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Yes I’m butch. No I don’t know how to flirt. Yes I will melt into a puddle if anyone flirts with me even a little. Yes I will then do all the acts of service and give all the physical affection you could want. Yes, we exist

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The rise of discourse about trans mascs/trans men in the lesbian community has me realizing something.

So many of ya'll hate heteronormative standards, but are all too comfortable upholding cisnormativity. I'm fucking tired of people saying "maybe I'm not woke enough for this..." instead of trying to understand queer people's unique perspectives on gender and its relation to sexual identity labels.

Here's my take: Gender is complex and is defined differently by everybody. Womanhood and being socialized as a girl can be notoriously traumatizing due to the sexism ingrained into our society (especially when we're taught from such a young age that we will always be victimized and abused for being women). As such, when someone transitions to a masculine identity, those experiences don't suddenly go away.

And no, you're not "invalidating yourself" by saying you're a lesbian if you're a trans man. You're exhibiting a unique combination of female socialization and male gender identity. And you're not invalidating other trans men, either, because you're not forcing them to use the lesbian label.

Stop pushing queer people into boxes!!! Especially when the lesbian community is known for its gender-nonconformity and trans identities (butches and studs, for example, many of which are transmasc).

I could also talk about how this corresponds with a rise of fascism and conservative values, and that by pushing queer people down you are only contributing to homophobic mentalities, but you CLEARLY aren't ready for that.

Sincerely, a transmasc lesbian

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daydreaming that i’ll have a partner i’m comfortable enough with that we can cosplay/roleplay as one another’s favorite characters in bed

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How it feels trying to find any butches my age or to talk to.

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a butch who hands you their phone and asks “what does this mean?” like you'll save them from any misunderstanding

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I'm like in the middle of desert and I'm thirsty and the only thing that can save me are butch lesbians

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"Butches want to be taken care of too"

I say, knowing full well that I am incapable of letting anyone lift a finger in my presence.

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PLEASE JUST TELL ME IF YOU WANNA KISS MY LIPS. I'm not good at guessing okay??

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I needa stop yearning for some random butch that kept appearing on my page knowing they're too way outta my league and won't even look my way dawgg💔

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nerdy butch that works out and comes home sore x femme who offers them a massage and listens to them yap about their interests

<3

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i feel so good and free masculine i can't believe i pushed this all down & denied myself of this for so long??

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Put your fucking knight on a leash she keeps trying to duel mine

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pretty pls guys!! I want more femme friends, y'all are cool as shit

butches make femme friends! femmes make butch friends! it’s so important to build community!

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my pussy is fat, my lore is immense and my kinks are off putting, who want me

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SOON IT'LL BE MEEEEEEE

College student life is so good like wdym now I can invite girls over and not be afraid to get caught by my parents ???? Life is WORTH IT

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I’m a butch chef. Let me cook for u. You want a steak? You want ribs? You want food? You want ANYTHINGGG?? Let me cook for you. I’ll keep my femme fed.

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One t4t situation ship would destroy a cis person where they stand