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fr the people on tumblr are so brainwashed sometimes. the way you act like it's ALWAYS the man's fault. it's scary how you guys shut yourself out to evidence when it's the woman who's at fault.

i watched large chunks of the trial and there's nothing that can convince me that amber heard DIDN'T defame johnny with malicious intent. you guys want to go around praising women and "believing women" and of course we should. but there are also times when you have to think critically for a moment and parse the evidence. if after watching the trial and being presented with all the evidence you still think amber heard was sexually/physically abused as she claimed... i don't know what to tell you except to brush up on your critical thinking skills. you need to realize that there are some people who WILL lie, who WILL try to defame others to propel themselves up. you need to watch amber's testimony vs johnny's. don't just run with verdict if you haven't seen the evidence and heard what the lawyers were arguing for.

also if you're still on amber's side, pls go listen to the tape recordings of her ADMITTING to hitting johnny depp (there are multiple ones), then go look up the "evidence" she presented of photographs where she claims johnny "whacked" her multiple time while wearing large rings. images are not consistent with her claims, and they have been edited. then go look up talk shows she appeared on and places she's been photographed in and tell me she was "whacked." and no, makeup will not cover swelling or severe bruising.

then go through all the witness statements and tell me they're all lying. managers, cops, deskman, friends, makeup artists -- they're ALL lying for johnny depp? go watch them and tell me what you think of amber heard verbally abusing johnny in public.

and yes, the claim of sexual assault was defamation. if she was assaulted as badly as she claimed on so many different occasions, she would have needed hospitalization. someone would have noticed. for being such a public figure, photographs would picked up bruises, scratches, etc. but there isn't, except that one photograph TMZ took of her at the courthouse, who knew to show up there and which side of her face to photograph because she or her team alerted them. (btw that bruise showed up mysteriously and was gone the next day.)

also, you're putting blame on the jury, who has to go through hours of deliberation and mounds of evidence. if you weren't there, or you didn't watch the trial, how dare you claim that the verdict was unfair or incorrect. and btw, they awarded amber $2 million for waldman's statement, which i find more than fair.

and before anyone goes off on me, i'm a woman. i withheld my judgment until i heard from both sides in the trial. all evidence suggests that johnny had not been physically or sexually abusive to amber.

by denouncing this verdict so vehemently, you realize that it's unfair to the MEN who don't come forward with domestic abuse. it's a two-way street. Women are more likely to be abused, but that doesn't mean that men aren't. if all you heard is the media coverage and the shit amber spewed, of course you're gonna side with her. but i'm gonna fault you on bad logic if you didn't consider the evidence. you can't pick and choose who you listen to. just cause amber's a woman doesn't automatically make her a victim.

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life has been good recently.

those were the warm, fulfilling days you would spend outside. those were the days you'd find yourself laughing in a crowd of people you barely know, but who make you feel something tingling inside your chest, right under the ribcage. you'd go to the riverside and sit on the steps, still slightly cold after the long winter, but you'd be warm from conversations, music, cheap wine and cigarettes you just found on the road.

those were the days you'd accept being lonely. you'd understand loneliness and happiness do not necessarily go hand in hand, but you do not need to be with someone to feel happy. you'd read your book alone in your room, and while it would make you feel miserable, you'd still smile at the end of it.

those were the days of truly embracing your student life. days of having coffee for breakfast, but nothing else. days of counting every cent you have in your bank account, and being pleasantly surprised it is just enough to afford a pack of cigarettes.

those were the days of staying up all night, but not for the reasons most 16-year-olds dream of. it was to watch movies that would bring you back to said age.

those were the days you re-evaluate things. things like friendship, adulthood, music, books, education, even your cleaning habits, or the lack of thereof. you'd write things down in your journal, and then you'd look at them and laugh at how stupid, how trivial they are, even though a few days ago they weren't considered as such. these were the days of quick growth, but unnoticed by anyone.

it was all about spontaneous decisions, and silky night robes, and summer dresses, and bulky boots, and dry forearms, and chipped nailpolish, and staying hydrated, and taking care of everyone around you. it was in soft movements to tuck your hair behind your ear, and your playlists, and your steps, but also in the subtle lines of your face, your posture, the way you'd talk to strangers.

those days, those things didn't have a name. it would be barbaric to label them, to give them a name that would keep them a constant, unmoving, non-progressing 'things'. and they obviously weren't. it lay on the surface that they were just a visitor, but that they would also not say farewell - rather, a goodbye with a tight hug. and that maybe, eventually, they would stay for longer periods of time, and be more prominent, more present.

but that is yet to be seen. :)

photo credits to me. i am the owner. please do not use without contacting me about it prior.

