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The fact that ur having intrusive thoughts abt something means that that thing is the opposite of who you are. It’s absolutely against what you stand for and your ocd/mental illness is using it against you. The intrusive thought puts it there because it’s something that will make you feel bad about yourself. It’s engineered to make you feel like a bad person, but your recognition that those thoughts are bad proves the opposite. You are a good person.

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Emotional Abuse

The following are associated with emotional abuse:

- Withholding love, affection and attention

- Ignoring, or refusing to communicate with, the person

- Threatening the individual

- Abandoning, or threatening abandonment

- Fits of anger and rage

- Engaging in chronic deceit

- Criticizing, belittling, ridiculing or demeaning the individual

- Negatively labelling the person

- Controlling their life and ordering them around

- Minimizing their opinions, and ignoring the person’s wishes, needs and preferences

- Gaslighting, and denying the individual’s reality

- Isolating the person from their family and friends.

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Calming growth

The more I grow up, the more I tend to become as calm as possible .. The more I appreciate satisfying and ambient music.. The more I tend to make my friends circle smaller ..

I am no longer into that messy life style.

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most of the time i feel nothing. no good nor bad feeling. nothing. then all of a sudden, i feel so good and it travels very fast .. idk whats this.

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I keep it serene

I like to keep it calm and serene.

Friendship, love relationship, familial connection .. I tend to go through it softly..

I'm not into fights. I hate them. I'm not the type that would scream back on your face or take revenge if you treated me unjustly..

I will simply tell you how bad it makes me feel, expecting you to admit your negative gesture, discuss it maybe and apologize SINCERLY. And I simply will forgive you wholeheartedly and love you even more, why not give you a warm hug aswell.. As calmly as that.

And if I did you wrong, I definitely won't hesitate to do the same, I'm not the type to defend my negative behaviors towards you ..

I like to discuss it, solve it, explain why I did what I did, apologize, clean our hearts with love and pureness, learn from it and from each other .. But never will I defend fighting and aggressiveness..

Because I'm born calm, soft and serene.. ✨

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who wants to join me? 🍁🌲🎃

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The Edge of Love (2008)

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How I'm made

Not complicated, nor introverted

But honestly? Solitude is my thing

It's the bestest best friend till now

The positive state of mind

Satisfaction and clarity

That unique kind of serenity

No drama, No hurt, No heartlessness

And of course, NO human around

These make me appreciate solitude more

I do feel the need to give love and stay around my people

But solitude is one of my people

The most precious of them

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