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Some of you desperately need to read the room. I’ve seen some sapphics who are in m/f relationships going to lesbians for validation and acting like victims when we show we don’t relate with that kind of relationship.

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It’s astonishing how so many Europeans (especially from UK, France, Germany, Portugal and Spain) and Americans are incapable of NOT being xenophobic with the global south.

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You know one situation I really can’t blame men on? (At least not entirely)

Boy moms. You know those women who’re all like “born to be your lover, forced to be your mother”?

I know a lot of the time they do this because they’re neglected by their husbands, but that’s just an explanation for their behavior, not an excuse to be like this.

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When you’re trying to comfort someone you know isn’t religious with your own religion, it doesn’t feel genuine, it feels like you’re only doing that to make yourself feel good.

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Lesbians are either fetishized, hated or not taken seriously.

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Being a lesbian is constantly having people trying to gaslight you into making you be attracted to men.

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Americans online constantly prove that no matter what minority they’re part of they’re always gonna be American first.

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Then they either 1) are not lesbians or 2) don’t see their partners as men

Hope this helps!

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One of the things people in the LGBTQ+ community desperately need to do is learn to recognize and acknowledge their privileges compared with other lgbt people.

I fully know I’m privileged for being “straight passing”.

I fully know I’m privileged for being cis.

I fully know I’m privileged for being white.

I fully know I’m privileged for having a supportive family.

Recognizing your privileges doesn’t make you any less part of the community.

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It’s absurd that til this day there’s people who think Santana is bi as if she didn’t literally call herself a lesbian in the show 😭

Idk what their argument is lol just pure lesbophobia

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you'll develop an autoimmune disease by being a bitch all the time

You seem to be a specialist, do you have the same disease as me?

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A lot of you have deluded yourselves thinking gays and lesbians are the most privileged identities in the community when that couldn’t be further from the truth.

Maybe gay (notice gay, not lesbian) is the identity that gets the most visibility, but that might be one of the only privileges comparing with other identities lol

It’s like some of you forget how homophobic people in real life are. We don’t get the privilege of being in a fulfilled cis m/f relationship. People are literally beaten, raped and murdered for being gay or lesbian. It’s still a crime being homosexual in a lot of countries. Conversion therapy still exists in so many places. There’s many countries that, even though it’s not illegal, it’s unsafe to be gay/lesbian, especially if you’re in a relationship.

How’s that a privilege?

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Why are certain people incapable of understanding that if their religion and their beliefs has certain restrictions, then they have certain restrictions and not everyone else.

It’s your religion then those are your own restrictions hoe, not ours

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I have no words lol you really must live under a rock if you think lesbians are the most privileged group in the community, regardless if they’re cis and white. Do you really think we’re less oppressed than cis MEN? Or less oppressed than ANYONE cis people who’re still attracted to the opposite gender?

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I don’t think the US views on race and ethnicity will ever stop shocking me because now some Americans are calling Miranda Cosgrove mestiza when she’s simply white 😭

In Latin America it doesn’t matter if your ancestry when it comes to race. We’re so mixed that the people you don’t consider whiter, only “white passing” are just white here.