One of the things I adore about being around other trans women is getting to watch the people I love grow more confident, more beautiful and more themselves every time I see them. It brings me immense joy!
the fact that some people genuinely believe that amab enbies don't exist literally hurts my brain because the first trans person i ever met IRL was a transfemme agender person. last summer i met an AMAB masc nonbinary person who used he/they pronouns. now that I've been going to queer spaces IRL, I've met so many different kinds of amab non binary people; masc, femme, doesn't matter. if you actually interact with the trans community at large you'll find that we are just as diverse as any other group of people. folks viewing nonbinary as a white afab person phenomenon have had their perspective tinged by their extremely closed off internet circles where they can pick and choose what narratives they adopt without any correction from an external source
yeah yeah yeah sex, kink, flirting, and rushed I love you's are really rad and all that, but some of you need to start treating others as more than just an object of your fantasies
this is a reoccurring problem in this space, and that makes it all the more disappointing
stop letting tumblr dehumanize real people. i am not a pfp or a blog. i am a real person with real feelings.
*grabs your hands and speaks to you in a tone that is so gentle* they/them pronouns stop being universal once you learn a person's pronouns. Sometimes that person's pronouns will include they/them and in that specific case you are allowed to keep using those pronouns for that person. In any case where you learn a persons pronouns and that person doesn't use they/them, you should no longer use those pronouns for that person. If you continue to use they/them pronouns knowing that person doesn't use them, you are now misgendering that person. Kindly stop doing that please. Thank you, I love you.
Went to a concert and had an amazing time. And yes, there is tummy. Also, check out my boots.
Btw it was Laura Jane Grace! It was such a great experience. Getting out there and rocking with other trans people and trying to do some socially acceptable damage to cis people in the pit.