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@elytrians

this is the only valid twitter thread

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Read this and save a life - YOUR OWN

From a surgical nurse and certified CPR teacher:

Please pause for 2 minutes and read this:

1. Let’s say it’s 7.25pm and you’re going home (alone of course) after an unusually hard day on the job.

2. You’re really tired, upset and frustrated.

3 Suddenly you start experiencing severe pain in your chest that starts to drag out into your arm and up in to your jaw. You are only about five km from the hospital nearest your home.

4. Unfortunately you don’t know if you’ll be able to make it that far.

5. You have been trained in CPR, but the guy who taught the course did not tell you how to perform it on yourself.

6. HOW TO SURVIVE A HEART ATTACK WHEN ALONE? Since many people are alone when they suffer a heart attack without help, the person whose heart is beating improperly and who begins to feel faint, has only about 10 seconds left before losing consciousness.

7. However, these victims can help themselves by coughing repeatedly and very vigorously. A deep breath should be taken before each cough, and the cough must be deep and prolonged, as when producing sputum from deep inside the chest. A breath and a cough must be repeated about every two seconds without let-up until help arrives, or until the heart is felt to be beating normally again.

8. Deep breaths get oxygen into the lungs and coughing movements squeeze the heart and keep the blood circulating. The squeezing pressure on the heart also helps it regain normal rhythm. In this way, heart attack victims can get to a hospital.

9. Tell as many other people as possible about this. It could save their lives!!

10. A cardiologist says If everyone who gets this mail kindly sends it to 10 people, you can bet that we’ll save at least one life.

11. Rather than sending jokes, please... contribute by forwarding this mail which can save a person’s life.

12. If this message comes around you... more than once… please don’t get irritated... You should instead, be happy that you have many friends who care about you & keeps reminding you how to deal with a Heart attack.

please take the time and boost this post by reposting it and sending it to those you love because we all need to understand how to quickly deal with heart attacks

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What’s your sign and your favorite soup?

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Fuck you Greg Abbott

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Bruce wayne is selina’s blorbo

in the next batman movie selina is back in town to con bruce wayne which he knows but he missed her so much and obviously he can afford it so he just lets her

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IMPORTANT HEADS UP FOR HIGH SCHOOL SENIORS!

There is a company called “Vector” that sends out “work opportunity” letters in the mail for graduating seniors. It’s a scam. They promise a nice $17 an hour for zero experience which should be a red flag. It’s a multi level marketing scheme that preys on kids trying to make money for college and it’s gross. If you get one of these letters in the mail, just toss it in the recycle. Some of you may have heard of this or have already received one of these in the mail, but I just wanted to post about it just in case!

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Reblogging for my fellow Muslims

It is our duty as feminists to protect and respect women in Hijabs

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This is the YouTube channel where you can find more videos like this!

https://youtube.com/c/GoldShawFarm

This cat and others ‘work’ on a farm and the owner puts cameras on the cats to show you their POV!

obsessed with this video

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That moment when you are that girl

everyone deserves an older girl to gently walk them through piracy tbh

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You were either a Magic Treehouse kid, a Goosebumps kid, an Animorphs kid, or a Babysitters Club kid.

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9anime for anime.

y'all need to stop legally hatewatching too like a hatewatch is still a view is still a membership to disney+ or whatever.....execs have realized that hatewatching gets as much if not more money to them just pirate please

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University Student 🎓

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A Tribute From Gaza To Shireen Abu Akleh

A beautiful tribute from Gaza to Shireen Abu Akleh. Photo credit: Mohammad Salem/Reuters

Via: Zahara Hassan, Twitter

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notes from my classical mechanics class ft. mcr's new song!!!!!

we're delving into damped oscillations in my mechanics class and there's.... Lots of math! 🌊 idk why i expected anything less T-T it's such a theoretical, and conceptual class i both love and hate it.

like what we get to do is why I'm studying physics in the first place! my heart is in love, but my brain is simply not good at calculus.

i woke up today with a message from my friend telling me that mcr has a new song, and i thought i was still dreaming at first (。_。) (i have been getting lots of dreams lately so-) BECAUSE!!!! 🌟 i have been waiting.... years!!!! for this okay!!!!!

it's surreal almost. i remember 2019 and like, watching the live stream of their comeback, and then bawling my eyes out to my favourite songs (venom, black parade among others). and like, things are very much not that good rn, but!!! I'll be o-fucking-kay i think 🚀

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tonight’s study session in a cafe ☕️