieved in a way that just isn't true.
New rule: If you're vegan/vegetarian, please be quiet about it if you want to tell/imply non-vegan/vegetarian people that they're assholes and/or murderers. I know that you usually don't mean it like that but it annoys me to no end that you feel like you can forbid people from eating meat or animal products or make them feel bad because of it. I don't have a problem with vegans/vegetarians if they don't have a problem with me.
Same goes for religious people btw. If you have a problem with any other religion and feel the need to tell those people how their religion is wrong, you can fuck off. You can be religious and talk about being religious but don't hate on other people.
I kindly ask you to leave my blog if you want to hate on other people because of their eating habits or religion
idk what queer needs to hear this but you can do whatever you want forever. be a lesbian man. be a gay woman. be a transfemmasc nonbinary catgender lesboy. these terms are for YOU...not OTHERS' comfort.
"but it makes a mockery of REAL queers" tell me why you need external validation from allocishets? cause i know that's why you're so ashamed of us other queers...the weird(er) queers. the noun/emoji/xenopronoun xenogender queers.
everyone say "thank you" to Mutant (xe/rot/it) that's plural, audhd, disabled, transfemmasc, furry, zombiekin, cat therian, sans undertale fictkin, for being alive and in the queer community 'cause being yourself is the only way we're gonna thrive.
if you keep pressuring yourself to being stuck in a box you're gonna eventually run outta air. breathe a lil.