mylookinglass

[mylookinglass]

I'm the keymaster to most people. Yes the name does come matrix TV character. I used to hate it, but now I embrace it. No, I don't particularly care what you think of it.

I was born in 1970’s, which makes me old enough. I expect my age number to go up every year, as it has for most of my life.

I have been into BDSM/Kink in one form or another for most of my adult life and I think even before coming of age I was intrigued by many of its concepts in a way. I always had a bit of an obsession with mind control/possession and humans not being human.

I've lived in both the Uk and Switzerland but now live in nsw Australia. I have been active in the local BDSM/Kink scenes in all countries, having organised events and hosted munches in both.

I am looking for a submissive/slave lover and romantic partner.

My BDSM/Kink interests are quite varied and I am always open to try new things. I do have a particular penchant for humiliation, degradation, objectification and dehumanisation (as is no doubt apparent from my blog posts). Transformation, brainwashing, hypnosis and sensory deprivation are also of particular interest.

I have very few taboos and will happily discuss pretty much anything. My only real limits are scat and vomit - mainly because of the mess and smell.

I don't judge anyone for their kinks, unless that so-called kink is blatantly immoral or unethical (i.e. pedophilia, necrophilia etc.).

I prefer to take a holistic approach to sex and BDSM. I believe the whole body can be erogenous and not just the sex organs. The mind is just as important as the body.

Consent is not only essential, I find it highly erotic. When someone consents to an act that is intimate, or taboo, that almost gives me as big a thrill than the actual act itself.

I love to chat with people and I'm generally happy to interact with anyone as long as you're respectful and not an arsehole.

If you're a mysogynist, abuser, racist, homophobe, transphobe or any other kind of bigot, you're not welcome here. If you're trying pass your bigotry or abusive nature off as a kink, you're not welcome here.

Feel free to drop me a message, or ask a question. Anything you write to me in chat is kept private between us, unless otherwise agreed.

What is your sexuality?

I am hetero. That means I am basically straight but I’m not against playing with someone who isn’t female.

Do you practise BDSM with men?

No

Do you like sissies?

Sometimes. I wouldn’t say it was a particular interest of mine though.

Are you looking for a sub/slave/pet?

I’m always open to it for the right person.

Can I be your sub/slave/pet?

Perhaps, but not until I have got to know you first. Let's chat.

Can I send you photos of myself?

Sure - I love to see what you look like. That said, I do not want dick pics.

Will you demand photos from me if I chat with you?

No. Whilst of course I'd love to see you, I am more than happy to wait until you want to show yourself to me. Honestly, that is far sexier and more satisfying.