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Nobody will listen to your story if it doesn't have a happy ending......

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Having read a lot about celibacy lately, i am very inspired by the concept. I have decided that if this post gets over 10 likes, I would start with no fap.

Can you help a brother get there....

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Ask and you shall get, seek and you shall find

Allow me to complete this saying, ask and you shall get because there is some dumb fuck out there who has to give it to you as he/she can't say no......

p.s I would kill for freedom from dumb promises as keeping them would kill me anyways

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Today I was smoking a cigarette in the woods near my home, and a policeman approached me, checked my pockets, my bike and accused me of consuming marijuana. I said that I haven't done anything illegal, I am even ready to be tested but he asked me to get into the police van, took my keys and asked me to collect it the next morning from the road tax office.

I said that I am ready to pay the fine if he can prove me guilty of anything, but by this time he had realised that I cannot leave my bike with him for the night as it would put me in trouble, and also that I don't want my family to know that I was smoking.

He took complete advantage of the situation, slapped me, accused me of stealing the vehicle although I was able to produce all the documents and kept putting on numerous acquisitions.

In my mind I kept thinking that we are supposed to respect the police but they are also supposed to protect us, is this what we are paying tax for. He took me to the police station and collected a handful of a thousand bucks in the name of fine, when I asked for a receipt he threatened me that he would send it to my home if I asked again.

I realised that he is taking complete advantage of my helplessness, and for the first time in my life I felt unsafe while I was in custody of the police.

We talk about national issues, international issues but what about these things civilians face on a daily basis. If this kind of stuff is happening all around the country then the citizens are captured in a mental jail.

Why would anyone not want to go abroad, if this is what we are working for.

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Suicidal thoughts,

Obviously they are not a good sign but someone with such thoughts doesn't have desires for materialistic things. I think there is a silver lining to these thoughts

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Why do models need to have perfect looks and physique?

Models are supposed to have perfect physiques, they are supposed to be handsome, beautiful etc. and that's why whatever they wear looks good on them. When normal people but those things they look totally different rather opposite. I think models should be the most ugly people and designers should try to make clothes that could make them look good, so that while buying for themselves people should feel like if that piece of cloth can make that ugly guy look good it will make them look good too and that wat we can find the finest of designers.

P.S. - when I say ugly or handsome I mean conventionally ugly or handsome as I totally buy into that bullshit that everyone is beautiful because most years of my life I have been a fat fuck and I totally appreciated how people made me feel comfortable by making jokes like ,"you do not need to do anything special to stand out from crowd" at my face.

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Jealousy is not the problem

Everyone has been jealous of someone at some point in their life, and we always hear people saying that it's a bad thing to get jealous. But, I think that jealousy is not the problem, in fact it can lead to a lot of good things. Consequences of jealousy are the problem, it's just a feeling and your reaction to it causes the problem.

It can lead to good and bad things, it's just a matter of how you react to it. Just remember every time you get jealous of someone, there are two ways to handle it you can uplift yourself or you can try to bring the said person down.

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Learning coding from scratch

I did not take coding seriously in my college life, and now no one in tech world is taking me seriously. Good product based companies don't even shortlist my resume, and those offering me jobs are offering the role of support engineer. No disrespect but there is nothing to learn, or to be specific there is nothing relevant to learn. So I have decided, I will start learning coding from scratch, this time I will never stop learning and will keep going at a decent pace. Because I have understood once you stop learning, you stop growing and also there is a lot to learn out there hence, you can never learn enough. I want to work at a place where I am valued, the company should feel like it's hard to replace me. So definitely I will look for a new job once I feel that I have enough knowledge for one, but this time I won't look desperate in the interview, I will have a chose me or loose me attitude. Because, that's the kind of work I want, at a place where I can work on my terms.

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Do you believe in God?

Now I can bet that you have been asked this question at least once in your life, and what words came out of your mouth were clouded by the fear of judgement by the other person . And that's completely your problem to deal with,

But if you ask me, I would say that I want to believe in God , I really do but not through the idea of religion. Like if you think about it, all religions do is just explain a path towards god that is written in our holy books.

I want a path that is led purely from my belief and not influenced by anyone like a priest or even by friends or family. And I think that can be achieved by working towards your interests irrespective of what people think about it. Targeting your divine focus towards yourself, what you really love , that way one will not only get good at their job but also they will be able to generate respect towards it.

And even all the holy books say that god rests within. So why not peek inside and instead of focusing on myths that are believed all round the world focus on the only truth that could create an impact that is " the only spirit that stands with you is yours" . Now that may sound bitter but that's the nature of truth, that can't be changed unless tampered.

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Maybe the idea of Feminism is corrupted

Earlier in the society women used to do all the household chores like cooking, cleaning etc. basically all the things that men wanted them to do, and they were expected to be okay with it. Later it was recognized that that's unfair and gender equality became a huge concept.

The whole purpose was to make sure that women can do whatever they want irrespective of their gender.

However, nowadays women are doing everything that me do just to prove that they are equal to men, which is okay but , if we look at the bigger picture we can see that women still are not doing what they want and hence, the whole purpose is failing.

It is just like women earlier in a cage created by patriarchal society and now they are living in a cage created by themselves to prove their equality to men.

For example, when we see a women dressed in a western outfit we think that she is an independent women, but when we see a women wearing salwar-kameez we think that she is a housewife and her in laws doesn't allow her to wear western dresses. Therefore , a women has to wear western outfit just to look independent. And it is not gender equality. It should have been like they can wear whatever they want regardless of fear of being judged.

If we as a society cannot achieve that then there is no point. We will keep coming back to square one in one way or other.

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Dreams and Ideas, A debt that you should(not must) pay

Anything that you wish for qualifies to be your dream, and a path that you think suitable for getting it is an idea.

Now, let’s say that your dream is to set up a business and you are having ideas to get started, but you are a little afraid of how will it end up for you and for people that you care about which is totally normal and human. 

However, that does not mean that you should bury that dream because you just owe it to the rest of the world, think of it this way like if Mark Zuckerberg had not implemented his idea then there would be no facebook today, which means he would have deprived the whole world of such an amazing thing just because of his own fear.

Now, nobody is going to hold you responsible for anything like that but, if you think about it , it is the guilt that keeps consuming you. That you had one chance to give this world something in return, one chance to do something for everyone around and did let your fear hold you back. 

Obviously there are many risks associated with it but the biggest of them is not even trying to do something for it and the teenage is best for this because there are less responsibilities which means fewer strings attached which is why it is the best age to nurture ideas.

Because when something that has been on your mind for years comes before your eyes then that’s the best feeling in the world, at that moment every thing feels worth it. All those sleepless nights, that hard work pays off( the debt obviously :p). So, always believe in your dreams because they are just like a blessing which is only given to chosen ones.