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If you think you know who I am No you don’t ✌️

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If I’m not getting better I’m getting worse but there’s a harmony to it all 🎶

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Flashlights cannot reflect back on themselves so I should thank my enemy for he reflects back how brightly I truly shine ✨ 🔦

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— via knjfedog

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Don’t forget there’s technology in our tears 💧

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Is that your name or did someone give it to you?

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I can do just about anything as long as my entire future is on the line. 🫣🤸🌅

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I need this on a bumper sticker ❤️‍🩹

ironically the accumulated stress of trying to manage being disabled without adequate support (whatever that looks like for you) tends for things to become more disabling

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Him: You’re so sexy babe, setting the mood with all of these candles ❤️‍🔥

Me: First of all, this is a seance ☠️

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I will be celebrating this milestone with gratitude and badass dancing 🥳🫶💃

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I’ll happily break my fingers reblogging this 🫶

Begging people to understand that homophobia doesn't mean "being mean to gay people because they're gay", misogyny doesn't mean "being mean to women because they're women," and transphobia doesn't mean "being mean to trans people because they're trans."

These are all intertwined systems of oppressive social control.

The whole THING is that gender policing of all types is used to keep people in line to make them act "normal" (to act as their gender should).

When a young boy doesn't want to play football and his brothers do, and they call him a sissy, they are being homophobic, transphobic, and misogynistic. Even if he is straight and cisgender.

If a cishet woman is derisively asked "what are you, a lesbian?" For having short hair, she has experienced homophobia, transphobia, and misogyny.

One of the reasons it's so necessary to discuss them is because they are systems of control. The words aren't just describing types of hate crimes etc perpetrated against certain groups of people, it describes the violent aspects of cisnormativity, heteronormativity, and the patriarchy.

This post was made bc im mad about ppl being like "how would a person not lgbtq experience homophobia" (something I literally just saw) and "trans men can't experience misogyny and especially not transmisogyny" and "I'm a wholeass lesbian I can't be homophobic" (both sentiments I've seen multiple times before almost word for word). Those are just a few examples of the stuff I've seen said online from people who unfortunately don't understand how systems of oppression work to keep everyone in line.

Transphobia, homophobia, and misogyny are all inseparably intertwined because they come from the same place and have the same purpose.

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So spot the fuck on 🎯

it’s just so??? absolutely insane??? that a woman’s natural state is considered to “not look like a woman”??? that the only way to “look like a woman” is to look as little as possible like the woman you naturally are?????

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My love for this post has no limits 👏💗

whats feminist about dragging other women for their appearance. what's feminist about calling other women ugly. what's feminist about mocking women with facial hair. what's feminist about mocking women with small or no breasts and equating their worth to their boobs. what's feminist about abusing fat women and mocking them for how clothes look on our bodies. what's feminist about saying women's body's have to be 1 specific size and shape or else the person isn't a woman. what's feminist about boiling women down to whether or not they're beautiful and making that be their ultimate worth? what's feminist about harrassing a woman, or anyone else, who wants or needs to take testosterone HRT because testosterone is "evil" and will make them "ugly"?

what's feminist about saying someone can't be a woman because they don't have the same face shape as you. what's feminist about saying that athletic cis women have bodies that are disgusting and "too much like a man's to be a woman". what's feminist about demonizing and antagonizing women who are sex workers. what's feminist about telling butch women who are happy that they're being misguided by the patriarchy for being masculine. what's feminist about demonizing and isolating women who have healthy sex lives? what's feminist about criticizing women who don't want to have children and equating that to their end all be all in life? what's feminist about treating a woman like a failure if they don't have children?

what's feminist about oppressing, abusing, manipulating, hurting, isolating and brainwashing women?

nothing. none of this is feminism. don't let that word leave your mouth if you can't conceptualize that abusing women will never be feminist, even women you personally don't like.

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Because we 👱🏻‍♀️🥷 would be too happy for this Earth 🌍 on this timeline ⏳ in this dimension 💫 so keep circling me until we get there 💞

In another universe, we meet, get married, and live happily ever after.

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God gave us free will

so if he’s not making everyone’s decisions for them

neither should you ✊

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Them: Human life begins at conception and should be protected at all costs. Not doing so is an abomination of God equivalent to murder. ✝️

Me: Believing in your heart that all human life begins with a fertilized egg is fine by me as long as we’re ready to talk about the human embryos that are discarded, forgotten, or otherwise destroyed due to the inherent nature of some fertility treatments. I get having antipathy towards someone because their choices make you feel icky inside and bonus points if you’ve interpreted the bible in ways to justify your position. I believe humans are capable of navigating the whole embryo dichotomy if protecting “life” is really the goal here. But for me, attempting to take away my rights to my body and then forcing me to do things I don’t want to do is a form of abuse and yes, this is the hill I’m prepared to die on 🪦⚖️✌️

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LOUDER for all of the anti-choice enthusiasts in the back! 🗣️📣👏