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From the moment a child is born, they crave touch. They want to be held, not just to eat, but for safety, for warmth, for comfort, for affection–for love. A newborn will show preference in who they want to be held by, especially when they’re tired or sick or scared. We are born ready to be loved. Our first need is to be cared for, to be fed and changed, and held. To learn that we are loved.

Don’t let anyone, anyone tell you have to be able to love yourself before you can be loved. You were born ready to be loved wholly, and having self-esteem issues or a mental illness doesn’t make you any less lovable.

You don’t need to fulfill any condition. You are worth loving. You deserve to be loved, and have deserved to be loved since the moment you were born. You are worth loving.

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We live in a world where being kind to strangers is so rare that it is considered flirting.

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I am honestly so mentally and physically exhausted, I just need to be held.

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Happy summertime everyone 🍦🍃 (at Lincoln, Nebraska)

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Charlie Puth Shirtless Instagram Photo

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Unlikely animal friends

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More people are concerned with why women stay in abusive relationships than why men are abusing women

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Some hard workin doggos

Today Is National Take Your Dog To Work Day.

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A smol arf arf from a smol dog.

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What did we do to deserve dogs?

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Me when I see cute guys at the airport.

Do you ever see a stranger in a random place and think “this is probably the only time I will ever see this person in my lifetime” and feel sad?