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THIS MAN IS GAY AND EUROPEAN

This movie is prime bi fuckery

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We are romanticizing mafias in 2020

Why am I not surprised

Imagine marrying someone and he asks you to roleplay but his idea of roleplay is teacher-schoolgirl or librarian-client or some other boring shit? Excuse me sir, you’ve married a CERTIFIED fan fiction reader. We ARE recreating an entire Mafia-AU including a kidnapping, an arraigned marriage, fight to the death, enemies to lovers slow burn >200 000 word script, and I need it acted out FLAWLESSLY. You have unleashed a MONSTER, you good sir, and you have no idea what you’re getting into.

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You mean this man is bi and European

Stop saying gay when you're actually bi 2020

THIS MAN IS GAY AND EUROPEAN

This movie is prime bi fuckery

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Nope, you have every right to apologize for your episodes. While mental illness is an EXPLANATION for your behavior, it is NO EXCUSE to treat people like shit. You STILL hurt people when you have an episode of any kind. You are still potentially ABUSING people when you have an episode.

People don't HAVE to be patient with you if you are not changing your shitty behavior. People have the right to take a step back and leave you if you refuse to get better. Because you have become a toxic person and people are allowed to remove you from their lives.

Mental illness isn't, "Sorry I freaked out and called you names, yelled in your face, threatened you and over all made you feel like shit/scared. But I have mental illness so I don't know what to tell you." Nope, sorry, doesn't work like that.

If YOU care enough about the other person then you will BETTER yourself and CONTROL your mental illness and symptoms, not let it control you. You will actively participate in therapy, see a psychiatrist, take your medications and learn positive coping skills. If you don't do ANY of that then you really don't care enough to confront your mental health and will continue to be this bitter person who has a lot of problems that will just continue to get worse and ultimately you will lose people close to you.

People do not owe you their time and energy just because you have mental illness. That's just facts. If my partner told me today that they have bipolar disorder but said that they weren't going to get help and just let their shitty behaviors overtake our relationship, I would leave. Why should I try to support someone who has mental illness and get myself hurt if they won't support themselves? Wouldn't be me, sis.

And yes, I do have mental illness. I have bipolar 1, PTSD, anxiety and depression. I've had them for over ten years now and have been going to therapy for a very long time. While my partner supports me and understands my mental health problems, they have every right to say, "This is too much for me," and leave.

Stop with the entitlement just because you have mental illness.

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Eh maybe. But then again, people actually want that and I know I'd stroke their fragile egos if I did.

Now I remember why I left Tumblr years ago. People are so triggered on this site, I wonder how they function in the real world.

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Now I remember why I left Tumblr years ago. People are so triggered on this site, I wonder how they function in the real world.

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Want to know how it's not a stereotype? Because he's a SEX WORKER doing SEX WORK. Dancing in clubs? Sex workers do that. Prostituting on the streets? Sex workers do that. Being pimped out? WOWOWOWOWOW that happens to a LOT of sex workers too! It's almost like.... I have more than two working brain cells and can SEE that he's a SEX WORKER doing SEX WORK. But sure let's also ignore the fact that a lot of sex workers thanked Vivzie when Addict came out because she tackled the terrifying and harsh realities of a lot of sex workers in this world while people on Tumblr and Twitter like to think sex work is just "YEAH I can fuck WHOEVER I WANT and I get MONEY!!!!" But refuse to listen to the sex workers who speak about abuse in the industry too 🤷‍♀️

ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME? THIS LITERALLY NOT FUCKING EXUSE TO MADE HIM GAY STEREOTYPE AND AGAIN ANGEL NOT THAT FUCKING INTERESTING OR GOOD CHARACTERT , VIV ARE YOU WATCH YOUR OWN FUCKING SHOW!?

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It isn't Viv making Dahmer a "sexy demon", you're reading way too much into this. It's not like she is saying, "I STAN murderers and cannibals and they are such uwu babies."

Context matters which you are ignoring. Of course demons (not all I'm sure) in hell are going to be supportive of Jeffrey Dahmer. And why can't people make jokes about Dahmer? People make jokes about serial killers all the time in a bunch of shows. If you're going to act woke and call Viv out about adding Dahmer in her pilot episode, maybe also call out other shows that do the same thing.

