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ENTP Problems

You know all about the poor time management, laziness, and procrastination.

But let’s get real for a second.

Deflecting emotions with humor because it goes against your pride to admit to being hurt by someone else.

Fetishizing sadness because it seems more meaningful and poetic than being happy.

Thinking that being ENTP means you have to be creative and fun all the time, and feeling worthless when you don’t have good ideas.

Beating yourself up for not being the best and not having the energy to try to be.

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the "emotional wreck, but pretends everything is alright" squad

ENTP, ISFJ, ENFJ, ISTJ, INTP, INFJ

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What INFPs need in relationships

-Constant reminders that their partner is still interested -Need to be able to openly talk to partner -An emotionally deep partner -A partner who doesn’t take silence as a yes, because INFPs have a hard time saying no -To not feel guilty when flaws in the relationship are pointed out -Deep and constant conversations -An uneven ratio of depth and small talk -Comfort and safety -Someone they can help -A partner who is not harsh or overly critical -A partner who compliments their weaknesses

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leda clones + mbti

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mbti as wikihow images

ISTP

ESTP

ISFP

ESFP

ISTJ

ESTJ

ISFJ

ESFJ

INFP

ENFP

INFJ

ENFJ

INTP

ENTP

INTJ

ENTJ

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tag your mbti type and the types of the people you hang out with the most

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mbti as wikihow images

ISTP

ESTP

ISFP

ESFP

ISTJ

ESTJ

ISFJ

ESFJ

INFP

ENFP

INFJ

ENFJ

INTP

ENTP

INTJ

ENTJ

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Did a silly little thing to illustrate some differences between extraverted feeling and introverted feeling!

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ISFJ - Ravenclaw

(because there aren’t enough bronze Ravenclaw aesthetics)

MBTI Aesthetics

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Destroying the Myth of Si

We all know the stereotypes. High Si users are “dutiful, responsible, stick to the rules, respect authority, etc”. They would never be called lazy– it’s highly that the MBTI community would look at a lazy person and never assume that they’re a high Si user.

Let me tell you something: “dutiful” “responsible” and “hard working” are POSSIBLE traits of high Si– IF the person has come to believe that this is the way shit gets done, and if it is what they are used to, grew up with, etc. These traits have nothing to do with Si itself, and it’s even possible for a high Si user to have none of these traits.

Si at its core is simply this: Recalling experiences and details and using it to compare what is expected, known, and reliable. It is looking at what has worked for them in the past to determine what to do in situations, how to solve problems, etc. It is looking at what has made a strong impression on them– whether good or bad– and storing that information to use for every possible situation in which this scenario comes up (which is why it’s so important not to make a terrible first impression with a high Si user).

Let’s use an example. Let’s examine my ESFJ aunt. This 47 year old woman has never worked a day in her life– neither in a profession, nor as a housewife, nor anything else. She has always lived off of others good graces by using Fe to guilt relatives, friends, or her partner into letting her continue the lifestyle she has always had. An uninformed MBTI fan might say “That’s no ESFJ– she’s not responsible”. She doesn’t have to be– she is simply doing what she is used to, and what has always worked for her. This is what has yielded results, and what she will likely always fall back on. It’s an unhealthy example, yes, but she is truly an ESFJ nonetheless.

In this way you can almost say that high Si users can be the most diverse of each other of all of the types, because how they behave and what they decide to do in situations is highly reliant on what they’ve experienced and been through. One ISTJ can decide to confront someone in a situation because they have learned that reliably gets results, while another ISTJ can decide to avoid the same confrontation because they have learned for some reason or another in their lifetime that confrontation is a waste of time and only leads to more problems. One ISFJ may adore doctor’s visits while another may refuse to go because of one very bad experience that they had (meanwhile Ni users will go to the doctor primarily due to future consequences, no matter what experience they’ve had in the past, and this is the most distinct difference between Ni and Si, but that’s a discussion for a different day). This is not to say of course, that non-Si users don’t consider their past experiences at all when making a decision– but Si-doms will consider it first and foremost, and for them it will happen automatically before they are even conscious of it.

Saying a high Si user must be responsible, dutiful, and hard working is like saying a high Fi user is always just, merciful, and kind (<— once again, possible Fi traits, but not a necessity because Fi at its core is simply making decisions based on the user’s personal beliefs and happiness– so therefore if the user believes it’s no good to give people mercy, then they will not be merciful!) In order to properly type someone, you cannot focus on these possible “byproducts” of the functions, but instead, examine what the person bases their decisions off of, and what they consider important when solving problems.

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me all the time ever

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Fe users: i can hate you all i want but you aRE NOT ALLOWED TO HATE ME BACK

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Popular MBTI pairings as gifs

INTJ + ENFP

ENTJ + INFP

INTP + ENFJ

ENTP + INFJ

ISTJ + ESFP

ESTJ + ISFP

ISFJ + ESTP

ESFJ + ISTP

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MBTI TYPES AS NOTHING!

ISFJ:

ESFJ:

INTJ:

ENTJ:

INTP:

ENTP:

ISFP:

ESFP:

INFJ:

ENFJ:

INFP:

ENFP:

ISTP:

ESTP:

ISTJ:

ESTJ:

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Why they’re awesome: Sensors

Because there are too many posts that are solely for intuitives

ESFJ: They have so much love to give and they try so hard to spread it as far as they can. They’re good with people, in touch with their emotions and pretty organised. I don’t think it’s fair that they exist tbh. ISFJ: Their mind is just like a scrapbook of precious memories. Their very presence is a reminder of good times and again they try so hard to make people happy. ESTJ: No one has their shit together more than this lot. If there’s a crisis these guys are on it. ISTJ: Loyalty and dedication are everything to these people. They strive to keep peace and order but also value truth and honesty. They just want to do what’s right. ESTP: Always up for a wager. Live in the moment and live for the buzz but still kinda care about people and usually try to avoid making them too uncomfortable. ISTP: Observant and analytical. Unique sense of humour that I, as an INTP, have a great appreciation for. Always up for an adventure. ESFP: Life and soul of the party. Brighten up any room and can coax a laugh out of anyone. ISFP: Sensitive with an eye for beauty but also moral af.