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btw you still have to take accountability when your mental health issues hurt other people. contrary to what people online might tell you you can still unintentionally be abusive because you have untreated mental health issues. you can't just go "I wasn't an abuser, I was having a crisis" after someone tells you that what you did in crisis hurt them immensely. i thought we've been over this but it bears repeating:

mental health is an explanation, not an excuse [pt: not an excuse]

Unintentional manipulation is still manipulation. Unintentional emotional abuse is still emotional abuse.

You aren't inherently a bad person or "an abuser" (whatever your image of "an abuser" looks like) for doing abusive actions. What's important is owning up to them, apologizing, and giving people the space they need to recover while you work on yourself to avoid shit like that in the future. If you don't do that? Yeah, people are gonna call you abusive.

You are not inherently infallible because you're mentally ill. Tough pill to swallow, but you still gotta get it down one way or another.

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You have innate worth as a human being.

There is nothing you have to do to earn it.

There is nothing you can do to diminish it.

You are worthy and nothing can take that away.

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having good & true friends will literally save and protect you in a million unfathomable ways. like okay we have written so many times about lovers. but the way a platonic friend laughs and cries with you. the way they hold your hand at 14 years old and at 34. the way they keep a little silver tie to you, touching base over and over and over. how you can go years without talking, only to re-meet and discover: oh shit! you're still cool!

there are people who have been in my life for more than half of it, and i have loved every version of them. do you know how fucking beautiful that is. yeah love will save the world. but the way friends love you is gonna save the you.

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this post is so funny to me because this is absolutely a thing and was very popular at one point. people already did it 40 years ago and its called new romantic

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STAY SAFE!! [ID: the Gilbert Baker pride flag with the words “Happy pride to all those who are unable to celebrate openly and safely. You are loved and seen!” in all-caps black text over it. /end ID]

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idk im really tired of 15-17 year olds who have never interacted with the gay community irl and spend too much time on tiktok trying to act like the authority on all that is lgbt+ 

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first youtube analysis i've wanted to watch voluntarily

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"Halsey has main character syndrome" "Taylor Swift has main character syndrome"

There is only one person who has ever actually had main character syndrome and it is the Vampire Lestat.

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you just hate me because i am a bad person with bad morals

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do the kids today even know about azlyrics? the calming lavender?

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i am normal about music and you can trust me around sounds

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My world <3 @bisexualnbfrisk