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it’s fucking wild because one day you’re like i guess i’m not dying tragically young and you go to the store and you buy dental floss, ingredients for soup, and a bath mat

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Ms. Dench looks damn cool with dark hair

Lesley Manville, Judi Dench, and Miranda Foster in a production of “The Cherry Orchard.” 1994.

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Created by, for, and about lesbians, On Our Backs came about in the tumult of the “feminist sex wars,” a deeply polarizing internal debate in the feminist movement regarding sex, sexuality, pornography, erotica, and BDSM. Divided into sex-positive and anti-porn camps, the sex wars saw rabid disagreement on what the nature of things like pornography were doing for lesbians and for society as a whole. Many feminists argued that pornography and erotica were inherently objectifying and abusive. Writer and theorist Andrea Dworkin argued that not just pornography but heterosexual sex as a whole was a “means of physiologically making a woman inferior,” and claimed that anyone aroused by porn that depicted sexualized violence (whether real or scripted) “was evidence of a mind that’s absorbed the propaganda of the patriarchy and eroticized the subjugation of women.” On the flipside, sex-positive feminists argued that pornography itself was not an inherent evil, but rather its morality was dependent upon the creators and participants. Rubin, one of the founders of the lesbian feminist BDSM group Samois, believed sexual liberation was a key component of the feminist movement and that public expressions of female sexuality were crucial in asserting women’s existence as fully realized beings.

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i uh think it’s really cool that you’re still trying despite how hard life can be

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cats are like if the most adorable and soft plushie loved you back animately but had a 9-5 in a way where they keep coming over to your desk to talk to you but every time you try to go to them to off they’re like Not right now. I’m working. and then go sleep somewhere as you watch

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Not to sound like a potted plant, but sunlight and fresh air really makes a difference if you even care.

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how could it have gone wrong, my approach was data-driven and trauma-informed

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hey did you mean to rb that post of the guy with his ass out 😭

That was a mistake, we don't post mammals on this blog.

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you ever been 24 minutes into a 47 minute long youtube video and you're randomly like wait i dont care about this at all. and just leave

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learning the backstories of any of your female relatives always amounts to taking 500 points of psychological damage and wondering if the world is irredeemably evil

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@khemet :D

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The lovely @sisyphus-complex2 tagged me, and thank you muchly for doing so 🖤🖤🖤

(omg my name is so long):

B: Backbone - Gojira

E: Ebudae - Enya

T: Tango to Evora- Loreena McKennitt

T: The Forgotten Years - Midnight Oil

E: Even in the Shadows - Enya

R: Red Tide- Neko Case

T: Tsunami - Res

H: Halfsleeper - Chelsea Wolfe

A: Ancestor Song - Robbie Robertson

N: Never Let Me Down Again - Depeche Mode

A: Attitude - Sepultura

K: Keep the Streets Empty for Me - Fever Ray

I: I Am the Night Color Me Black - Priestess

C: Chores - Daniel Knox

K: Kiss with a Fist - Florence and the Machine

I: In Bloom - Nirvana

N: Night Time Crawling - Zombie Ghost Train

T: Tai Kangata - Alien Weaponry

H: Hot Pants Explosion - B52s

E: Effigy - Natalie Merchant

F: Friedrichshain - Chelsea Wolfe

A: A Kind of Magic - Queen

C: Cry of the Blackbirds - Amon Amarth

E: Every Little Thing She Does is Magic - the Police

@dollwithkaleidoscopeeyes I tag YOU :P because you tagged me in the same thing ages ago but I took so long to do it that I eventually was like 'ohh no...I've taken too long. It's just be weird now 🫠'

As if I'm ever not weird lol 🖤🖤🖤