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The truth hurts

2 days ago I was coming back from a work training and calling my boyfriend to tell him I was almost home. Little did I know that phone call would be the last. He ended it with me that day. Told me he couldn’t take it anymore I didn’t value him enough I wasn’t a priority. My rabbits were more important and my family and that he didn’t feel like I cared. I gave up everything for him. I never went to a college party, never made any friends in college, ran off every single friend from high school I had. Didn’t go to social events with coworkers...now what do I have? Myself. Me myself and I. I was controlled, threatened to break up if I got a tattoo, arguing matches because I wouldn’t squeeze his hand when he held it. On that day he wouldn’t even talk to me in person. I tried he hid from me. Wouldn’t come home and was hiding in a park. I told him I wanted to see him in person and it was a solid no. Coward. I hope you are miserable ✌🏻

[pjmills2012-blog]

No one should go through this for years like I did

Emotional Abuse

The following are associated with emotional abuse:

- Withholding love, affection and attention

- Ignoring, or refusing to communicate with, them

- Threatening the individual

- Abandoning, or threatening abandonment

- Fits of anger and rage

- Engaging in chronic deceit

- Criticizing, belittling, ridiculing or demeaning the individual

- Negatively labelling the person

- Controlling their life and ordering them around

- Minimizing their opinions, and ignoring the person’s wishes, needs and preferences

- Gaslighting, and denying the individual’s reality

- Isolating the person from their family and friends.