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New Monday ~ Keep Writing

New Monday ~ Keep Writing

There will be people who will do everything in their power to stop you from pursing your dreams. A whole lot of people will be one of three things. Extra positive, who ignore all negatives. Extra negative who ignore all positives. The third is the best kind. They will be the ones who aren’t afraid of the positives or negatives. They live in the balance of realism. They will accept both as…

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When You Think About the Psychology of Your 'Positive'

When You Think About the Psychology of Your ‘Positive’

Writers know that there are both heroes and villains. The conflict and balance makes or breaks the story. If everyone is nice, the story will be boring. If everyone is evil, the story has no purpose. Some people like mindless ‘nice’ or brain dead ‘awful’. Both, in a weird way, make somebody happy. That’s been the focus of this blog for a while now. ‘happiness’. A thing I studied for a very…

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Be You. They Will Adjust

Be You. They Will Adjust

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I'm Tired

I’m Tired

Tired of hustle culture. Tired of the ghosts of cruel people with insidious intensions. Tired of playing wack-a-mole with deleting or blocking. Tired of social media that feels like empty calories. Tired of vapid social constraints that tell us what we’re “supposed to” do, be, say, look like or feel. Tired of allowing just anyone to follow us, even if they bring their bad energy or bad…

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What would Aaron Sorkin Say?

What would Aaron Sorkin Say?

I’m restructuring where I focus on social media platforms. I dumped Tumblr and Twitter. I added on Linktr.ee (not sure I’ll keep it yet) I’m also living in the balance of where I’m going to spend my time. Am I a writer? Or, am I still in the psychology business? Or, should I say, psychology politics? How big do I want to go with this? Who do you admire most? The midlevel, small, simple life…

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I Meme It ...

I Meme It …

Remember this ~ if you share your experience with someone ~ try to explain who or why you are you ~ they don’t get to tell you how to feel about that experience. We have a LOT of meme’s out there and experts (which imo, is almost criminal) telling people that they “should” or, “exaggerating” or, “imagining” or, “well, if you think this positive thoughts you’ll be …” Don’t let the meme makers…

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Notice Everything, The Pearls and the Deeper Meaning

Notice Everything, The Pearls and the Deeper Meaning

The last couple of years have given me the opportunity to study everything. The internet is our pearl. That just means you have to dig around in a lot of oysters. Salty little gelatinous yuk balls if you ask me. When did we decide that the little ball of hardened oyster spit was so valuable, it is now considered a luxury item? Photo by Maria Orlova on Pexels.com When did we decide that eating…

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Okay creatives ... end of day 4 ...

Okay creatives … end of day 4 …

How’d you do? The people who are full time writers with a fan base and a solid foundation in the writing world are going to be better at this. Right from the start. Pay no mind. You are an artist. A creative. Your drive to do the work is more valuable than the money. Money driven people don’t understand that. I stumbled on this meme and thought about it all day Okay … that’s it. Just a check…

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Hello to Whomever Reads This Page

Hello to Whomever Reads This Page

Since 2006, I have worked slowly (very slowly) on a writing career while working more diligently on a career in the mental health/psychology business. Henry Healing dot com is a ‘mothership’ or calling card of both. I’m a bit slow on the uptake about keeping up with the website too. I decided that Happiness Noir needed a facelift. Not a pep talk. Not a dish the dirt or spill the tea about all…

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NaNoWriMo 2022 ...

NaNoWriMo 2022 …

It’s on like Donkey Kong …. I’m in. I did it. Committed to 50K words in a month. That means … no time to write here for a while, but if you’re in the NaNo & want to be buddies, with a real name and real ID … send me a comment/DM. Otherwise, writing is part of our creative brain. Me? I’m more right brained … strongly so. Creative over analytics. We’ve been conditioned to think that we are one or…

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To Find That Perfect Someone ...

To Find That Perfect Someone …

Be You. The World Will Adjust. ~ Thank you Oscar

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What Did Social Media Teach You this Year So Far?

What Did Social Media Teach You this Year So Far?

What? It’s a Saturday Night and I’m home with my cats … we all deserve a break from being serious now and again. Here’s the link to 128 cats being cute. https://www.boredpanda.com/hilarious-cat-snapchats/?utm_source=pinterest&utm_medium=social&utm_campaign=organic

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Favorite Things ... poetry

Favorite Things … poetry

**for every person who has ever been told that they are too much and not enough in tandem** Poets save souls @thefemalelead “Breath” by Becky Hemsley @talkingtothewild #poetry #trees #forest #feminist #feminism #inspiring ♬ original sound – The Female Lead Be you. The world will adjust.

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Let's Just Let This Sit Here for a Spell

Let’s Just Let This Sit Here for a Spell

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Some things to think about heading into tomorrow ...

Some things to think about heading into tomorrow …

Kicking up the Favorite Things links on HenryHealing.com ~ and on ETSY, which is all OG one of a kind artwork. If it sells, it sells. I know a lot of people are using Canva (like I did for these) to create quotable, then selling them as digital imprints on ETSY .. which I may or may not do. But really, if people are going to not create their own stuff … well, that’s not my cup of tea. All I…

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I'm Writing a Journey #RoadTripToNoWhere on Kindle Vella KH Miller

I’m Writing a Journey #RoadTripToNoWhere on Kindle Vella KH Miller

If we had to choose one job title, mine would be ‘essayist’. Anthony Bourdain Writing is exhausting, isolating, and hard on the keister. What it is not, is hard on our physical body. Working in a corporate world pales in comparison to working in a service industry. Working in a service industry is nothing compared to being a migrant worker. Each job, title and career has it’s own unique…

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Don't Let Them Tell You How To ...

Don’t Let Them Tell You How To …

How old are you? How old were you when you realized you wanted to change your life? These benches are so pretty in real life, I sit next to them so I can admire the craftsmanship. How old were you when you were bullied? Or shamed? Or blamed for bad things that happened to you? Not everyone survives a social, emotional abuser, but those who do, know that they are living in a different…