And no, I will not shut the fuck up. Y'all are just finding reasons to be angry and triggered at this point. If you don't like it then don't watch it sis 🤷‍♀️

Guys, I just realized Vivziepop made a reference to an irl cannibal in Hazbin Hotel.... I hate it here

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Wow it's almost as if the term "Easter Egg" exists for a reason

The show Lucifer also mentioned Jeffrey Dahmer and how Lucifer and Maze have met him but I don't see yall freaking out about that.

It's... almost as if it's a funny little JOKE that yall tumblrinas want to act WokeTM about. Please do us a favor and don't reproduce.

Guys, I just realized Vivziepop made a reference to an irl cannibal in Hazbin Hotel.... I hate it here

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"Sex worker stereotypes"

Um he dances on poles because he's a sex worker, how is that a sex worker stereotype lmaoooooo

Jesus, please cry us a river while you all wallow in your own tears about a show that has hurt your fee fees and how dare a show that's meant to be offensive, be offensive.

I can't wait for the show to air and for Viv to get millions of dollars while piss babies like you continue to cry about it. It'll be sweet bliss.

ARE YOU FUCKING KIDDING ME? THIS LITERALLY NOT FUCKING EXUSE TO MADE HIM GAY STEREOTYPE AND AGAIN ANGEL NOT THAT FUCKING INTERESTING OR GOOD CHARACTERT , VIV ARE YOU WATCH YOUR OWN FUCKING SHOW!?

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Grow up

YEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSS!!!!!!

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Here's another post about me living up to my name:

Today I'm calling out the anti-recovery side of Tumblr and how GROSS it is. I see a lot of posts bashing "neurotypicals" who are telling those with mental illness that should take a walk to help with their depression and the other person makes a snarky remark like, "wow if only I could do that, Karen."

Here's the thing: I have mental illness and have been going to therapy for 10 years now. My friends and family have mental illness and some of them also go to therapy. The "neurotypical" advice that is given to those of us with mental illness isn't just some bullshit advice (most of the time.) It really is helpful. It may not cure you depression, anxiety, bipolar, etc., but coping skills DO help. Taking a walk may distract you for a short time. You don't have to walk a mile or walk through your whole neighborhood but maybe walking around your block can help. Maybe taking your dog out for a walk can help because it is a healthy coping skill. Instead of sitting in the same spot letting your mental illness symptoms consume you and make you feel worse, going outside in the sun and breathing fresh air will help you a little bit. And it's not just taking walks, maybe it's cleaning a room in your home, drawing, reading, listening to music, cooking your favorite meal. These little things, these coping skills, DO help. Especially if you keep practicing them every single day or every time you know you are experiencing negative symptoms of your mental illness.

But for some reason, a lot people on Tumblr despise that. I get that bettering yourself can be hard. I get that. I REALLY get that. But also, you WILL NOT get better unless you push yourself TO get better. Taking medications isn't the only solution. Taking medication, going to therapy and using positive coping skills WILL help combat your mental illness. Especially if you do it enough to where eventually you will automatically go to your coping skills the moment you know you don't feel okay. Yeah, listening to music won't cure your depression or whatever mental illness you have but it will help distract you from your destructive thoughts. And not only that, maybe you will end up finding new music that you like.

You deliberately being bitter and refusing to better yourself where others can publicly see it is bad. Because when you show that you are refusing to even put forth the effort to better your mental illness or put forth this idea that you will never get better then others will see that and also think they won't ever get better when they CAN.

A lot of people of this site preach self-recovery and self-care but also get mad when people offer self-care tips and automatically refer to them as neurotypical while also screeching, "I CAN'T DO THAT BECAUSE I'M DEPRESSED!!!!!"

But... you can. You CAN do that thing that people are suggesting will help. You just have to put forth the effort to DO it. Trust me, I went through a very dark period in my life where I thought nothing will get better, what's the point of it all, I should just die. But I also hated feeling depressed. I hated crying all the time, I hated being suicidal. I hated the dark feelings I had. So I did something about it because that's all we really want, right? We want to feel normal and happy again. We may not get 100% there but seeking help and using positive coping skills will help pull us out of that dark place.

So when someone tries to offer you genuine or helpful advice that's coming from a place of concern or help or an overall good heart, don't be a dick and think you're being this cool edgy sad person by refusing it and calling said person a neurotypical. Because I really think at this point some of you just enjoy being bitter assholes who refuse to better yourselves and think that having mental illness is a justified excuse to be a shitty person when it really isn't.

