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10 Commandments of a Healthy Dating Lifestyle!

LaBossBomb presents 10 Commandments of a Healthy Dating Lifestyle *Be advised that the following information has been copywritten* Last night, I had the honor of hosting my own segment on #DaBlackTopRadio stationed out of Virginia! I was apprehensive about sharing these tips. Of course, it's my own opinion and you know I tend to add my own spin on things. So pleased be advised that this isn't your ordinary rinky-dink, cliche, cotton candy version of dating tips. My list consist of realistic ways to approach dating or maintain a healthy dating lifestyle. I would actually consider these 10 listed tips as the 10 Commandments of a Healthy Dating Lifestyle. Some of you will read the list and realize that they way have been approaching the dating scene has been all the way wrong; hence the reason why you're so curious about this list (wink)! While others are simply curious because they want to see how many of the commandments they are actually following. Well, trust me-I wouldn't stir you wrong. These commandments will land you a "BAE" in no time or simply keep that fresh relationship- healthy! So here goes everything! Commandment 1- Everyone doesn't deserve your realness. To be real with someone means that you are offering the gift of respect. Everyone is not "real." That "real" term has been extremely overused and it's borderline a verbal guard that is often used by fake ass people. To give someone your realness, your rawness, your truth- that is privilege. It is ok to conceal what you are actually looking for and what you like and don't like. The point of meeting new people and entering a new relationship is to LEARN. Don't go in waving the "I'm real" flag- allow the person of your interest to earn your realness. Commandment 2- Premature emotions is a big no-no. People often get their feelings involved way too fast; typically because sex, lots of talk time, infatuation, and such happens in the early stage of dating nowadays. No judgement here, but please remember that everyone is nice at the beginning for the most part, everyone is dancing around "what they really want." As people get older, they feel more pressure to settle down! PLEASE DON'T FORGET TO HAVE FUN AND USE YOUR MEDULA! Logic, my friends, logic! Don't let the pressure or even your wants to be with someone cloud your judgement. Don't forget that learning someone is a lifetime process. People will only show you the representative of who they want you to think they are for only a limited amount of time. Bullshit always expires. Commandment 3- You are not the only one trying to be the only one. Realize that people are more than likely dating others before you guys met or connected. Stop playing house before you know their social security number! Haha.. Take things slow and stop placing stipulations on people you don't even know or have an obligation to you. Make your time together, the best time, the most unforgettable time. If you person of interest is truly single, you will notice that person wanting to spend more time with you and progressively knock those pawns off the board. You didn't know this was a game? Come on. Commandment 4- Observe before you speak. Stop judging people. I know, it's hard. We always love to screen a person before we take them seriously. But that just brings us back to the issue of not really getting to know a person. Every thing that is worth it takes time; fame, wealth, goals, opportunity, etc. Even when you compare a microwaveable meal to a homecooked meal in the oven or the crock pot- there's no comparison. But many choose to microwave their relationships and expect it to taste like a home-cooked meal. GET TO KNOW THEM. Not with many questions but observing their movements, how they speak to others, how they treat themselves, how they navigate through life. Commandment 5- Stop worrying about the past. We have a bad habit when it comes to asking about the past. Unless their past is chasing them or interfering with what you have going on, then realize it's not their past. They clearly have some chapters to close or some restraining orders to file! Other than that, you have no business prying into their previous escapades because quite frankly- what in the hell does that have to do with you? How will it benefit you? You won't get to know the better person if you force them to bring up the past. Let people share what they want to share and if you find out otherwise, then you have every right to ask away. But don't forget that the person isn't obligated to explain anything before you, to you. Commandment 6- Let it go Yes, I'm speaking to you! Let it go. Stop comparing and contrasting your people of interest. That has to be the most unattractive quality about a person; when they speak to you, about you, as if you are categorized with the rest of the jackasses. Give everyone a you choose to date a fair shot at showing you who they are. Your past must have not been that great if you are still currently seeking- so cut the negativity and move into the light. Accept the fact that you haven't made the best decisions, but those decisions have made you a better person. Commandment 7- You lose them, how you get them. You know what I mean! And if you don't believe me, well then- do your research. All I have to say is this quote by Big Pun "Get your own, your own, you heard?" Commandment 8- Stop fighting over the goodies. You shouldn't be having any drama regarding any cookies in your jar, if the cookies belong to you. There's really no such thing as a cookie monster (man/woman stealer, homewrecker)- because if your person of interest decides to experiment with someone else, maybe there has been a lack of communication regarding what you guys really are and what you expect from another. There should be no reason why you should be confronting a stranger about a problem you have with your person of interest. Commandment 9- You are 1st. Even if you don't feel like you are number 1 to your person of interest; remember that your needs are the priorities. Some of us sacrifice our needs just to feel like we are important to somebody. The whole time, we aren't realizing that sacrificing our needs and wants is a form of self-infliction and neglect. We become angry when we don't feel "important and begin to resent or criticize our person of interest. We accuse them of not being more supportive, or proactive- when in all actually we forgot about ourselves. YOU ARE NUMBER 1. Commandment 10- Stop running your damn mouth. Discretion, discretion, discretion- I couldn't say that enough. The less people know, the more fun you will have and memories you will create. Every good thing that happens between you two; the world doesn't have to know. Every argument you guys have; doesn't need to be reported to the public. You are doing a disservice to yourself by giving the details on your new thing. You are exposing your person of interest as bait and waking up the haters to get to work. Keep things on the low, until you know, it's for sure. #AllLove - Bossy If you would like book me for some relationship tips on your radio show, podcast, panel, my information is [email protected] Twitter: @LaBossBomb IG: @LaBossBomb Please share with your friends and tell me which commandment is your favorite?

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