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So there is something I want to talk about that is Hazbin Hotel related. I understand people who have AUs and such which is fine HOWEVER I came across this one specific artist who I personally find disgusting with their AU. Why is it that people feel the need to pair Charlie with Alastor and then make their relationship sexual? We finally have a healthy lesbian relationship and also a character that is CANON to be asexual but people find the need to A. Sexualize Alastor and make him sexual despite the creator asking people to NOT do that and B. Every time there is a gay or lesbian couple, people are like HMMMM let's make them straight. Also this artist likes creepy "claiming" fetishes where Charlie gets branded by Alastor and then causes her to be brainwashed and kill Vaggie. Like... that's so fucking weird and gross, stop. Your AU is shit and those of us in the LGBT community are tired of people like you who feel the need to make gay characters become straight and make asexual characters become sexual. Also yeah, the artist is thatsaltybobcat on Instagram.

And don't even get me started on her shit AU story she has on AO3 that's also problematic on so many levels.

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Who gives a fuck. Just let people enjoy shit and shut the fuck up.

Can we all just completely be done with Harry Potter please? Not just in a silly haha “read a new book” way. Just, please stop talking about Harry Potter. Every single possible thing that can be said about Harry Potter has already been said dozens and dozens of times. Talk about literally anything else. Anything! We can stop acknowledging that it exists now. Especially while it’s author actively campaigns to take away the civil rights of transgender people. Also, read a new fucking book!!

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VivziePop: has had these characters made since both high school and middle school, has been developing the Hazbin backstory since she was in high school and college, has had multiple streams discussing what's been going on with development and actively making the effort to make Hazbin Hotel big

Erica Wester: released an animated short 5 years ago and has not pushed it any further

Yeah, no wonder Hazbin Hotel got picked up and Welcome to Hell didn't. It's almost like... VivziePop earned it.

YEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSS!!!!!!

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Oh no, there are meanies in Hell who don't give a shit about what other people's feelings.

Ok snowflake

YEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAASSSSSSS!!!!!!

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"Homophobia"

All of the characters are gay. All of the main characters are gay or part of the LGBT community. Just because a character who literally has the name KILLJOY in her name said she doesn't touch the gays then the show is homophobic? Did you forget that Katie Killjoy is a literal bitch and they are literally in Hell? Yeah, there are going to be assholes characters. Holy shit.

"Racist"

I'm gonna take a wild guess and say you're referring to the character Vaggie, right? Vaggie, who got angry when people were doubting and insulting her girlfriend. Just like any other person would do if their girlfriend was getting shit on. "Oh she's a Latina stereotype!!" She really isn't and Vaggie is LITERALLY based off of the creator of the show who is a BISEXUAL LATINA WOMAN. Again. Holy shit.

"Bad things the creator has done"

Oh you mean the shit she did back when she was a MINOR and in HIGH SCHOOL? That she has PUBLICLY apologized for MULTIPLE TIMES. The same shit that happened OVER TEN YEARS AGO??? Oh and let's not forget the literal YouTube videos DEBUNKING all of the other allegations against her that weren't true?

It's so funny that the people who hate Hazbin Hotel and VivziePop hate it for the dumbest reasons. You can not like a show because it doesn't appeal to you personally, that's fine. But when you try to make up some kind of problematic stories about the show, cast and creator when you 1. Can't back up your claims and 2. Can't do your own research and will blindly follow anyone who says otherwise REALLY shows how stupid cancel and callout culture is.

hi, i saw you drew commission art of h*zbin hotel a little while ago so i wanted to ask if youre aware of the homophobia, racism, etc of the show, and the bad things the creator has done? not accusing you of anything, just asking

siiiiiigh I am more aware than I care to be, yes but like man do u expect me to pull out the problematic receipt tomes and triple cite all my sources in a sea of lies and nonsense and internet conflicting Froth just to draw some busts, from a pilot i watched, decided was adult swim level poor taste potato chips, and said ‘u kno what yeah alright I’ll draw that for grocery money, this is easily forgotten in the sands of time’ i like to eat, anon! eat and pay rent! are you paying my rent so that I can peruse the 800 chapters of receipts with my 1 and a half quarantine depression braincells, because then I will, that’ll be $180 please, equivalent exchange